2007-05-30 10:56:59 · 21 answers · asked by logical_jackieo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Think well.... think that someday you will be old and sex will not be the 1st thing on your mind.....?? and your body is not going to be as young and as beautiful... there are other beautiful things that you can share with your couple instead of a good night of hot sex!. So if he is good in bed but you don't share other interests with him..... oh oh... you are loosing the opportunities to share awesome things with the right man!, he must be outside hanging around.... But if you love this man... keep him if you really think he's worth it, you'll never know if you don't give him a chance.
2007-05-30 11:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by kitkat20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its very normal indeed. This person who you obviously have some feelings for, makes you feel more passionate, loved and incredible than anyone else.
Who WOULDNT want that?
However, if the relationship isn't that great, it shouldn't hold you in the relationship. Keep in mind that someone who's the best in bed for YOU, might be sleeping around, and be the best in bed for DOZENS of other partners.
My suggestion, find a good wholesome relationship, where the two of you love honor and respect one another, and work until they are the best sex you ever had. Then, not only do you get the benefits of an incredible partner in life, but you get an incredible partner in bed too.
Thats what I did. And I've been where you are too... and the heartache at the end just wasn't worth the sex, no matter how great it was.
2007-05-30 20:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by KGene1969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being good with your dick in bed doesn't determine an ever lasting relationship, well in a way who doesn't like a little change in plans? guess everyone does, but that shouldn't the only thing to determine the question " do i stay wit u 4ever?
2007-05-30 18:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by asuoonline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing lasts forever. Nor is life based on sex alone. And lastly, just because it's currently the best...Who's to say it can't be topped? That's like going with the highest bidder. Get the message?
2007-05-30 18:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal not to want to give that up, but when you grow up you realize that "best in bed" doesn't mean "best for you" or "best in your life".
Frankly, someone who was "best for me" would have a much longer shelf life than someone whose only redeeming quality was "best in bed". I deserve "best.." more often than in the sack.
2007-05-30 18:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it will wear off, better yet find someone you really love and then train them how to do the things you love. The training is always the fun part.
2007-05-30 18:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by World Peace Now 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If sex is the only reason why you want to stay with someone, I'd say your relationship is pretty shallow. Though sex is great, it isn't everything in the relationship.
2007-05-30 18:31:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal....just not healthy. I tried it and learned that its not the best way to go. Amazing love beats amazing sex in the long run.
2007-05-30 21:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal for u to get that feeling...but it is the worst mistake u will make in ur life.
at the same time if u get ur mr right and he cant keep u happy in bed...u loose ur confidence....and also u feel ur life is doomed.
this is how sick our life is. "karmas"
good luck to you. hope u get the best of life
2007-05-30 18:05:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck Yea! It's nice to have both worlds and be in love with him/her too! I think that is a problem for alot of couples so at least that's one issue you wouldn't have to deal with.
2007-05-30 18:00:30 · answer #10 · answered by ASHES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋