How can I.........?

Question

How can I convince my wife to have sex with others? I would love to watch and participate with her and anyone else she would like to have sex with, but she is too conservative to even consider it. Can anyone give me some ideas as to how I could get her in some compromising situations where whe might follow through on my fantasies?

Answer 1

Hey pervert, you don't know what marriage means, get a divorce so she can have a good life with a real man.

Answer 2

Maybe your wife realizes that what you are asking her leads to TROUBLE! Perhaps when she said her vows she meant that sex should be between two people that are married. If you wanted more in the bedroom you should have stayed single. Perhaps she would be very offended. You are asking how you can trick her into compromising situations! You need to reevaluate the meaning of love and what a marriage is supposed to be. I know several people that took that walk and they all ended in bitter divorce. The spouse preferred the other person and the other spouse was jealous that the spouse would have sex with the person that was brought in with out the him being there. Even though he wanted his wife to bring another person into the marriage bed he was angry when his wife decided to go for a spin with the other person while he was at work. Take some advice and don't put your spouse in that situation. You are playing with fire.

Answer 3

Most of the time you give up fantasies like this once you're married...You shold've tried to experience this before you got in a commited relationship. Wanting to be faithful to you isnt conservative its a basic part of most marriages and you shouldnt try to force her into something that she doesnt want to do or that will make her feel uncomfortable. She might begin to resent you for it...Its a marriage the two of you are going to have to find another way to handle the situation...make a compromise...use sex toys perhaps in the "place" of another person.

Answer 4

You said your wife won't "even consider it".
Therefore, back off, stop being an ****, and respect her sexuality.
You want to try to manipulate her into doing that? Boy, are you an idiot.
I wish she could read your question, she would probably leave you quickly and go find somebody a lot more mature.

I also think this is all about you, you selfish fool. What you are really after is to have sex with other women yourself.
Divorce her, it will be a blessing in disguise.

Answer 5

Have a rich and fulfilling fantasy life! She is committed to YOU! So dream your dreams, even talk about how hot you think it might be, but do not make her feel guilty because she won't indulge this particular desire of yours.
You will make her feel she does not fulfill your needs when you have fantasies that just don't work the way you think they might.
Find another fantasy that she would participate in and have fun! Sharing with others is not her thing.

Answer 6

What kind of response do you expect from a question like that? It's time to 'man-up' and respect the sanctity of the institution that you entered when you married her. If you wanted a swinger than you should have married one. What right do you have to even attempt to change your wife? Is that not THE MOST SELFISH thing you could do?

Think Man! With the big head.

Answer 7

You have problems. What is wrong with you? You are the kind of guy that makes people NEVER want to get married or be in any kind of relationship. What kind of answers were you expecting? Did you actually think that anyone would reccomend that? A big, huge married orgy? Nobody with an ounce of self respect would 1.Ask that of their spouse, and 2.Do it when asked, and anyone who had any respect for others would never ask that of their spouse. You don't deserve to be married. You deserve to be a greasy sleeze filming illegal pornos and getting busted.

Answer 8

If she is the type of girl that takes sex very seriously, then putting her in a position where she is having sex with another person is going to have profound consequences. Whereas it is a fantasy of yours, it will be either traumatising to her, or create a lasting bond to the other person.

Answer 9

well, I am with the wife. my ex constantly asked for that, and I constantly refused. I felt that bringing someone else into our marriage would devalue the vows we made to one another. needless to say, I divorced him over a stripper two years ago, and he died of AIDS in February. (I'm clean. I was scared for a while, but I'm clean!)

to try to fix this, talk your wife into buying a mirror, big mirror, and mount it over the bed. you can "watch" her, get the thrill of seeing her with "another man", and you won't have to give up your vows or your wife for it. not only that, remember what I said about the ex. you never know these days, and you could be inviting death into your house.

Answer 10

this is your fantasy and not hers you are expecting a lot of her to fulfill your dreams if they are not hers ,
and on the off chance she agrees with your persuasion and nagging . she may find that sex with another is better than with you , after all the grass is always longer and greener on the other side . And what if she is conservative and feels that sleeping with another is nothing short of adultery,
Its a fantasy that can be a nightmare.

Answer 11

That is so disgusting, why would you get married if you want others to join in something that should be between two people. To each his own but swinging in my opinion is just gross! And i agree, quit treating your wife like some cheap slut. The best thing she can do is DIVORCE your sorry behind, she deserves so much better....