Mine was a arranged marriage and there was lot of horoscope issue so was forced to marry a girl who i dint like(looks wise) very much..So i was worried very much to know wheather i done any thing wrong.But to my surprise i found that she had a very good character and veryyy loving nature and bit over possesive(thats ok with me).i am every thing to her.Some time i used to think if i married more pretty girl it would be better, but some time i think if she is pretty and not having a nice character or not loving my life will go for a toss.What you people say my decision was right or not,Thanks in advance for your beautiful answers.
2007-05-30 00:42:18 · 16 answers · asked by vipu s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are a lucky person in this world to get such a loving wife, there are so many in this world who gets irritating characters as wife.
2007-05-30 00:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by radhika k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was an arranged marriage, you really did not have a decision as to marry her or not. I think you sound like a sensible man and you are trying to be attracted to her. You mention her loving ways and good character. Those are important characteristics for happiness in a marriage. If you had married a beautiful girl, she may not have those good characteristics. As her beauty fades, you are left with nothing. Good luck to both of you.
2007-05-30 01:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a lucky man. Be happy with what you have. and God designed for you.
If you have a pretty wife may be she would look good for sometime. Age catches up and then her physical beauty dies but the inner beauty or evil whatever is there in the core remains .
I knew a friend whose very sexy and beautiful wife dumped my friend for a better richer man. Initially the little fool was happy that his social life had improved after he married this pretty girl but soon he dicovered that his life is being shared by all others . So count the blessings.
2007-06-01 23:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by padma k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
First want to congratulate to you because you realy took a fantastic decision. Actually I really respect your feelings and decision which you have done because always loves the person who loves you and who cares for you unconditionally, And by doing this you have prooved that you are such a nice person who understand the feelings of other who can really read the others hearth & I hope now you had an idea that how much your beloved loves you and might be god almighty solved your lifelong problem by helping you take such decision.
SAM.
2007-05-30 01:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking so much about looks, if she is a loving woman as you say then how she is will out stand her looks anyway. I know some of my friends aren't very pretty, however there attitude makes them beautiful. I don't believe in arranged marriage but i know it happens so just enjoy what your wife has to offer, she sounds real and not fake like allot of women who only think about their looks all the time. As they say beauty fades after awhile and then where will they be?
2007-05-30 00:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess some cultures believe in arranged marriages...in the USA, not hardly at all. It seems strange to me that somebody else would chose your mate for life. That seems to be a personal decision that one has to make on their own.
Anyways, it is good that it is working out. You will have beautiful children. Looks are not important, inside the heart is.
It sounds like you are into it for life, nobody can honestly tell you if you did right or wrong, it is done. Enjoy life.
2007-05-30 00:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u r decision in right. Look is not everything. The main thing is a character. If she bear a morel character and that's Ok with u. She loves u a lot. And She will live with u in any circustance. She can do everything for u...... So PLease accept it and dont get confuse.
Thanks
KAMAL
2007-05-30 00:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Kamalpreet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh .. when it comes to a marriage union, superficials such as looks do not have a lot to do with it. It helps to be physically attracted to a person, but sounds to me like your wife is sweet and I really would appreciate that if I were you.
2007-05-30 00:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by square_dotzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello friend. There is a saying "Marrying a woman seeing her beauty is like buying a house seeing its paint".
Cant you see that film stars get divorced very easily even though they are beautiful? From this what did you understand
my brother?
DONT THROW AWAY THE GIFT GOD HAS PRESENTED YOU WITH HIS BLESSINGS. INSTEAD BE THANKFUL TO HIM WITH ALL YOUR HEART.
ENJOY YOUR WHOLE LIFE WITH YOUR SWEETHEART
2007-05-30 01:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by abina s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yes, I think your decision was right. Good looks are only skin deep but inner beauty is by far the best--in my opinion.
2007-05-30 00:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋