My husband of 10 years made plans for a 2nd honeymoon for us. I thought it was sweet of him...at first. He made reservations at a hotel, and got flowers delivered to the room. When we arrived at the hotel, he went in to check us in, and took our luggage up to the room while he had me wait in the car with a blindfold on..because he had a surprise waiting in the room for me. He lead me to the hotel room. As soon as we entered the room, he told me to keep the blindfold on, and that he couldn't wait to make love with me. So he started to undress me, which I thought was really sexy-like the way he did it. I still had the blindfold on.....and he said he wanted me to keep it on the whole time, so I was surprised with each one of his moves. I agreed to it. After making love he took the blindfold off of me...and the surprise was 4 other men in the room VIDEO TAPING US! They played the video for me, at one point my hubby had the camera and one of the other guys was with me! YIKES!
2007-05-30 19:34:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And you had no idea that four other men were in the room? If this is the case then I find it suspicious.. especially the changing of the men to have sex with you. I also find it strange that this would be your first post to this board and you don't sound alarmed about it.
A sexual fantasy you say? Well apparently this has been talked about.. and obviously this is no big deal to you.
It certainly would be to me. The word wouldn't be "yikes". It would be "divorce".
So what exactly is your question?
2007-05-31 02:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by mosaic 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Tell me your kidding and this is a joke.When I got to the part
of you taking off your blindfold I just couldn't believe it and you sat there and watch it with other man. No frickin way is this real. If it is you are going to divorce this man for doing this to you right.
2007-05-31 02:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Holy freaking crap. I almost can't believe that. I'm just going to be honest.... what a freaking *$($(#*%&....... have you EVER indicated that you would want that? You know what.... it doesn't matter.. unless you were like... "hey, honey... why don't you $*$* me with a bunch of dudes taping and watching... and while you are at it.... why don't you let them #*#*# me" That is sooo messed up.... that is traumatizing... get rid of him...... I would even consider legal action...... you did not consent to sex with this other man. I am so sorry. You might consider getting some professional help.
2007-05-31 02:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by hereceivedacall 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you never really asked a question...you just used the word "Help" to get the attention of people to read this cock-n-bull story. What kind of help do you need? Mental? Cause you and him are into this kinky type of stuff and I suspect you just wanted to put some shock into YA.
Hope ya didn't catch some little critters along the way.
2007-05-31 03:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You seek help, OK:
See you get the tape(=proof and do it quickly) and take legal advice(solicitor) he needs treatment or a divorce.
He took in a very bad way advantage and it's a reason to divorce.
2007-05-31 02:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Chantal D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off... I hope this is a joke. If it isn't then wtf!!! Who did you marry? This is illegal on SO many levels. You were raped... I would take the tape and as embarrassing as it is... turn it in. Your husband is a freakin disgusting human being. I hope you arent in the same building as him right now. You need to kick his a** out until the divorce papers are signed and his a** is in jail...
This seriously nausiated me. If my husband did this he would be buried in the backyard somewhere by now. Ugh. Respect yourself please. Don't be a doormat like so many other women. Better yet, give me his address. haha. I'll take care of the waste of space...
2007-05-31 02:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by K.A. 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Either
1) you knew what was going on, how could you not know that there was more than one person in the room. You can feel when something's up... shame on you.
or
2) you need to leave him today.
2007-05-31 02:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
The tape makes a great bit of evidence for your divorce lawyer.
2007-05-31 02:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by hypno_toad1 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would make it my personal life goal to make his life hell on earth..there wouldnt be a hole deep enough or a mountain high enough and he better have a damn good lawyer and he better have the 1 and only copy of the tape which would be handed to me by the judge and i would make sure that he never EVER touched me or had anything to do with me again
2007-05-31 06:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be furious and that's putting it mildly. I'd be sleeping in the other bedroom for a while to give him time to think about what he did. I'd burn that tape in front of him and tell him he needs to get on his knees and apologize for embarrassing you like this.
That is just plain tacky !!!
2007-05-31 02:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋