I have a friend who is a single mother of 4, we have recently been hanging out alot and her kids are always there and I really love these kids. My question is this, I would like to have a kid but do not want to adopt or necessarily get married. Any ideas on how to find someone who would want to go along with this while not necessarily being in a marriage or adopting?
2007-05-29 18:36:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Forget it John, there is no free lunch. Kids are not commodities or play things. They have feelings and opinions and legal rights. Screw with them and they'll get even with you, even if you're an old man and they are adults. So, plan on marrying this woman and adopting her children. If you want to have a child together, then so be it . . . but do it the respectable and honorable way . . . within a marriage!
2007-05-29 18:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Kids are not puppies to be casually co-opted into your life.
Kids need a Mommy AND a Daddy to love them and that is why a marriage is supposed to be one man and one woman for one lifetime.
Since you don't want to marry or adopt, what are you going to do when things get tough?
Put the child in a closet, drop the child off at the pound?
I agree this is the worse type of liberal, humanistic, selfish thinking I seen in a long while
2007-05-29 18:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
john you have to take a woman with 0 kids that got out of college a month ago like a 28
2007-05-30 06:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by lovergurl_for my boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the background of such a question? One should marry and have kids,it is a natural phenomenon and should be followed. This is how you can keep you and your family happy.
2007-05-29 18:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by baba 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is horriblly wrong and I hope that they make it illegal.
This is what liberalism has done - brainwashed the minds of half the people in the country.
Start being a man, get therapy for your liberal disorder and get out of the idea of what amounts to sheer adultery.
MARRIAGE! Get used to it. I also wish that cohabitation would be made illegal.
2007-05-29 18:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
think about what you are asking here ..... you want a kid...... you do NOT want marriage ....... geeeeeee, I do not know where to start on this...... do you even realize what you are saying ?? the impact a child will have on your life ?? *sigh*, I am not gonna go there...... I just hope you think about this real hard and long....... God bless
2007-05-29 18:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a lady that feels the same way as you. I'm sure there are plenty out there.
2007-05-29 18:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find a woman who dont want to get married and have children by her i guess . where you dont want to get married happens all the time. my opion?
2007-05-29 19:23:18 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gee, it seems that is the norm in modern-day society. Funny, it used to be taboo.
2007-05-29 19:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's not any problem,spend money and contact to any business girl,and stay with her just for nine months atleast.
2007-05-29 18:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by fly_with_me 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋