ive been with this man for seven years and have literally been through everything you can think of with him the situation were going through right now is i was sexually abused growing up and my four year old daughter told me that my nine year old niece touched her private part with her underware on i have never trusted my daughter with anyone and i am so furious i want him to talk to both the girls but he works twelve hours a day its been three days we have to live in the same house together her mom my fiancees sister sais that she didn't do it my mother in law sais that its all me and i'm just trying to get my nieces mom and her kicked out of the house i know without a doubt she's telling the truth i got so mad i keep telling him to talk to them because either the girl goes to couseling or i'm going to call the police i'm so stressed out he needs to make time he shoved my face and said lots of bad things in front of his mom and my kids everytime we fight he hurt me what can i do
2007-05-25 11:24:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just talk to your daughter and never leave her alone with them anymore. It will only make matters worse if you go to the police and they really can't do anything anyway. Your husband is not much of a man. He never steps up to the plate. You've been with him this long and he hasn't married you????? That says a lot. Keep your daughter close and move on..............
2007-05-25 11:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you staying with this man? I had an abusive husband & 3 kids & I left him & raised my children on my own. No-one in this day & age has to put up with crap like this. Get out before he hurts you badly or worse your kids. Of course your sister-in-law & your mother-in-law are going to blame you, they refuse to accept reality, that your niece may have done this to your daughter. Get out while the "getting" is good..
2007-05-25 11:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by yvonne p 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is time that you get out of that situation. If the house is yours, talk to the police about getting them out of the house, but you have to prove that it is in your name and you want them out. Otherwise move out of the house yourself. If you don't have anywhere else to go, call your local Crisis Center or domestic violence shelter for a place to live. It sounds to me that you would meet the criteria to get into a domestic violence shelter because of the physical, verbal and sexual abuse. If all else fails call this telephone number: 1-800-537-2238-The National Resource Center on Domestic Violence. they will direct you the right place. You might also call Child Protective Services. I hope this helps.
2007-05-25 13:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by Cathy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 09:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get yourself and your kids OUT of the house NOW. Thiss will not stop. The ONLY thing you can do is get help for yourself and your kids.
Call the local shelter and get into it NOW. Get your child examined by a Doctor, press chages if need be on whomever.
JUST GET HELP AND GET OUT!!
2007-05-25 13:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a divorce! talk to your local police station about the situation w/ your daughter and neice. leave the house w/ your kids and go to your friends and family no-one should be hurting you. ♥
P.S. get a lawyer. you dont really need an amzing one just a good one w/ your husbands done to you.
2007-05-25 12:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit having kids with the man for starters. Get an education, get a job, get your own place to live.
2007-05-25 11:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to take your kids and leave his @$$! You dont deserve to be treated like that and your children shouldnt have to be around that! You either need to leave him and take the kids or kick his sorry @$$ out and keep the kids!... I hope everything works out for you and your children! Good luck! : )
2007-05-25 11:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by Love-A-Bull 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
babe do what evry girl would DUMP HIM! if all he is doing is trying to "do somin" with you then what is the point of your relationship with him. or you could go see a family counsolor. but what i would do is DUMP HIM. a lady like you should have a guy that respects you and your feelings.
2007-05-25 14:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to raise hell and kick everyone out, including that man of yours.
2007-05-25 11:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋