She sent him a pm and he answered her and they chatted back and forth for a few days(till i caught him)u could tell she was "feeling him out" to see if there was an interest.and my fiance who had no interest in his page till she contacted him fixed it all up with songs,photos(none of me)sayings ect.plus he was quick to answer her when ever she pm him.now he never said anything bad to her but it only went on for about 2 days before i caught him.now he never told me about this, i found out when i logged on to his account to get someones email(he did not know i was doing it)when i asked him about it he blew it off as no big deal but as soon as i left the room he deleted his whole account,weird i thought.oh let me add he left his 1st wife for this chick.shes like a bad penny allways turning up.
2007-05-25 18:35:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he saw the error of his ways and didn't want to give himself anymore access to someone that he doesn't really want in his life anymore. Since you were snooping and caught him we'll never really know what he was planning or thinking because he didn't get enough rope to hang himself.
2007-05-25 18:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by Red V 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What blows me away is most women seem to take the fact this girl basically snoops on her fiance as ok....Jesus if a man ever thought of doing that to them everyone of you would flip the f uck out. Honey first off learn your space....it's his account and not yours...so don't get suprised if now he does cheat because 1.you are an immature child. 2.he has been basically acussed of it so why not have the fun. and 3.I'm sure he is going to be really pissed when he finds out you deleted his account.
2007-05-25 21:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by christian m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tisk on you for going into his accounts but hey "the proof is in the pudding" I think you might want to call your wedding off ~ if you are starting out this way theres ruff seas ahead forsure!! he lied to you and then deleted his account!! Your much better than that and No real Man will keep secrets from his Love !! My hubby has an ex-wife and she contacted him via myspace too and he told me about it and I have her as my friend now too~
Many fish in the sea!! Go fishin
2007-05-25 18:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by ak99705mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow chatting is a crime lol So you were in HIS account getting "someone's" email?
well one thing is for sure YOU can't be trusted with his password & are a snooper and he was being a good boy.
"Someone" needs their own account.
Myspace is kind of neat and fun but the point is hooking up with people you know & people you don't know while sitting in the comfort of your own "private" place. So he deleted his account and you still aren't happy?
If I were him I would set up another account, not give you the password, change the status of fiance' to ex, and have some fun in my "private" life
2007-05-25 18:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by Don't even think about it 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Something tells me that if you hadn't caught him he wasn't about to tell you about it! I'd be really careful if i were you cos i don't think your're ever going to feel like you can trust him and without trust you have no basis for a healthy relationship. Also who knows what "she's" capable of? Be very careful and do a lot of soul searching cos you don't want to go ahead and marry him if there's no trust! And, also why delete his account if he had nothing to hide?
2007-05-25 18:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might! If he deleted his finished account he's probably hiding something from you! i'm sorry yet whilst he cheated on his first spouse along with her, he might do it with you. or perhaps a distinctive female. do not take it individually, as quickly as adult men cheat on anyone, they'll proceed someplace down the line. this is how they're under pressure out regrettably.
2016-10-13 22:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you are next. I think you and your fiance should sit down and have a long talk about this before you make the mistake of marrying him and he dumps you for her, and don't accept "I don't want to talk about it" as a response stand firm.
2007-05-25 18:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by King Midas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say he left his first wife for this women are you really going to marry him when he is still talking to her. I think you have to make sure he has nothing to do with her before you say your 'I do's" or you will be very sorry
2007-05-25 19:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like you need to move on, if he has already cheated
on the first wife, and now is still chattting with this gir on
the internet. then trust me , he looking to do the same to
you. especially since he lying to you about talking to her.
time to deal with him once and for all. as they say once
a cheater all way a cheater.
2007-05-25 19:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to your fiance about this...we can't tell you waht to make of all this....plus i think you already have something set in your mind of what their chatting is leading up to or may have already lead up to.....its hard finding out something like that and wishing he would of just told you about it himself....however it is just chatting on the computer.....if you have other fears you need to bring them up with him....nothing is going to ease your mind until you get straight answers...
2007-05-25 18:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by adrik c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋