My best friend started seeing this guy who was still with his kids mom, but said the relationship was over because she was cheating. At first they were just friends. Eventually a connection built between them. They found out they had a lot in common. Do you think they really had a chance or is he just seducing her in a way. Is it considered him cheating, just because he was still living there?
2007-05-25 23:03:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
same exact thing happened to me...after a while, we realized that we had wonderful chemistry. we had a wonderful time together, and he found someone that loved him for him, not for his money. we are now very hapily married, have been for 6 years. he adopted my son, who has only known him as his father. best thing that ever happened to us both!!
oh yes, it would be considered cheating. not that its right, because it is not. weve all made mistakes, now we have learned from them
2007-05-26 02:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by poodle mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cheating if the wife didn't know it was over and was unaware of his extramarital affairs. If she really was 'cheating' I doubt he would have remained there.. just sounds a little odd to me. Also the phrase 'cheating' implies they were still together.
To answer your main question, most relationships start as 'flings', a 'fling' being different to an affair. Most people, particularly men, don't start every relationship envisaging marriage. Every fling or even affair has the potential to develop into something more serious. Whether it is the right thing to do or whether it will last, that's a different kettle of fish.
2007-05-26 06:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by Aussie mum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now come on, he is a married man who he cheating on his wife.Do you no how many men tell women that he no longer loves his wife or that his wife is cheating on him and none of it is true. Just made up stories to get a female in bed and to keep her coming back for more.Most of the women find out that it isn't true but keeps the affair going on and the stupid reason they use is (I love him) how can a woman fall in love with a man that will never be hers and goes home every night to his wife and kids. How in the world can a woman even respect a man who not only does what he is doing to his wife but his kids as well.Your friend is not only being used but is
braking up a family and she knows it she can pretend all she wants but unless she is total stupid she deserves what she gets from this man. I don't feel sorry for any woman who gets in void with a married man.
2007-05-26 06:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but it does help to move out. Especially if your friend is the jealous type because that could cause drama and ruin the relationship. As long as they both agree that its over it's not cheating. Keep in mind they have a kid together, they're still going to have to keep in touch.
2007-05-26 06:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by c_los915 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. she was not cheating him. Because he was the guy used to make connection with her. And she being the mom of two kids still built connection with him may be because she was not satisfied with her husband or so. But you/your friend can say that she was cheating him if she starts to extort you or you can say starts demanding money by you illegally by blackmailing you. Now please realize that whether she cheating you or not?
2007-05-26 06:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by Badal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, he's a cheater, and so is she. He is only using her. She needs to find a man that is not with somebody.
2007-05-26 06:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by coffee56man 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, every single time! hmmmm
2007-05-26 06:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by wally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋