i suspected my boyfriend had cheated on me, of course like everything else he denies it. He has been spending a lot of time with his "new friend", he has lied about how often he talks 2 her &see's her. long story short i called her up & said 2 her, " I just need 2 know the truth,.have you been with him?" her reply was " iF you dont trust him thats on you, What do you think?Fallow your gut!". When i approched him with this he said "she's lying". i should add the last weekend i was visiting him,we got into a fight, he then calls her up to pick him up (about midnight) left with her, and left me at his house. He didnt get back until 4:30AM!(but nothing happen, he says)
when i found out he was gone, i called her phone(redial) &of corse no answer.oh &this girl was a old friend of mine, he met her @ a friend of his house, when i seen her i told him i know her, turns out we used 2 work together years ago.ive already caught him in so many lies about her, but he swears he
never was w/her.
2007-05-25 22:52:28 · 19 answers · asked by SIS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is LYING! Sure, he cheated with her!
2007-05-25 22:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Read read and read what you have written over and over again. If it wasn't you who wrote this what would you be thinking?
Does it really matter if he admits it to you now after all this time? Are you going to actually think it makes a difference if he does?
Why are you accepting this from him? You obviously are hanging on to some type of hope that the lies just aren't true... otherwise you would have left him a long time ago.
Don't you deserve better than this? Don't you owe it to yourself to stop the pain from getting any worse by staying with him? Of course you must love him... but love shouldn't hurt... and you deserve to start now by leaving and trying to heal yourself the pain he has caused so that you can find someone who will give you what you need.
Don't tell yourself you need him... you need YOURSELF.
2007-05-26 02:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by Twizzle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, I believe he has cheated on you.
First, she is too involved in his life.
Second, if she hadn't cheated with your boyfriend, she
would have told you that they are just friends and then she
would have no problem going into detail what was happening in their friendship.
Third, if she respects you, she should tell your boyfriend that
they shouldn't talk to each other anymore. Also, she should
tell him that when you and your boyfriend have problems,
he should talk it out with you instead of coming to her.
Fourth, if he loves you, he would cut the friendship off
with this woman.
Last, if he doesn't want to end the friendship. Have
you thought about dating other people? There is a lot
of people out here that will treat you with respect.
Good Luck To You, Let Us Know What Had Happen.
2007-05-25 23:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey if you have already got evidence he's dishonest ("So I feel my bf is dishonest doing the web factor I do have evidence, however he hides his "cookies" temp documents that may hint what you're doing on-line.. ") why might you desire to hold torturing your self watching for extra proof? Just kick him to the lower noone merits to be cheated on. I understand its simpler stated than performed considering the fact that I'm definite you're keen on him, however love your self extra. No man is ever valued at your tears.
2016-09-05 12:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try and take a break from him- work on you and focus on your happiness and well-being. He is causing you stress and taking all the trust out of your relationship with these repeated rendevous and blatantly lying and repeating this behavior. He's made you insecure and doubtful but remember that you have not done anything wrong and do not deserve this. Get back to yourself and don't do this anymore -
2007-05-25 23:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mamma Mia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You already know the answer to your question. Even his other girlfriend told you "follow your gut". You know he is cheating on you. Apparently she doesn't mind sharing her man with you. You should not settle for that. Have more self respect. Kick this loser to the curb and get on with your life. He will always be a cheater and have another woman to run to when things get rough. You know he is cheating. If you need confirmation, consider this it.
Aside to Jimmy C. You are obviously a homosexual so you should not try to project your anal desires on a heterosexual relationship question.
2007-05-25 23:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't try to deny what you already know. He is cheating on you. Men rarely admit cheating on their partners. He will never admit.
End the relationship and move on with your life or simlpy find another guy who will not cheat on you. There is no reason for you to continue with this relationship
2007-05-25 23:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by Sombo Mummy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is the time when you can understand the true nature of people you once love. This is the time that God chose to tell you that the one you once thought was your friend are no good friend.
2007-05-25 23:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by seed of eternity 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but he is. And that wrench has the nerve to tell you to follow your, "gut".
Dump him, once a cheat always a cheat..... At least you two do not have kids yet.
2007-05-25 23:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by rhodecol 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, put it this was, if you dont have any proof, then you got nothing to prove. trust him, stop being overly paranoid cos he has a friend whos also a girl and respect that. though, do let him know what upsets you and try to work it out there. if you dont trust your other partner and if you dont speak your mind and talk, theres pretty much no point in having a relationship.
2007-05-25 22:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by shadyfridge4 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
when u don't know something for sure, u can always count on your intuition to tell u the truth, his actions speak louder than words, he seems to see something in her, and wants to be with her. personally u need to dump him, nothing good can come of this, if he loved u, she would not be in his life.
2007-05-26 00:33:43 · answer #11 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋