I went to my husband's office and found him having a nap on the sofa. There were a man and a woman working on the computer. My husband was sleeping in the same room where the woman was. Then he woke up and walked directly to that girl without wearing his glasses(he's near-sighted), close enough to be thought as a couple, the girl shouted: "watch out, wear your glasses." After the warning my husband stopped hugging her and went back to put on his glasses and then he found I was already in the office. He asked" why you were here earlier than usual? " seemed not to welcome my visit. Do they have a relationship? Did they have sex in the office? Is it normal for colleagues to be this intimate?
2007-05-25 18:14:51 · 16 answers · asked by mimosa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, he's having an affair. No it's not normal for colleagues to be that intimate. I've worked with men for years and that isn't normal by a LONG shot. They probably DID have sex in the office. Men have a biological need to sleep after sex. Women, however, get an adrenal surge.
2007-05-25 18:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did not marry a guy, you married a spoiled little boy. i'm so very sorry that this has occurred to you and that your guy can't relish the certainty which you survived a disease that kills thousand of human beings each and every 3 hundred and sixty 5 days. He of course would not appreciate you or care approximately you. perhaps it's time to take your little ones, pass back in with the mothers and fathers, and record for divorce if a danger.
2016-10-13 22:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women usually have an inner feeling if something isnt right with their partner. that feeling probably came forth upon this scenerio didnt it? if the situation made you comfortable then your husband was definetly being inappropriate. are you and your husband in this marriage to make each other uncomfortable or make one another happy? something is not right and you need to confront him about this. once you have established how you felt dont allow him to get away with it next time. if it happens again(any uncomfortable situation)then its time to let go and move onto someone more appreciative of you!
2007-05-25 18:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bad is his vision? Did he have any reason to think that it was you on the computer? He's probably cheating, unless he sleep walks. Why the heck was he sleeping on the job anyway? I would confront him and see what he has to say, I would confront the other woman too.
2007-05-25 18:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by Violet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for God sake you are an adult if so conduct this matter like a mature person \
ASK HIM
I am not saying that you will get the truth but you will not be getting it here on this site'
the answers you het here will only leave you confuse and probably angry at him
SO ASK HIM
Good luck
2007-05-25 20:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something is going on! They are screwing around, and she tried to fool you. I would just ask her and him at the same time make them nervous. It should be obvious to you then. Sorry.
2007-05-25 19:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by cajuncalli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
our colleagues are a bigger part of our lives than our own spouse/friends/family most of the time (we spend soooooooooo much time working). i wouldn't go insane about what happened, however, keep ur eyes open and look for clues. if he's cheating YOU'LL KNOW!
2007-05-25 18:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by dvl_n_dskyz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We dont know, ask him or at least tell him it made you uncomfortable.
Communication is the key to a successful relationship.
2007-05-25 18:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol Sounds to me like she was merely saying that for your benefit! I would venture to bet that he has something going on with this woman.
2007-05-25 19:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by lilbeamlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say but it sound like he just got caught with
his pants down. and he was surprised that you were
there.but it sound like he been with this women.
2007-05-25 18:38:32 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋