I have tried walking in shopping malls till late. Where can I go for a drink alone, without looking funny to others.
2007-05-22 17:06:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you want to be by your self there nothing wrong with that
but it sound like you need to try to deal with what really the
problem, and that your marrige, if she looking to be with
someone else then may be you need to look at get a lawyer
to divorce her. then you wont be so worry about what people
think personally i dont care what others think. and you should
not care either. just get your life back , dont let her or any
one take your sprit from you. god bless.
2007-05-22 17:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you not want to go home? Is it because of the confrontation factor? I would try not to escape but bring it out in the open with her and then figure out what you are going to do with your marriage, including counseling etc. Some alone time for you is not a bad thing, but I sure would not want to feel like I did not belong in my own house. Also I am not sure drinking is what you need either. Still If you got too, there are a number of bars where you men drinking alone is not a big deal. Sports bars etc. You would not look out of place.
2007-05-23 00:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by Rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry to hear your marriage is in trouble. Drinking is probably not the answer you're looking for, however you might find a men's group from your local church to be supportive. Have you thought about going to a Christian church and talking with the pastor about what's going on? You might also talk to your wife about going to marriage counseling. If she won't go with you, go alone...it still may help you two to communicate better and resolve some of your issues.
Good luck!
2007-05-23 00:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by Aubrey and Braeden's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry about the pain that you are experiencing. You need counseling. There are many groups that offer divorce or separation care because there are so many men and women who are going through this. Look in the phone book and call churches and ask if they have this type of help. You need other people for support. I wish you the best. I will pray for you.
2007-05-23 00:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question here is Why are you still with her? If she is in love with another man, are you that desperate you can't leave her and find a true woman to love you? She didn't take your vows seriously and should give you a divorce. Stand up for yourself and act like a MAN.
2007-05-23 00:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now what is drinking alone going to help? Get a divorce and move on if she isn't willing to try and work things out.
2007-05-23 00:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by noellemt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK.. and why are you still with her again? She should be the one trying to find somewhere to hide out! You need to file for a divorce and move on! Having a drink won't solve anything!
2007-05-23 00:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be more free as she is your wife you have all rights to ask her ,that's is she still loving you or she is involved with some other guy don't act like some one Else as you are asking your own wife,so be more free and try to solve the probable if all is OK then live happily other wise go for divorce.
2007-05-23 00:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by abafna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude!!! put everything you own in someone else's name and divorce her ***. if you wanna go some where go to a club Not a bar and if you do go to a bar go to a fancy 1! and just chill out
dont get wasted its not worth it
start saving money in an account (some 1 else's name )
spend alll you r money if you have a shared account
2007-05-23 00:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by Pinkt41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot be wandering the streets every night ! Go talk to your wife and deal with the situation !
2007-05-23 13:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by aunt_webby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋