Marriage & Divorce - 22 May 2007

cheating on his wife? Expose why you support your view.

2007-05-22 16:56:46 · 3 answers · asked by alpha & omega 6

Ok so I've been married for a few months now and thought I had a wonderfull relationship. I was aware of my husbands past relationship which was very serious, however after he broke up with his girlfriend and about a year later he and I began to date (we knew each other for years) and it was a long distance relationship. After I few months I visited him where he lived and we got married, early I know but we were/are very much in love. Now that we've been married to each other for almost a year now, things have started changing...to my surprise a few weeks ago my husband called his ex-girlfriends name while we were having sex, and the other night called her name out while he was sleeping...I was very angry with him and talked to him about it but it keeps reacurring and i just don't know what to do! I've been having mixed feelings as well and i feel as though he doesn't love me anymore or maybe never has...should I talk to him about it again, should i divorce? ANY advice? :(

2007-05-22 16:55:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are to be finally divorced on Friday and he has been trying to have a good relationship with me for our 3 month old daughters sake and 2 days before the conference he meets up with his 17 yr old mistress! the MINOR is the reason we are getting a divorce! I specificly told him if he was going to date her he would not see his child more than every other week because i DO NOT want my child subject to his girlfrind who is only a child and that girl has no respect for me or my child! he has been trying so hard to make things right and he just had to go and screw it up...WHY?

2007-05-22 16:49:54 · 21 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4

We are Indian couple and don’t know if it is okay to bring sex toys in our relationship, Ladies please help hoe dose it effects women sex needs form men and how will if effect our relationship. I have not talked with my wife about it so i need your opinion first.

2007-05-22 16:39:17 · 21 answers · asked by MIke 1

can a judge order a couple that married while the husband was incarcenated to live together before granting a divorce?

2007-05-22 16:29:24 · 9 answers · asked by crystal 2

how old were you when you got married and how long have you been with him/her

2007-05-22 16:28:49 · 29 answers · asked by Newlywed 4

with them. they got mad with you about something, stop talking to you for a while.then when they do talk to you they said be your self some one might ask you out again. did this person get mad because i did'nt have sex with them? if not what do they mean by telling me to be my self?

2007-05-22 15:59:38 · 9 answers · asked by coco 1

Will the judge take into account that I am still paying for everything including the morgage even though I dont live there anymore?

2007-05-22 15:59:25 · 6 answers · asked by depaulbluedemons 1

Please help!! I just can't think of anything special that is paper!!!

2007-05-22 15:55:21 · 13 answers · asked by pinkmarie 2

My ex-husband leaves me nasty, threatening voicemails. I try not to listen to them. If I do, then my whole day goes bad. I can not function (eat, sleep or work) because of the guilt that he lays on me for everything bad that happened to us and our child during and after our marriage.

Then, I see that he has a posting on a matrimonial website and he lists so many positive things about his life. He has moved due to an exciting job opportunity. His daughter is his friend.

I wonder what he wants - he is looking to get remarried and also not letting me go. He keeps saying "I will not let you move on, just wait."

I know that I have to maintain radio silence and not communicate with him. That's the only way.

I feel sad when I look at the state of my life compared to others though. In 5 years, my brothers/ cousins have had more children, bought bigger houses/ cars. I have just lived in limbo thinking I would go back to my ex-husband. Its just sad.

2007-05-22 15:54:23 · 16 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

6 years, no marriage, got the ring... but never really made it to the alter. He says that we are too young to be married (he 30 me 29). Also, he says that we argue too much. We are very passionate(equally with the love and fighting). We will break up and get back together because we know that we love each other and we do not function well w/o each other. My thing is.. while I'm still young pretty and sexy, I need to make myself accessible to someone who will not keep me around as their gf for 6 YEARS! I think if I don't mention marriage to him and we continued on the same path that we have been on for the last 6 years it will turn into another 6 years w/o marriage. Is this a waste of time. I love him and would want him for my husband but c'mon 6 years is too long and he has no intentions on marrying me anytime soon. Oh yeah... he wants to buy a house together and thinks it is more logical to do that than to marry? Is he serious?

2007-05-22 15:41:26 · 5 answers · asked by myevildog 2

2007-05-22 15:40:49 · 5 answers · asked by Didie C 1

How many military wifes do you know or have personally experienced that have cheated on there husbands while they were away on deployment? Whats up with that? Why do they do that? Dont you think its a little messed up?

2007-05-22 15:34:54 · 13 answers · asked by A 1

And no one else lives there, but you and your husband? Just wondering what you would think and what would you do if it happened to you? Don't be silly but Think about it and be SERIOUS please !! try not JUmping to conculsions on this one !

2007-05-22 15:28:21 · 18 answers · asked by monkeymomma46 5

I am married to a wonderful guy, but I hate to feel this feeling of still being in love with my ex. My ex has issues he needs to sort out for himself. Part of me wants my marriage to work, as I do love my husband alot. I just can't seem to squash this feeling I have. I've tried so hard to ignore it, wishing it away, even thought of hypnotherapy to help me. How can I put 100% into making 'my not so going great' marriage work, if I still feel this way. My marriage is on the rocks all the time, with very little light shining through sometimes. I'm hanging in there, but just feel at such a cross road. I don't want to walk away from my marriage, cause it does have great potential to work. Two factors get in the way, my husband and I are just SO different, and then there is my ex. He still loves me. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to rush back to my ex anytime soon if at all. I'm just so confused with it all. I just want to forget my ex, but I can't, and my marriage is failing.

2007-05-22 15:24:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this an expectation in your house, for your spouse to have dinner ready and on the table by 5pm? If not, is there a different time (later 6 or 7) that you prefer to have dinner ready by. Does one person, in your household, handle most of the cooking or is it more of a joint effort? If the cooking is handled by one person, which person is it (husband/bf or wife/gf)?

In our home, dinner on the table by 5 would not be logical because both our work schedules differ. However, I do handle most of the cooking but enjoy it. It isn't a "rule" set in stone that I have to cook. It's just a pattern that works better for us. What about you?

2007-05-22 15:18:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

im working through an infedelity issue in my marriage, and i find it hard to except that hubby is sorry. he's gotten on his kness and begged for forgivness, but i just think he lying? are men even capable of being sincere?

2007-05-22 15:12:33 · 28 answers · asked by phattkitty23 1

this is our 2 marrage and hubby as me about who i was with before we got married and all about them. does anyone else get asked.

2007-05-22 15:10:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was watching this special on t.v. about polygamy marriages and I believe it to be a very horrible and impure thing to do. What's your opinion?

2007-05-22 15:08:30 · 42 answers · asked by Noreen 2

2007-05-22 14:52:52 · 16 answers · asked by wannaknow 1

Divorce lady asked me out and I'm married.
Wife found out and was jealous.
Went home and she made love like never before.
Should I try and get my wife jealous again, without crossing the line?

2007-05-22 14:46:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

His parents are loaded. His dad pays thousands in child support, his mother works full time, his step dad works full time.
To put it simply. They are loaded. What should I get him?

2007-05-22 14:21:05 · 7 answers · asked by happydawg 6

i told ya the story the other day that my husband isnt doen good with his nerves and losen weight and i made an attempt and called and left a message on sunday morning and said i would call back that night to talk to him but he never picked the phone up so im goen out on my first date this saturday im ready to move on and i was a good wife he had a hott temper and hes very stubborn and i think that why he didnt pick up the phone so what do u guys think is it still to early to go out with a a new man as friends tc and ty so much jewels

2007-05-22 14:19:02 · 17 answers · asked by jewels 2

My step daughter is13 yrs old. When her father and I first met she was only 8 yrs old. He had been separated from his ex-wife for approximately 4 yrs. He raised his daughter more in less on his own. Before his ex-wife realized that we were engaged she truly did not bother too much with my step daughter. It was only until we got engaged and moved in together the problems started. She would ignore anything that I said to her, Lie, not listen you name it. One night when she was 9 yrs old she looked at me and stated " I get away with everything b/c everyone believes my lies" and then she stated that she knows that her dad does not believe anything that I tell him about her. We have been together now for just about 5 yrs we now have a 2 yr old son. It has been very difficult my husband does not discipline her and allows her to do what she wants. When I was pregnant she tripped me on purpose, my husband did not believe that she would do that. I'm don't know what to do.

2007-05-22 14:10:05 · 16 answers · asked by eeyore4629 1

My computer love?

2007-05-22 14:09:06 · 11 answers · asked by ME 4

I have filed the initial paper work - I have had himn served - I have filed the paper work saying hes been served ... it has been over 30 days . . . . I am confused about what papers I file next --- I got a packet of paper work drawn up from Legal zoom -- my husband didnt contest -

We share NOTHING no bank account, no property - NOTHING zero .... zilch

Do I need to have more paper work signed by him ? something notarized or do I just file the final paperwork -with the 2 enevelopes and thats it - Please help me

I need to do this ASAP .... this guy turned to drugs and just got out of jail - I want this over before he gets arrested again and then it takes me forever to just get out of it


Thank You

2007-05-22 14:09:01 · 2 answers · asked by Angela O 2

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2007-05-22 14:04:48 · 2 answers · asked by Name 1

Can a relationship survive cheating if I can't get over it. I'm trying. She said it wasn't anything I did, but it's hard not to take it personal when the person you'd die for chooses to have sex with another man.

I had to leave town a lot and she said she was lonely. I was lonely too but didn't run into another woman's arms.

2007-05-22 13:54:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our son married a young woman with a checkered past. Although we warned him to watch out. (she's done this 2 x before). Married military man, pregnant, divorce. He of course the last one to know what was up. Now serving in Iraq. She the stay at home mom of now my grandson, wants a divorce in the state of kentucky. My son is beyond done with her behavior. He can't deal with this while fighting a war. Worried about his son, he's really up against a wall. Is there an agency or service available in the state of Kentucky to help with situations such as these? My son and grandson needs advice. Legally and so forth. He is a good young man and takes his responsibility to god, family, country seriously. he needs our help. The wife is enjoying the benefits of his pay while overseas and the power of attorney she has. She has not been financially responsible in my sons abscence and now he has bad debt to add to his trouble. Any attorney's of Family Law or otherwise out there can offer advice?

2007-05-22 13:38:57 · 8 answers · asked by duboice j 1

its seems like every marriage ends up in divorce.

2007-05-22 13:17:30 · 16 answers · asked by brandon 1