We are Indian couple and don’t know if it is okay to bring sex toys in our relationship, Ladies please help hoe dose it effects women sex needs form men and how will if effect our relationship. I have not talked with my wife about it so i need your opinion first.
2007-05-22 16:39:17 · 21 answers · asked by MIke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I say absolutely... Sometimes it enhances the pleasures... Go for it and have fun!
2007-05-22 16:43:28 · answer #1 · answered by Oula 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contrary to a number of the responses more often then not it does not mean he does not love you or does not respect you. Men are visual creatures watching a beautiful women have sex is a turn on and for some when that beautiful women is their wife it is the epitome of that fantasy I am one of those men. That said this is not something you treat like other fantasies the 2 of need to have an open and honest discussion about it. It is ok to say you are not into it right now but that you are willing learn more about it find websites gain info and insights together at least then if it is still something you do not want to do he should understand and respect your feelings as you did his Chastising him is not the right approach Men tend to have already played this fantasy out in there heads over and over long before they ever bring it up or truly think it through the fact that he has already said he wants you to find the guy is evidence of that. Say for example you guys after careful thought discussion and reasearch you did decide to it It only makes sense that finding the guy that is going to actualy have sex with you is a person you are both comfortable with and a decision made together 90% of the time it is the man who brings it up but after it happens if problems in the relationship do arise 90% of time it is because the man cant handle it
2016-03-12 21:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations to you for trying to keep things fun and new in the bedroom! There are many reasons as to why both men and women are hesitant to try bedroom toys. We hope to dispel some of these myths and give you the confidence to try a few new and exciting things! Some common questions or uncertainties include:
• Thinking that this is not something that “nice women,” wives or mothers do
• Fear that they a partner is not good enough alone
• Fear that the new toy will replace your abilities in the bedroom
• Lack of confidence in the bedroom
• Fear of the unknown
I have found that couples who have a great intimate relationship over a long period of time have a wide definition of what being intimate is about. This means shaking it up! Sometimes you might have intercourse, sometimes may engage in oral favors, sometimes you add toys, sometimes you engage in mutual self-stimulation, sometimes you play games or just give one another a sensual massage, depending on your mood. Bedroom toys can also keep the excitement going because of the versatility and variety they bring to the relationship. Doing the same thing night after night can get dull and provide an increased level of monotony in your relationship, so it is important to know how to spice it up! It is important to talk to you partner about why you want to add new things into your relationship. Make sure you reiterate that you find your partner sexy and want to keep on having a great intimate relationship, that you want to touch them in a new way, that you want to be part of the action, or whatever your personal reasons are.
Start with some spicy massage products. Most women respond very well to touching and massaging!
It is important that you continue to keep an open dialog with your partner, continuing to reassure your affection for one another. When your partner is willing to try exploring products, go to our website together and pick out a few new products that are interesting to both of you.
Good luck!
2007-05-25 12:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by sis.butterfly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think first of all it will depend on your beliefs, if there is something in your religion which doesnt allow these items then i think you should look at that first, otherwise, then i would suggest that if your marriage is ok & you & your wife have a good healthy relationship then definently it is ok!! but i would encourage you to first look closely at your relatonship. if you & your wife are friends & not just husband & wife & have a good verbal relationship (you are open & honest with each other) & you share every intimate moment together as a couple & not just as individual people then you should already have a good foundation for a great marriage! so to then want to introduce toys into the relationship i think is a good idea, because it will open new experiences etc. into the relationship. but do you know your reasons for wanting to do this? is it because you are bored? or is it because you want to take yourself & your wife into new territory to share & experience together? i think if you first speak to her & you both agree that it is something that you want to do, either just to try or to keep the fire really going!! then it will be a fantastic thing to bring into your marriage, there is nothing better than to share such an experience with your life partner!! just make sure you have a very in depth conversation with your wife first. she should welcome it if your marriage is already very strong & should be very happy that you spoke to her first about it so that you can make the decision together & then she will not feel pressured or feel that she is not 'satisfying' you as your wife. Good Luck!! (sorry this is so long!)
2007-05-22 17:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are Nahin Yaar Toys Se Khelne Ke Din gaye
Ab to jawani ke games khelo
2007-05-22 18:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by rakesh s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very much ok, but after some years of marriage when conjugal life gets a bit staid or jaded. These things are quite helpful in rekindling the old fire. I don't think that you need them at the outset of your married life when you are able to do it without props.
2007-05-22 17:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by Modest 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The toys can make your sex life more exciting. You should try some out and experiment.
2007-05-26 06:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by Cat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The perfect toy to spice up your married love life is the Mercedes SLK500, closely followed by anything made by Tiffanys, Pierre Cardin or BMW.
PS: don't forget the batteries.
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2007-05-22 16:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Ratsoo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course toys are ok! However, only if the two of you agree to it. Both of you need to be comfortable with the idea and trust one another. If she's ok with the idea.. let her pick something out first! Good luck.. and have fun!
2007-05-22 16:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by Sami 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think sex toys are absolutely fine, but u need to know first that whether ur wife approves for it or not, sex toys enhances the sex stimulation in ur body, and forl longer and sensual sex it is really necessary, happy sex to both of u
2007-05-22 19:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by paul_007_d 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have toys myself and i have had men ask me to use them when we are having sex but i dont feel comfortable with it.
if my partner would take me to sex toy store and we would pick out something together then i would want to use them with him - i always have wanted swings.
2007-05-23 17:43:41 · answer #11 · answered by Natalie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋