this is our 2 marrage and hubby as me about who i was with before we got married and all about them. does anyone else get asked.
2007-05-22 15:10:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most men don't want to know this information. Destroys illusions they have about their partners.
2007-05-22 15:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband and I talked about this before we got married. We answered the questions and moved on.
2007-05-22 15:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it doesn't bother you, then what does it matter? I think it would be great to be able to bring up past experiences with relationships and such and not feel like I'm walking on egg shells sometimes. As long as he doesn't use any of it against you, then an open, honest relationship like that would be great. Although, I think certain details, no one wants to know.
2007-05-22 15:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but he lied to me at first i think to spare my feelings or maybe he was embarrassed but the past is the past it never bothered me i don't care but he was #4 for me which i don't think is alot but he almost wanted to make sure that everything we did was the first time i did it that way and now that we are seperated he really asked me never to do anything we did together with anyone else crazy isn't he
2007-05-22 17:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I told my how many people I had been with, but never all about them. He sounds like he has some serious self-esteem issues. He is not a hit man is he? Uh-oh.
2007-05-22 15:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Tina #1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. never. he's not interested. we both know that whatever we did before we met makes no difference now. i don't think he's ever even thought of it. sure, we goof around once in a great while and talk about some idiots we'd dated but that's it.
2007-05-22 15:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but only after I asked him first..my advice be as vague as possible especially if you're still in contact with any of them.
2007-05-22 15:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by Raven's tear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex use to ask my out of jealousy. Past girlfriends have told me about others and it kind of turned me on.
2007-05-22 15:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We told each other about our sexual histories as part of the getting to know each other in the beginning of our relationship.
2007-05-22 15:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband and i openly disclosed the number of partners we've had, even knew a couple of each others but we never discussed actual details
2007-05-22 15:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋