i told ya the story the other day that my husband isnt doen good with his nerves and losen weight and i made an attempt and called and left a message on sunday morning and said i would call back that night to talk to him but he never picked the phone up so im goen out on my first date this saturday im ready to move on and i was a good wife he had a hott temper and hes very stubborn and i think that why he didnt pick up the phone so what do u guys think is it still to early to go out with a a new man as friends tc and ty so much jewels
2007-05-22 14:19:02 · 17 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do whatever makes you happy so long as there are no children involved.
2007-05-22 14:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by Edhelosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont sound as though you are convinced that your marriage is over, so based on that, I would say you should not be even considering going out with this other guy.
I mean, didnt you call your husband on sunday morning? What were you wanting to talk about? Your hot date on saturday? Im confused????
And the last part just didnt make sense to me...
Either try all options to make your marriage work or leave him alone. You cant have the best of both worlds, thats naasty!
2007-05-22 18:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are ready to move on then why stay separated? Why not pull the trigger and call it quits? If you still love him and he loves you then you should be going on dates with each other or at least taking a step back from relationships so you can get your head right. Go out with the girls or make some new girlfriends. Use this separation time to work on yourself so that you can be who you need to be. If you really are ready to date then don't stress your relationship with your husband anymore than it already is by dating around. Separation = still married and not available. Divorced = not married and available.
2007-05-22 15:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by Piddle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to evaluate yourself first to make sure you are ready. First thing first did you either file for a legal seperation or a divorce? If not you shouldn't go out on a date with anyone until you are sure you are through. I have heard of women going on dates only to realize that they were still in love with their husbands. So do a self evaluation first and then go from there.
2007-05-22 14:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by SAMMIE K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have each and every precise to be sure every person you like. yet, it truly is far too quickly for thinking approximately something yet friendship and having a social existence. i'm no longer asserting you should stay as a nun, only no longer something extreme. A spouse placing out to this component is mostly a hideously worrying adventure for an ex to be. do no longer conceal issues, yet do no longer flaunt the two. maximum marriages end long formerly the legal shell is formally finished.
2016-10-31 03:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're a married woman still. Don't be going out with anyone until you're legally separated at least! Are you and your husband willing to work on your relationship? Go to a professional marriage counselor and get some help!
2007-05-22 14:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it is too early to get out of the house and meet people,but trust me, you will be doing this for about 3 years before you really feel like commiting again.At least that was my experience.I wish you the best.
2007-05-22 14:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by Gin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its still too early. Letting go of a marriage takes time. I think its fine going out to hang out with friends and start to move on but I wouldnt be going on any type of romantic date.
2007-05-22 14:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
WAY too soon to go out. Wait til you are divorced, and at least a year after that when you have got your act together.
2007-05-23 02:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's too early!
I think that your dating out of spite.
Take your time and get into it slowly, maybe a few more months.
2007-05-22 14:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you...personally I would wait till my divorce is final. I wouldn't want my husband going around saying I cheated on him or something.
2007-05-22 14:25:05 · answer #11 · answered by breeanneavery 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋