And no one else lives there, but you and your husband? Just wondering what you would think and what would you do if it happened to you? Don't be silly but Think about it and be SERIOUS please !! try not JUmping to conculsions on this one !
2007-05-22 15:28:21 · 18 answers · asked by monkeymomma46 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
P.S. Not Ours!
2007-05-22 15:35:32 · update #1
I'd be wondering all sorts of questions. Has my husband done anything suspicious lately? Is there a money shortage or a lot of spending happening with nothing to show for it? Has the sex life gone down hill lately? Does he treat you the same as always or was there a change recently? Are there ample opportunities for him to have an affair with your work schedule or weekend routine schedule? Do you have weekly meetings he could meet someone during?
If you can answer yes to a few of these, then I think I would confront him. If he still says it's not his and it must be yours, I'd know there was something wrong.
2007-05-22 15:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Been there 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you use condoms, count the ones you have left in the box compared to the amount of times you have had intercourse. Was it an empty package?
Could he have tampered with the condom if he wants to have kids and you don't?
At any rate I would ask him about it and gauge what you should do based on his response. If you think he is having an affair, I would stop having sex with him altogether until you are both tested for Sexually Transmitted Diseases
2007-05-22 15:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by sadiebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I know it's always awful to face up to your marriage in trouble or in great question. I think you should jump to the reasonable conclusion--better confront him, but dont expect the truth. The truth will come out soon.
2007-05-22 15:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by skyward 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask first, then knock him out. Kidding, but my gut reaction is that if you are asking, it's not from a time the two of you were planning to use it and then opted not to. Which leaves one of two things. Either he was pleasing himself and ran out of socks or something funny is going on. You'd know him best honey. If things aren't adding up, go with your gut.
2007-05-22 15:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg I knew we forgot to get rid of the evidence...just kidding! I'd be really upset and confront him with it and demand some answers. Has he given any signs that might point to an affair otherwise?
2007-05-22 16:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by lilbeamlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Creative: My husband had duped my drink and had sex with me.
Serious:
1) My husband was having an affair and in the heat of passion, he forgot to throw his evidence away.
2007-05-22 15:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by Mint_Always 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF IT WERE ME, AND WE DID NOT HAVE ANY PROBLEMS IN OUR RELATIONSHIP, THEN I WOULD CALMLY ASK HIM AND SEE WHAT HIS EXPLANATION WAS , ON THE OTHER HAND IF WE WERE HAVING PROBLEMS, THEN I WOULD DO THINGS DIFFERENTLY, LIKE COMING HOME UNEXPECTEDLY, SHOWING UP AT HIS JOB FOR LUNCH, OF JUST TO SURPRISE HIM, PLAN A SATURDAY SHOPPING DAY, BUT SIT DOWN THE ROAD, TO SEE IF HE LEAVES, THEN FOLLOW HIM, OR IF AN UNFAMILIAR VEHICLE PULLS UP, I WOULD IMPATIENTLY WAIT ABOUT 15/20 MIN. AND PULL IN MY NEIGHBORS YARD AND WALK CALMLY TO MY DOOR, GO IN AND............OOH, BY THE WAY I WOULD HAVE A CAMERA ........AND I WOULD MAKE THAT ************* PAY BIG TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BUT THAT'S ME!
2007-05-22 16:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by patsy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave it on his pillow right before you guys go to bed. That way it will be up to him to bring the subject up. This will give you a chance to gauge his reaction to seeing it without his being able to hide it.
2007-05-22 15:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by Sammy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband could be having sex with someone while you are not at home. Who else comes to your house? If there's no housemaid, then he is taking someone in while you are out.
2007-05-22 21:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose I would think exactly what you are thinking. Examine the evidence, ask the key questions and then draw your own conclusions.
2007-05-22 15:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋