2007-05-26 06:47:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Currently married, grown far apart. I feel that way daily. When effort to support the relationship, affection, monetary contributions and communication is one sided it causes problems. Talk to him before he accepts this as the norm and then he'll never change.
2007-05-26 07:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by james d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been married and been divorced and am married again for over 16 years.
I was taken for granted big time by my first and I left.
The second hubby works massive hours and travels a whole lot. Yes there are so many times I feel that he takes me for granted doing everything that I do. We have 6 kids although 3 are now adults and gone from our home. I homeschool, have various roles in Boy Scouts, Little flowergirls, Boys and Girls club, HOMESCHOOL, church, etc. He would come home and complain that he had no clean clothes in his drawers, BUT the clothes would be clean, folded and in a basket by the drawers. Yet he still bit**ed because I didn't even put them inside. This is when I came unglued.
There was no comunication. After talking, he realized what I do do. I realize how he felt being away for weeks at a time away from our kids and from me. I could only imagine the lonliness he felt knowing he had a family yet not being part of it.
Every marriage has it's ups and downs. And no one can MAKE you feel anything you don't allow them to. You take responsibility for your actions, words and feelings. You have the choice of giving that other person that power over you and only you can decide when enough is enough.
2007-05-26 08:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by califdreamer_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married - I hardly feel taken for granted by spouse. But we've come a long way and been through a lot in 10 years. With my first husband I felt taken for granted a LOT. He was a drunk and always assumed I would be there to pick up the pieces. It didn't work that way. I couldn't stay in that marriage.
2007-05-26 06:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married. I feel taken for granted for all the time. and sometimes i take for granted him. it is a problem most marriages have. My husband is in the army and I don't realize that he could get killed in his line of work. I clean the house and cook all day and sometimes he takes what I do for him for granted.
2007-05-26 06:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Linda, I am glad you asked this. I am married and I feel taken for granted all the time. I feel like a doormat. Right now, I haven't seen or heard from my husband for 2 days.
2007-05-26 06:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by I love winter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im seperated from my husband and yes i felt like being taken advantage of he would not lift a finger around the house i even had to mow the grass he was that lazy but im happier now no man will ever take advantage of me again men are dogs honey most of them they want the women to do everything these days thanks to the lesbos out there wanting there big man rights lol
2007-05-26 06:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no i feel that we were kinda like a bad movie at times where i do every thing and hesits around and does nothing but then he does all the laundry or the dishes and suprises me so yes at times but you know that is part of being in a relationship is too have your own rolls in the relationship sometimes you lead and sometimes you follow
2007-05-26 07:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by anita l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep he thought he was on a all inclusive holiday,now hes on self service after i woke up and smelt the coffee
2007-05-26 07:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by RAINBOW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost everyday. I couldn't believe how some change once they say I Do.
2007-05-26 06:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I lost count somewhere after 300 or so...
2007-05-26 06:52:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋