my wife told me that shes not in love with me but loves me? whats that mean
2007-05-26 05:21:04 · 20 answers · asked by bobswiming 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have history man and that counts for a lot but sometimes we all become complaicant and think we want other things in life. She probably wants something else but feels secure with you - you need to ask what it is she wants from the relationship - freindship or togetherness
2007-05-26 06:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by ealesy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think something like that comes from being with someone for a long time. You have gotten to know each other to the point that the period of discovering each other has ended and now you are comfortable with each other. There is nothing wrong with this situation but I think that your wife misses the days of the beggining of your relationship where the thrill of pursuit or being persued is over. Do something to bring that back into your marriage. Good luck
2007-05-26 05:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by justananswer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She loves you because you have been married (for a number of years I assume) and in that way she is bonded to you and you are a good friend that she cares about. But she is not in love with you in the sense that there is no more excitement for her with you. She does not feel the emotional or physical intensity-the butterflies, being sexually aroused, etc.- that lovers feel when they first start dating. Although this always wears off naturally with time, this is unfortunate. You should try to find some romantic things to do with her to rejuvenate your relationship.
2007-05-26 05:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by shosha_tiqo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means, that she loves you she probably always will you are someone important to her. And at one point she was in love with you but people are ever changing and continually growing. Its easy to fall in love with someone and years latter look at them and just know you don't feel how you use to about them but still care for them very much.
2007-05-26 05:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by Miss_Royalty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means she cares for you, may be fond of you but she does not love you passionately, you don't make her heart race or turn her on. She loves you like she loves a pet or a cuddly teddy bear but would never be mindlessly crazy over it.
Does she want a divorce?
2007-05-26 05:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jacqui Waze 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she loves you as a person as a friend but she is not in love with you she doesnt love you as a woman , no romantic feeling towards you sorry but that's what she means you can find yourself who loves you the way they are supposed to love you.
2007-05-26 06:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by cutebunny1122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that she loves you like a sister or brother but isn't in love with you.
2007-05-26 05:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better go buy some flowers and take her out for some long overdue fun. Or she will end up your ex wife.
2007-05-26 05:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A phrase from the world's thinnest book, "Everything Men Know About Women". If you ever figure it out let us know.
2007-05-26 06:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who the h*ll knows! I am a wife and I can't figure this one out. Sounds like bullsh*t doublespeak to me. What, does she want to leave or something??? Tell her to spit it out, whatever it is.
2007-05-26 05:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋