Does it depend what they are? If one involves a specific other man, is he better off not knowing?
2007-05-26 13:12:52 · 25 answers · asked by Goddess of Grammar 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him, it could be one of his to see you with another man.
2007-05-26 13:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uh yeah, he is definitely not going to like hearing you have fantasies about a specific other man. Would you like it if he came back and told you he had fantasies about a specific woman? It's cool to discuss and do fantasies with your partner, but never ever let them know about the fantasies you have with other people. It destroys the ego!
2007-05-26 20:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by breisingermela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does depend, and judgment is called for. Mentioning specific other men is probably unwise. But if your fantasies involve activities with your husband, by all means do so.
2007-05-26 20:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your fantasies but not the specific person you have in mind. If he decides to take you up on the fantasy bring the one into it. If not then best to not live out your affair.
2007-05-26 20:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you have the hots for another guy. It's normal.
Do you honestly think your husband doesn't have fantasies about other women? Of course he does, all men do.
If he isn't getting the job done in bed, I guess you need to tell him. And if you want to be with another man, maybe you should leave him and go after this guy.
2007-05-26 21:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell her hubby fantasies about other men--that would be very bad unless you are talking about a 3 some.
Men have fragile egos that get hurt easily.
2007-05-26 20:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Ed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd tell him every detail. That could make your sex life become super fun. You could even write him a racy sex story with the two of you as the characters, then tell him you want the act out the story later on.
2007-05-26 20:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by Leslie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would tell him my fantasy, but leave out the other persons name. He will not like that at all!
2007-05-26 20:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, it will be fun for you guys but I would definitely leave out the specific name
2007-05-26 21:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell him. It is just a fantasy and unless you really want to do it then I wouldnt let him know.
2007-05-26 20:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how close you are to your husband...like my wife and me are close and tell each other everything, but thats because we feel confortable telling each other this without feer the other will get upset or sad....
2007-05-26 20:18:39 · answer #11 · answered by Vic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋