what do you think of a woman who has 3 kids with 2 different men and didn't marry any of them?

Question

should be 3 kids w 3 guys. no she isn't a good mom. only one of her kids is home, the dad doesn't care. the ohter 2 kids are always with the dads. the kids never get bathed or fed or clothed. all the guys she was with cheated on her. she tried to trap them but it didn't work. and the question works for men, too. they usually are worse. at least a girl can only have one kid by one man at a time....guys can have many different kids with many different women at the same time. how sad.

Answer 1

That she's a slut and she needs to learn to keep her legs closed...

Answer 2

Well I would think that it is not the best way to live ones life and it is the children that have to adjust to the fact that they have different fathers and not having a father living with them. However, it is her business and who are any of us to judge.
We all make mistakes. Not only that but men have children all over the place and never marry the mothers of them. I know of one guy that had 2 with the woman he was married to and 3 illegite ones and he was only 25 and very seldom is any judgement is made about that Also there are women out there that marry several times producing children with each so why should a woman that does not marry be judged any different than those women? Women and men have a right to live the way they choose to...and as long as it does not affect you why should this matter to you?

Answer 3

I have 2 kids with 2 different guys. I was in a long term relationship with the first one, was suppose to get married, but broke up. The second one I was living with the guy. I was totally committed to both of these guys and I don't think anyone can hold that against me. I loved both of these guys. Just never took the step to marry them, which in the long run turned out to be the smartest thing I've ever done.

Answer 4

I don't think its very smart but thats only my opinion...But I know a girl in about the same situation..She has 3 kids of her own ,all by different men and never married any of there fathers, She did marry a man who has a child so now she also has a step child too. I feel sorry for all of the kids they don't know whether they are coming or going...

Answer 5

would it make a difference if she married and divorced them? or what about a person that had 5 marriages and no kids? dude, there is a huge shade of grey here-life is not all black and white and it cannot be defined in one way only. is she a good person? a good mother? look at the person and not the circumstances. sometimes it is too easy to judge on external factors when in fact, God is the only person who has the right to judge us. good luck

Answer 6

Come on......what do YOU think of a woman who has 3 kids with 2 different men and didn't marry any of them?

I reckon you are one of the men, and she had a lucky escape.

Answer 7

she's better than a woman who has 2 kids with 3 different men.

Answer 8

Its funny how a man can have children all over the globe and no one says or judges anything. If she is a good mother who cares who fathered what or where the children came from. She could have chosen to have an abortion. She could have given them up for adoption. She chose to have the children and be their mother. That is all I care about.

Answer 9

Either she wanted kids and she didn't want to get married or she needs to be educated about condoms.

Answer 10

I think she's busy. Having three kids is no day at the picnic.

Answer 11

That whore!

Is she starting her own country?

Is her name Tammy?

Get to stepping, and away from her.

Might just be an easy lay for you.