Hey Everyone,my hubby and I are married for 5 years. He is in the military and has been through many deployments before he met me. In 10/06 he deployed to Iraq. I had a bad feeling about it but my hubby kept reassuring me that everything would be fine. He was just home on R&R, left yesterday. Before he left he told me there was something he wanted to tell me. He said he is dreaming about getting shot. He said he had this dream already before he deployed, but it was just a blurry vision. He said since he is in Iraq he has this dream every night and the pictures become clearer every night. I tried to reassure him that everything will be fine and he will be back soon but he just smiled at me and said he wont come back. I was shocked. I know he had some pretty close calls within the last months but I didnt expect him to say that. He said he didnt wanted to worry me but thats how he feels. Iam so scared, all I am thinking about is what he told me. I dont know what to do, can someone help me
2007-05-28 17:11:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
pray to God he's wrong.
Good luck to you and tell your husband thank you for risking his life every day. He's a hero.
2007-05-28 17:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kaley D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to assume that a dream like that is a premonition of disaster, but it is more likely to be a blueprint for survival.
There will be more to the dream than a bullet, and when the time comes your husband will suddenly be prewarned and because of this dream he will be able to evade the bullet that was in the dream.
Tell your husband to forget the bullet but remember the surroundings and then when he sees it, he can do something he wouldnt usually be doing like sit down. Thank god he has beened warned.
2007-05-30 07:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well according to folklore where I'm from
if you are going to die trust me you don't get that clear of messages. Actually if you dream the ending of something for example a funeral or a graduation is actually then starting of something good so dieing under fire could mean he is coming home OK.
Maybe he is just nervous because if he didn't wanted you to worry he would not say those thing.
if you ask around to family member of fallen soldiers you will see that the message before it happen.
was more like love message. so do not worry plus whoring will not solve anything.
2007-05-28 17:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by paco2164 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, with something like that being said and then he leaves, the only thing you can do , is to light a candle and say a Prayer that the Angels watch over him and bring him home safe and sound* God Bless*
2007-05-28 17:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With this situation its very hard not to think your gonna die i would also be very afraid but there are people out there who can predict their own death especially with this war but i believe still in all this mess he can still believe all things are possible like surviving this war with the strength of God on his side he has to want to have the will to live in his heart and soul then his survival mode will kick in its all in the mind and i do believe its possible and not to let his guard down for a second all things are preventable God is not dead and neither is your husband. even if he strongly feels this lets pray you keep praying with all your strength that this will overcome and he will allow God to give him the will and strength to believe he is a surviver.
2007-05-28 17:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by bustnloose_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear and uncertainty can have strange effects on people. The only thing you can do is be there for him and say lots of prayers. There are lots of support groups and online chat rooms where you can share with other wives in the same situation. Check them out.
2007-05-28 17:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by Bookworm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can totally see why you are worreid. it sounds like he got some kind of traumatized war psychosis going on ( like maybe post traumatic stress disoreder or deluisoinal ) .. i dont know if it would be wise or if u coudl report it to someone in the army above him to have him checked out.. it could be a sign of a suicide he mgiht be planning on getting hit on purpose.. so yeah, if u can get him some help thorugh the army some how , please do. god bless u
2007-05-28 17:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at this point you should pray for him. Is there maybe a counselor or something where he's stationed that he could talk to about his dreams? Good Luck & God Bless!!!
2007-05-28 17:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by Valerie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your husband is experiencing is a common dream of serviceman returning to the field, there are some who believe it is a symptom of PTSD.
2007-05-28 17:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by oldcorps1947 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray for the best. remember your husband is in iraq risking his life for his family and friends. by the way he soulds you are a very lucky woman. keep your head up. write him daily and tell him you love him and can't wait for him to get home. tell him how proud you are of him. keep his hopes up. hopefully sometime soon bush will get his head out of his azz and bring our people home for good. until then my heart goes out to you and your family.
2007-05-28 17:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by adk_in_ar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry for what you and your husband is going through, you
should be worry, he need to talk to someone before he left
or when he got back. this is serious, he is going through
some emtional things as i sure all are soliders have gone
through.but let him know that god will watch over him and the
]others. i will pray for him as well. you be strong and telll'
him to be strong as well. god bless you.
2007-05-28 17:28:13 · answer #11 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋