what can i do more for her?

Question

i never hear my wife says thank you.she never happy what i do?maybe i cant do much things.but i try my best but i never be enough always something was wrong or missing.where i grow up is male is dominant.man is never do house jobs .man works bring money.woman is does the house job .but where im living is differetn then i used to.and my wife is making more then me .i changed so much for her.i cook for her cuz she is not good with that.i like to cook no matter for who.she never eats same thing twice,very rare.i try my best in the house for cleaning she never happy,so i try my best . still not enough for her.she chooses what is true or wrong.like i dotn have brain i dont know what is good or not. anyway she decides can i go out or not or what time can i come.even when im going toilet she asks where are you going?how i grow up woman cant even do anything with out asking ,but me still for her i take this listen .she never says naything good ,at least i never heard.pls tell me where is my mi

Answer 1

It sounds as if she thinks she is better than you because she makes a bit more than you do. This isn't the way a marriage should be. When you get so tired of it then you will tell her what you think about her treatment toward you.

Answer 2

Wow sounds like there is an underlying issue in your marriage that has nothing to do with how "well" you do things. It seems to be something in your wife thats not very right. I don't understand how you let her control everything...that would drive me crazy. It seems like she may have some self worth and self esteem issues and thats why she finds the need to control everything. She seems to be a little rude with not saying "thank you" but maybe she just feels she doesn't have to because she runs things anyway. You really need to evaluate if this is the type of life and marriage you want. It must be very horrible for you! Really sounds like it sucks! It is not healthy and can take a toll on your emotionally, spiritually and physically. Think about it...is it worth it? Is she willing to change?

Answer 3

Oh man, you need to get out of this relationship NOW! It's basically the husband dominating wife role except reversed. It doesn't matter that you're a guy. You shouldn't take this kind of abuse from a control freak woman who would Never be satisfied no matter what you do.

Answer 4

Man, you need a VACATION ! Put a week trip together for you you and some of your male friends title " For Guys Only" and spend a week or two in Brazil (RIO). Trust me your absence at a land full of beautiful women chasing you on the beach and begging for your love will stop your wife's madness.

Answer 5

sounds to me that she does not understand your customs and that she is afriad that you are going to do something bad. i think you need to sit down with her one day and tell her please just listen. do it when she is in a good mood and tell her how you feel . tell her that you don't feel that she enjoys the things you do for her. when you are done saying what you want to say, let her talk and listen the whole time. if it is simply a communication issue it will be the greatest talk you will ever have,if not then keep talking until you find the issue. then when you are done talking, take her out if she is up to it. or ask her what she wants for dinner and ask her to help. you can have a nice romantic dinner for two at home.
i hope this helps. good luck with your talk :)

Answer 6

This sounds pretty bad for you. Why did you marry her? Sounds like you would have been much happier with a more traditional woman.