do all people think of ways to end their lives?

Question

I have often thought of ways to end my life...is this normal?

Answer 1

No, sorry but you need help. if your thinking of doing suicide.. then you really need help. Don't use drugs.. they won't help either. Talk to someone you love. Like family and friends. Don't hide it... cause it'll end up bad. Find a good time to talk to your parents/friends. Good luck

Answer 2

Maybe you have self-doubt about yourself. There are lots of people out there that do and your not alone. You need to gain self-confidence and pump up those endorphins and put some positivity into your system. Start thinking things that you like to do, how you help people and what you have accomplished in your life. Also think of the things that you can be thankful having currently (example. education, job, friends, parents, pets, co-workers, and stuff you have that you own, even a roof over your head to live in).
Maybe try to listen to christian contemporary music and start with that so that it will build some positivity into your system and forming a habit to do it daily so that you can do some good deeds. Or you can listen to songs that have positive words. Because the more good deeds you do in your life on helping others..gradually the rewards that you ask for will form in your life. Think positive always! Form alot of positive energy! Stay away from the negative energy! Negative energy is a powerful absorber! Give it try!
Plus, talk to people about your feelings can also help. It may help your self-esteem on other people's perspective. Light a candle so that it will help balance your moods. Use Lavendar or any candle that has a scent you have.
I've been around people who have been depressive. Including myself, I had been depressive and irritated before and I kicked it to the curb because I was so tired of being sad all the time...so I'm telling you what I know.

Answer 3

To end your life, simply start a new one. Start now. The present is all you have. Life is too short to live it unhappy. There's a world out here waiting to be discovered, waiting for you. Love is here, for you. The only thing stopping you from getting the most out of life is yourself and temporarily, time. Everything you could ever want to achieve is possible. You're capable of providing yourself with everything you could ever want. Besides, everything you could ever need is already inside waiting to be discovered. The fastest way to end you life is to change it now, to leave who you are now behind. Suicide never makes anything better and it sure doesn't end the pain. It prolongs it. There's hope and there's people out here who love you. You're not alone. I know of a man named Jesus who can help you in every way. All you have to do is ask and you shall receive. Look for the signs, the answers. They're there. There's hope.

Answer 4

Sometimes, life seems very hard, and especially if you are young, in the teenage years, it is very hard. Everyone gets down at some point in their life, but most get themselves back up, My Mum used to say to me, "Go out, dont stay in the house", just going for a walk to the shops or to the park, ringing a friend, can really do you the world of good, and changes the way that you feel in a second. Have a nice shower, and dress in nice clothes, that also makes YOU feel good about yourself. If you are still feeling like that, truly, please go and get some advice from your GP, or ring the numbers in the phone book.

Answer 5

I think that may be normal...... I think that life is not always perfect and remember trouble s usually strikes in three, so once we are about to finish with one thing the next comes up... And you get tired but you have to remember for GOD nothing is impossible.. You need to say to him, GOD, I need your help and I leave it up to you to make the decision and since I have gone to you..... I can live with the decision you have made for me. I have been where problems keep coming and coming and at one point said to myself (Why me?/ Is it ever going to get any better?/ And once I asked GOD to step in, he works like a charm. Another note, if you are thinking it one thing if you are trying thats another. You may need to find someone to talk to a friend that really listens and that lives life and he or she appreciates it!!! Remember you must always take care of yourself since we are in this wonderful earth for a purpose!!!! Take a break and take care of yourself

Answer 6

No, I don't think it is. However, many people have had these thoughts at times when they are depressed or feeling unstable. Obviously it bothers you becaused you asked. If you feel you have some issues you need to work through, talk to your parents, your school counselor or your doctor about it. They will all want to be helpful to you. Don't be afraid to bring it up.

Answer 7

Generally speaking, yes everyone thinks of ways... just not of actually doing it. We all wonder what if this and what if that. If you or someone you know is actually thinking of taking his own life, seek counseling. If you're just curious as to whether you're weird, no, you're not -- thoughts are perfectly normal.

Answer 8

No, not normal. I think most ppl think of what its like to die, or what friends and family would do if we died, but thinking of acutal METHODS to use to kill yourself is not normal.

I am a therapist, and one of the things we ask clients to screen them for suicidal risk is if they have a plan or have thought of ways to commit suicide. If they have, its a big red flag. You should seek some help if you feel like you need to!

Answer 9

Not really. Be careful - while it's not going to kill you (literally) if you're not depressed or in a bad state of mind, it might be suggesting more than you need. It might also be a way to deal with something going on in your life...for example, I tend to imagine rather painful, gory deaths to people I dislike.

Answer 10

No it's not normal !
You need professional help ,even if you think you don't ...trust me you really need to tell a professional what you are thinking and feeling ....you might be depressed and there is a lot of help out there ...
Good luck !
Be strong !