2007-05-28 23:15:53 · 19 answers · asked by KS 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think he is commiting soley for the sex.. like a trophy girl.. he doesnt seem interested in knowing me.. i dont know how to tell though
2007-05-28 23:29:29 · update #1
Both will fade; he better hope there is something deeper underneath.
2007-05-28 23:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by wizjp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does make a long term commitment for those unimportant reasons, it will definitely be a divorce. Looks are something that your attracted when you first meet the person and SEX? Sex he can have with anybody, no matter how good or bad they are. What do you think that's how a man fall's in love with a woman? How they have sex?
Compare the time you have sex, to the time you are married! Sex might be as short as 1/2 hour. Marriage is the rest of your life,. till death do you part!
You have to know each other inside and out, mentally & emotionally. Physically just follows!
You shouldn't even talk about marriage! Your obviously very young and all you should be doing is enjoying life right now, free as a bird. Forget any long term commitments and especially getting pregnant at this time. You have such a long way to go. You didn't even meet the man of your dreams yet. Wait, he should be appearing in your late 20's, early 30's. It will be worth the wait.
2007-05-29 06:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is too generalized a question for a "man" because it varies with age and the values different generation of men grow up with.
If you ask a 20 yr old overgrown boy now, he will marry you because he knows he can walk away just as easily. Commitment has no meaning to guys of this age group.
But a more mature guy in his 30s/40s would know marriage based on early sex and looks is unreliable indicator of the partner's suitability and compatibility.
2007-05-29 06:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the type of man.
Some men can actually only think about the looks and sex and you know how it seems like men need sex more than women so yes it is possible that a man would do that.
2007-05-29 06:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by Shylee V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people can marry for sex and looks, but if you are honestly concerned and have not yet married him, then maybe it might be wise to hold off on getting married and try and get to know him on a deeper level and make more of a spiritual, emotional and intimate connection with him rather than just a sexual one.
Maybe try and get involved with things he likes, for example if he likes a certain sport maybe start reading the paper and knowing what is happening in that particular sport as that way it will give you something in common to talk about. One you start to talk more then that's how you will get to know each other better, and maybe this is a way to help with your insecurities as well.
2007-05-29 07:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, you get that type, especially the ones with lotsa money. They chaaf you up, ask you 2 marry, make u sign an antinup, use you for sex, sex and more sex, until some other hotty comes around and then hes filing for divorce. Then you get the sensitive type, and yes, they do exist.
2007-05-29 06:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking the question you already have your answer. He most likely isn't interested in anything more from you. Though people do marry for silly reasons, it would be wiser to marry someone who actually wants you. Sex and looks fade. The soul stays forever.
2007-05-29 07:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hon, he might make a comitment for a while, but a person will not have there looks or practice great sex with the same person for too long. Everything gets old soon enough.
2007-05-29 06:48:33 · answer #8 · answered by Vegas Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, some men (and women) marry for money, so you know there are some who will marry a person based on looks or someone who can lay it down sexually. This would be ideal for someone who cares what others think or someone who was nerdy growing up and now has a dime piece on his arm as his wife.....talk about someone getting props from fam and friends!!!
2007-05-29 06:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mature man would not. And a mature woman would be able to tell the difference between whether he just wants to marry her for who she is as a person - her character and personality - and something only outward. That's why we women have such great instincts! Listen to your little voices!
2007-05-29 06:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hollywood almost seems to prove this point, of course then
they get divorced in 6 months so maybe the commitment
wasn't that long term.
2007-05-29 06:20:47 · answer #11 · answered by wise old sage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋