My husband 12 years and I are always looking to spice up our sex life together without offending ourselves or other people!
We went to many swing party's but never participated in sex, honestly, more then either could handle ,Hell it was SICK to be honest!
Thursday night my husband had us go to a sex EDUCATION Session, I will admit it was great!
She talked about the health of sex as well as healthy attitudes toured partner!
She even talked about Hygiene, pregnancy & many other things! best $250 husband ever spent on us I say PROUDLY!
She had us privately try a few things & WOW their goes the roof!
we got 8 (2k) more to go ,and looking forward to them through one of the interesting things she talks about is that we're mammals were human with all the emotional strings attached told us, she believes in monogamy because when you share sex with others it will get messy enough said!
I honestly think a class like this should be mandatory for newlyweds!
What you think?
2007-05-28 14:38:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm want to say the session lasted an hour and a half and it was just us no one else particapating at all!
Also put our sex life into obit, no lie!
REALLY LOOKING FORWARD TO THE * OTHERS!
2007-05-28 14:40:20 · update #1
TRUST ME IT WAS WORTH EVERY PENNY!
SHes marriage counsel and it was hand on each other marriage counseling!
I'm planing to keep this guy and this eduacatin was WOW!
Well worth the $250!!!
2007-05-28 15:20:56 · update #2
I find it benifits a good Marriage, but it wont fix a bad one.
Talking comunication, are fantastic to a good marriage. The difficulty is sometimes getting husbands to participate, due to pride , masculinity, whatever......
I applaud your husband for suggesting and participating.
others out there..... there are less expensive counselors, many of us work on a sliding scale or even free in some cases. my advice...GIVE IT A TRY !!!!
2007-05-28 15:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, sex is not. A small minority of the population don't give high importance to sex; they're simply uninterested. Those people are few and far between and, if they marry a person with a similar non-interest in sex, I think that it can work. But, if I might hazard a guess, you are not that kind of person, as you have an *aversion* to sex (i.e., "ewwww"), not a non-interest in sex. The Christian viewpoint on this is found in Paul's letter to the Corinthians (1 Corinthians 7.2-7): *** But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I say this as a concession, not as a command. I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that. *** So, Paul assumes that we're sensual people (for a variety of reasons) but that, if you're not a sensual person like he is, then not having sex is OK. But, those people are few and far between and most couples that abstain from sex will, after a short while, have their sex drives revving. And, so that has the potential to become a place where sex withheld from one's partner is actually harmful to one's partner.
2016-05-20 02:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should be mandatory for everyone period. Many people have a very unhealthy perspective on sex. Think about how many marriages could be saved if people could work beyond their sex problems through education.
I'm all for this. Wish there was something in my state that we could attend.
2007-05-28 14:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope don't think so maybe it was alright for you but not every couple can afford $250.This women is robbing you blind. My Husband of 14yrs says no way were not swingers but it sounds like this women wants you & yours no thank you and it sounds like your brain washed already get out while you can that's if you really want to.I say I can think of better things to spend my money on.Good Luck
2007-05-28 14:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by sugarbdp1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thanks for sharing your experience. It sounds like fun!
When my husband and I get bored of the usual I will definitely keep it in mind. And I think it would be a great idea for married couples to try. Might make less marriages end in divorce.
2007-05-28 14:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You paid $250 for someone to talk to you about sex? You got screwed alright.
NO, I don't think those lessons should be mandatory.
2007-05-28 14:49:36 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes because it's been seven years and I'm bored already. Because he's older his storm is subsiding and I'm just getting my second wind. Maybe I need to look into that.
2007-05-28 14:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by Dutchess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Education always helps.
2007-05-28 14:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's fantastic that you got to experience that, but there is no way it will be mandatory. People have to chose to do so.
2007-05-28 14:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by andrea c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds interesting......I'm not sure. But mongamy is always a good thing to promote. So ,sure why not?
2007-05-28 14:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋