Marriage & Divorce - 28 May 2007

2007-05-28 10:16:42 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

In India, many husbands leave their wives and kids and go away with other females. Even if the wives are not working, these husbands do not bother to look after the survival needs of them. Law too has no strong remedy for this. Is it right?

2007-05-28 09:23:58 · 58 answers · asked by Dr. Rekhaa Kale 3

How do you stop arguing with your spouse, huh??? Well i am so in love with him, and i know he is in love with me. We have been married for a year and a half now but i feel we argue so much over the stupidest things. Help me, what can i do!!!

2007-05-28 08:17:06 · 15 answers · asked by tia m 1

A debate amongst my friends and I, I was wondering the other opinions out there. Should you get married after you graduate from College (with a BA or BS) and before you go to graduate school or wait until after graduate school and before you get a job or after you have been working for awhile? Tricky I know, I hope you understand the little bits.

Marry:
Before Graduate School
After Graduate School but before beginning "new" job with whatever degree
After working for awhile

2007-05-28 08:14:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whom do you put first: your husband or your children? If you put your children first, is it ok for your husband to put your children before you? I think a wife should always put her husband first.

2007-05-28 08:09:05 · 18 answers · asked by YBMEUBU 3

My husband will lie about anything, why does he feel that he needs to. I always know right away.

2007-05-28 08:06:03 · 14 answers · asked by verysad74 1

Is it wrong of me to be angry that my ex-husband chose to walk his step-daughter down the isle instead of going to his own daughters college graduation ceremony? His new wife has pulled him away from communicating with his own children and then gets mad if they call him. I've been holding my anger in for quite some time. Mind you, my children are now 20 and 22. They aren't babies anymore.

2007-05-28 07:45:22 · 21 answers · asked by Sherry K 2

Has anyone else noticed that in the last 10 or so years this has changed? Can't be bring that back? And maybe it would improve the respect issue a lot of kids have.

2007-05-28 07:40:30 · 27 answers · asked by ancestryhelp 1

my partner of nearly a year called me saturday and said that according to HIM the relationship was not working. I had no idea this was coming and am at home all lonely and with no plans coz i told everyone that we were spending the weekend together so i didnt get invited anywhere.
no there is no other woman involved we are basically together all day and night. I feel mad at him, angry, sad that this happned could he not wait till the holiday weekend was over?

2007-05-28 07:35:14 · 14 answers · asked by reene2g 4

I have been married for 3 yrs and have a 2 yr old son with my husband. For a little while now, my husband has been a total jerk to me, and he just gets worse as time goes by. I have talked to him about it, but he gets mad when I mention it and starts another arguement. He tells me when I can smoke, where I need to smoke, calls me lazy & told my son that he doesn't expect him to do anything since his mother doesn't... He gets mad everytime I say I like something at the store or in comercials, saying I spend all of his money(Talking isn't spending). Whenever I try to leave he grabs my son and says he'll never let me have him if I go. I feel trapped because if I leave I have to live with my mom 3 hrs away because I haven't worked in 4 years, and didn't have many jobs when I did work. So, I'd never get custody, and his family is wreckless, riding him around without a carseat, leaving him outside alone-no fence, and leaving sewing needles and scissors laying out in his play area...

2007-05-28 07:33:47 · 18 answers · asked by ChaoticKimmy 3

Since I joined this site, I've answered a lot of question concerning the infidelity of their husband, most of it are so sad. That's why Im wondering why some married men are willing to give their affection to the woman that they never even knew that well, instead of their own wife?
Let's not talk about maybe his not getting it from home,, or maybe their having a problem.
Reality check here, I think it doesn't matter if a couples are having a problem about their realtionship,it doesn't give no rights for married men just to find another woman( married or single),just to throw away what they had for years .
And if things didn't work out with the other woman,
1) Why go back??
2) Why hurt your partner or the kids in the process?

Guys let's be polite answering this question please! No judging or think that this is me who's having this issue, I thank you!!

2007-05-28 07:27:09 · 16 answers · asked by islandgirl06 5

Ok well my bf and I have been together for 9 months. We also live together. A month ago, while giving me a promise ring, he also insinuated that he wanted it to be an engagement ring but I told him that it was much too soon. A couple days ago we were talking, and he said that he really wanted to propose to me for our year anniversary. He said if I were to say no that it would probably be the end of our relationship. What should I do?? I mean, I love him, but I really don't want to be engaged that early. I feel that we should be together for at least over a year, just so we actually know each other. Am I being insensitive or is he being pushy?? Thank you so much for your help!

2007-05-28 07:19:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-28 07:11:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yeah, I know there are dozens of the same question out there. Just let me give you an example of why I'm considering it myself...last night was another blow up. He asked for help in carrying food outside for the grill. I came up with the idea to put everything stacked in one container so he could carry it all himself. This royally pissed him off because he wanted the corn on the cob on a separate plate and not in the pan I gave him. I mean he got really pissed. Apparently, I never listen to him. This is soooo stupid, I know. What difference does it make? Why was it sooo important to have the corn on a plate instead of in a pan???? But all I keep thinking is...this is going to be my life. Fighting over corn. He has been to therapy already...no not over corn, over "anger management". Thought we were past this stuff but apparently not. We are a little over two months away from the wedding, all the plans, travel arrangements are made etc. Help!

2007-05-28 07:08:15 · 32 answers · asked by runjennyrun 1

She spent over seven hours on this site yesterday alone!!! HELP!!!!!

2007-05-28 07:01:47 · 15 answers · asked by minty 4

2007-05-28 06:32:55 · 11 answers · asked by muyak 1

I have had 2 long term relationships with men who are married. The first one I couldn't committ to he was ready to leave his wife and I broke up with him, we are still friends. The current relationship has been going on for several years and it gets harder to share. Why don't I value myself?

2007-05-28 06:02:43 · 50 answers · asked by Kathryn L 1

like a year...i just want to add that we're married for a year...

2007-05-28 05:27:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our son lives with his mother and her husband approx 100-120 miles away. for the last 5 years, she has refused to drive him to us or even meet us halfway. Not illness, storm or time constraints have affected her decision. Several times we have discovered she has been "in town" but still makes us drive out to get him, even on the same day...
Financially, they are much better off than us ( we have 2 more children, they have just the one) and gas & time are hard to deal with. We have had to call and cancel his visit if we do not have the money to drive both ways. Also our grandfather has been driving to get our son many many times because we can not afford to. Is there a court order that could be obtained to create a more financially equal obligation?

I am risking a lot to attempt this, she retaliates whenever we go to FOC...(we pay child support) we take him for weeks/months at a time and she does not want us to claim it. She bends over backward to withhold him when mad.

2007-05-28 05:25:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY HUSBAND AND I ARE SEPARATED NOW..HE WANTS TO COME BACK WITH ME THE LAST I TALKED TO HIM,BUT I DONT SEE ANY EFFORT OR REGRET FOR WHAT HE DONE TO ME AND MY KIDS..HIS A CHEATER AND A LIER..THEN HE DIDNT ASK ME ANYMORE AND THEN I HEARD THAT HIS LIVING WITH SOMEONE NOW.I DONT HAVE ANY CONTACT WITH HIM ANYMORE..THEN I HEARD FROM HIS FAMILY THAT HE SEARCHED ME AND ASKING SOME DETAILS OF WHATS GOING ON WITH US.HE ABANDONED US AND ITS REALLY PAINFUL AND THE FACT THAT IM STILL LOVE HIM..MY QUESTION IS HE STILL LOVES ME?WHY HES SEARCHING ME AND ASKING SOME DETAILS...I NEED YOUR SINCERE ANSWER BECAUSE ITS IMPORTANTTO ME...THANKS AND GODBLESS

2007-05-28 05:16:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am curious to what other think so here is the question:

Should a person live with someone before they get married? Why?

2007-05-28 05:05:34 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am single parents. I have two children and now my son live with his father and my girl live with me. I was divorced because ex husband married again, when we still a husband and wife, and I am so dumd, doesn't know everything about that . I can't accept the condition. But till right know my ex husband always give the statement with my son a layer story, that he never did it. He always said that it is only my story and never trust the story. He always said that I want to divorce with him so that why I always barder him about his new wife. I don't want to tell my son cause he still 10th years old. I never said that I caught his father with his new family. My son always think that his father is a hero. Till I was divorced 3 years a go my son didn't talk with me, he hate me so much. I feel like I am dying. And Know my son talk with me only asked me to comeback with his father, and said his father never want the divorced, and still love me forever, and forced me.

2007-05-28 04:35:21 · 9 answers · asked by ika_dj 1

and think about another man wife during night. I don't know how to controll myself.

2007-05-28 04:34:29 · 5 answers · asked by Marlon L 1

he likes me and loves me very much. but his wife forgive him give him chance and he felt guilty. they trying hard to save their marriage now. but after so much of effort he still miss me, call me & date me out. he told me its tempted and lust. he sometime deny the feeling of love. can anyone tell me is love and lust come together? he told me he lost his courage to love me cos of his wife forginess. but when i told him i wanted to quit he start to panic and sad. he will do little deed to make me stay. since he put in effort to save his marriage but why he still have feeling for me? did he truly loves me? i decided to end this relationship, but we work at same company. whenever we can see each other we find it very hard to let go the feeling. he avoid me sometime but sometime he miss me and he will appear infront of me. the emotion dragging till now. how to bury the feeling if we still work in same place? we both suffer cos not willy to let go but have to cos of his marriage.

2007-05-28 04:28:43 · 15 answers · asked by sarah@520 1

My wife and I have been married for 2 years. We come from different family background. She came from money and I grew up poor. She looks down on my family and doesnt ever want to spend time with them. I go to college and work full time and also do all the housework(most of the time). Almost every weekend I'll go to my brothers house to hang out with my family. She will get mad and say a whole bunch of cruel things. I spend so much time with her but still get treated like crap. I tried to get her into marriage counselling but she wont go stating that she doesnt have a problem. How do I save my marriage? I never got married to get a divorce but with her not sharing housework and calling me a f-ing loser all the time because I never went to college until I was 28. I just dont know. Thanks for taking the time to read this.

2007-05-28 04:25:17 · 50 answers · asked by starwalker530 1

how can i find a good wife

2007-05-28 04:15:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cannot go to a doctor until next month and want to know what are some signs that you are?

2007-05-28 04:13:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

of working on the Marriage and getting to the other side together.. I know some Marriages are not meant to be and for them they need to divorce.Has anyone been in a Marriage that was not meant to be?

2007-05-28 04:08:52 · 14 answers · asked by MJ 6

i like one man. i'm 19 (2-nd year uni student). he's 41. i've been staying with my friend's family in new jersey state for 3 months. he's the friend of the family. he's divorced, his wife cheated on him, they don't see each other, no kids. he's a pretty well-known actor, he's a very nice, easy person, and very clever, sporty one as well. when he first came while having dinner he glanced at me now and then, we talked.he has a very good sense of humour. he came to me when i was doing the dishes and we talked again. then he came every time he had free time? we sort of became closer to each other. not htat he was paying me more attention than others.on the 3rd month i didn't sleep at night and was sitting downstairs in the dark room.heard someone coming.it was him,he wanted water.he saw me.we talked, he asked why didn't i have a bf and gave some good advices.after a while i fell asleep, and he took me to my room. when he turned to leave i woke up and asked him to stay.he said he couldn't because of my age, but i asked him, and we made love for 5-6 hours i guess.the whole family took off for a week to visit their relatives, so i stayed alone, and he also came. we spend whole week together.we had sex onyl twice! so it's not just sex.now we're together for 5 months, i met his friends, parents, we care about each other. one of my friends that know him said he was thinking to move in with me and stuff.
do you think i should move with him? what do you think in generaldon't say he's too old, coz i'm always into men in their late 30s-early40s, and yes, i have a father,he's my best friend, i love him very much

2007-05-28 04:02:39 · 8 answers · asked by Rose M 1

My best friend and her husband have been on rocks for quite a while. She finally told me a couple months ago that things were not good and they were going to counseling. Well, counseling has not helped and now it is time for the divorce. She doesn't want or like to talk about it, so I don't bring it up. I support her decision 100%, he's a jerk, I told her that on day one of their relationship. She just keeps saying that he needs to change a lot and it's not going to happen. I do think there are mutual issues (trust, drinking, money). What can I do to help her out without being to pushy or in her face about it?

2007-05-28 03:48:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous