A debate amongst my friends and I, I was wondering the other opinions out there. Should you get married after you graduate from College (with a BA or BS) and before you go to graduate school or wait until after graduate school and before you get a job or after you have been working for awhile? Tricky I know, I hope you understand the little bits.
Marry:
Before Graduate School
After Graduate School but before beginning "new" job with whatever degree
After working for awhile
2007-05-28 08:14:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I understand the whole "when you're ready for it" but there are circumstances where you might b ready for marriage but certain things (i.e. education, location, employment) might get in the way, which is why I asked the question. But thanks everyone else who answered.
2007-05-28 08:24:03 · update #1
Hello, I will awnser this with the rest of your life in mind ! For now focus on your education. Then focus on your career,"job". After doing those find someone who is likeminded to marry ! Life is all about priorities. So we need to finish one job before begining the next. I"ll be praying for you.
2007-05-28 08:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get married when:
1. You are legally allowed to do so
2. Emotionally and psychologically mature enough to deal with the responsibilities of marriage
3. Can function independently
4. Have a good job or the skills/education to get a good job
5. Have acquired the relationship skills necessary to smooth over the inevitable disputes that arise during a marriage.
Your age and educational attainment are meaningless.
2007-05-28 15:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by e_d_ellis2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about after college and you have a good job while going to graduate school
2007-05-28 15:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by ><>JHF<>< 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should marry when you feel that you are ready. What does it matter where you are in school or your career?
2007-05-28 15:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by karenhar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married when......
A. You're actually in love.
B. You are financially independent
C. You are finished with ALL school
D. You're not living with your parents!
2007-05-28 15:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time is when a person is ready for it.
2007-05-28 15:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MARRY WHEN YOU ARE READY - NO SOONER. IF YOU ARE IN ANY FORM OF DOUBT....THAN WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE SURE. THERE IS NEVER S DEFINITE TIME FRAME FOR FALLING IN LOVE - YOU REALLY CANT PIN POINT IT ONTO A COLLEGE DEGREE SCHEDULE;
2007-05-28 15:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by litlbigdg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋