2007-05-28 07:11:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, a couple; first, one must ask how you are going about doing what you are doing. Has it become a routine that the two of you have gotten into, with no attempt to be creative?
Secondly, what else is going on in your life? Once you get older and the stress of work, bills, family, etc. intrude, yes, it can be difficult.
Thirdly, one might check out that there is nothing physically wrong;
Fourth, you might find out how often he climaxes, on his own. Fifth, it might be a good time to delve into your fantasies. What do you dream of and what does he dream of? Some good sharing of fantasies and role playing can really be fun and it's exactly what you want, to fulfill your own fantasies between the two of you.
Finally, how are you going about it? There are a lot of choices but often people reduce it to doing just one thing. How many other things are you trying? One question on this, is your sex life defined more by why you WON'T do or by what you WILL do?
2007-05-28 07:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by John B 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
need to do more things in the day leading up to the evening try to show more expressions of how much you care for one another, and try to be more deliberate in the clothes ,the places you go ,call one another during the day try to sneak home early in the day ,go to bed early catch Good nap and then see what happen.
2007-05-28 10:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by lildreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key is trying new positions, add some music, dress up in something sexy, kinky, role play a little. Tease him all day from time you wake up, till the time you meet up again in bed
2007-05-28 07:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It most likely is not that the problem lies in the bedroom...but...outside the bedroom. Get everything else in your love life straight and things will work out better in the bedroom.
2007-05-28 07:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try role playing games, porno's together that you both would enjoy, lots of foreplay, and like others have stated ask and tell one another.
2007-05-28 07:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsey R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not having sex for a while. Like, a month. And NO masterbation. You will both get so horny that as soon as you finally do it you will enjoy it.......;)
2007-05-28 09:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by Emily N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the real problem may not be sexual
why not stay away from each other and figure out what it was that you originally liked about this person?
2007-05-28 07:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask and TELL. Let him know what YOU want and need too.
Try new things, be spontaneous..
2007-05-28 07:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masterbation, foreplay, oral, lots and lots and lots of oral, tell secrets talk dirty, tell each other what you want with much detail, garters and stockings and play games.
2007-05-28 07:23:21 · answer #9 · answered by bobcatlady2u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you try asking him what he wants?
2007-05-28 07:13:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋