cAN U GIVE ME SOME IDEA ABOUT IT..?

Question

MY HUSBAND AND I ARE SEPARATED NOW..HE WANTS TO COME BACK WITH ME THE LAST I TALKED TO HIM,BUT I DONT SEE ANY EFFORT OR REGRET FOR WHAT HE DONE TO ME AND MY KIDS..HIS A CHEATER AND A LIER..THEN HE DIDNT ASK ME ANYMORE AND THEN I HEARD THAT HIS LIVING WITH SOMEONE NOW.I DONT HAVE ANY CONTACT WITH HIM ANYMORE..THEN I HEARD FROM HIS FAMILY THAT HE SEARCHED ME AND ASKING SOME DETAILS OF WHATS GOING ON WITH US.HE ABANDONED US AND ITS REALLY PAINFUL AND THE FACT THAT IM STILL LOVE HIM..MY QUESTION IS HE STILL LOVES ME?WHY HES SEARCHING ME AND ASKING SOME DETAILS...I NEED YOUR SINCERE ANSWER BECAUSE ITS IMPORTANTTO ME...THANKS AND GODBLESS

Answer 1

My thoughts are if he was able to live with someone else where is the love for you. Not being mean, but if he is able to move on with his life at that point is there real love there? He may regret some of the things he did or said, but if he isn't taking responsibly for it, then he feels as if it wasn't any of his fault. You have to decide if the life you lived with him then would be better this time around. Usually they say it doesn;t get better, but worse. If you love him and want to make a life with him then give him a call to talk about this. I do wish you a lot of luck

Answer 2

My guess, a combination of inner ego and things lost. At some point if the two of you don't reunite, you will most likely move on, and to some guys that's like a slap in the face as if he lost you to someone else. Bottom line, cheater and a liar. It takes years to gain back the trust. It seems as though he does have some regrets, but maybe not for what he's done as much as regreting losing something that was a big part of his life. It's like an emptiness and he knows you are what fills it but who's to say once he's accustomed to you being there again, the same won't happen again. Hope this helps, wish you the best in whatever you chose. Love is difficult.

Answer 3

You have to become very strong act like your in total control now. If he ever wants you back, he should have to climb Mt. Everest to achieve what it should take to get you back, especially after what he has done. He hurt you and your children with incredible disrespect. You should never even think of taking him back, but you could still be standing there with pride and your arms folded and showing him a side of that he never knew about you. If he really loves you and he really wants you back, that's when he should prove how sorry he is. Not only by what he says, but also by what he does.

He lost his wife and children now and all he should do is suffer for a long, long time. As time passes, you'll know what to do. Just worry about your children right now. They're what's important. I wish you all the luck. God Bless

Answer 4

i'm not condoning what he did, but maybe there are some feelings left there and he really just wants to see how well his children are doing. if you know you still love him, maybe contact him. go to a marriage counseler or something. Love is a fragile thing. if you have a chance for it, better grab it before it gets away.