How do you stop arguing with your spouse, huh??? Well i am so in love with him, and i know he is in love with me. We have been married for a year and a half now but i feel we argue so much over the stupidest things. Help me, what can i do!!!
2007-05-28 08:17:06 · 15 answers · asked by tia m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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Good luck to you both.
2007-05-28 08:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by ChopperPilot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat the little stuff, in other words, choose your arguments, and leave the small, stupid arguments alone. It is perfectly okay not to agree about everything. You have to remember that men and women ARE very different. In the beginning of my marriage, my husband and I would have argued about anything and everything, simply because we don't think the same. I learned just to sometimes say, mmmm, okay, and walk away, and then go and do it my way anyway. He says the two most important words he ever learned to say to me were "Yes Dear". An argument over something important is going to be inevitable, so save all your energy for then. I assure you, if you do not make a habit of arguing about stupid things, he will listen to you a lot better when "the big one" comes along.
2007-05-28 10:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by sparrow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The start of an argument is like the first break in a dam; stop it before it goes any further. As a young married couple, instead of dwelling on little things that don't really matter and arguing about it, just let it go. Also, you two should also learn to tolerate each other's point of view - don't always want to be in the right.
2007-05-28 09:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by OGB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens at times , guess part of being married. I would ask are either of you under alot of stress ,recently we moved into a new house that caused plenty of stress & arguements, pretty much so that the day before we moved it was going to be our seperate ways. I really would say to try to spend a night out together alone time to remember how much you two love eachother and don't want to argue about the little things. Ask him if everything is o.k. and if he would like to talk maybe that will help a little. Guys are guys and don't read into everything like we do.
2007-05-28 08:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by linda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two people to argue. When conversations are heading that way, in a very polite manner tell him that you will be more than glad to talk with him when he's more calm.
2007-05-28 08:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lulu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you rather be right or happy? try to let go of trying to make him the man you want him to be, and love him for the man that he is. just because you dont agree with something doesnt mean he doesnt have the right to feel how feels
read the book
the proper care & feeding of husbands
2007-05-28 08:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop arguing is all; realize that it's not worth it in the long run.
2007-05-28 08:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel that an argument is coming on just back off. Choose your fights. Words hurt more than anything else.
2007-05-28 08:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he is in your face, all you have to do is walk away. It takes two to argue.
2007-05-28 08:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to let the little stuff go. You need to pick your battles and not fight over everything, only the important stuff.
2007-05-28 08:21:43 · answer #10 · answered by Clever_Cat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋