I am single parents. I have two children and now my son live with his father and my girl live with me. I was divorced because ex husband married again, when we still a husband and wife, and I am so dumd, doesn't know everything about that . I can't accept the condition. But till right know my ex husband always give the statement with my son a layer story, that he never did it. He always said that it is only my story and never trust the story. He always said that I want to divorce with him so that why I always barder him about his new wife. I don't want to tell my son cause he still 10th years old. I never said that I caught his father with his new family. My son always think that his father is a hero. Till I was divorced 3 years a go my son didn't talk with me, he hate me so much. I feel like I am dying. And Know my son talk with me only asked me to comeback with his father, and said his father never want the divorced, and still love me forever, and forced me.
2007-05-28 04:35:21 · 9 answers · asked by ika_dj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Truth will stand when everything else fails. Your son will learn the truth about you, and apologize to you, when he gets a little older. I know it hurts now.
2007-05-28 04:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It would be great if you could sit down with your husband away
from all the other problems and state that it is important for this for your son to have a healthy outlook on you and others.
Why did you two stray apart after 2 children .? It is so import-
ant for love in a relationship.You have to make this right with
your X regarding your son's outlook on life and to grow up with a healthy mind. Call set up a private meet. Look outstanding for this. Be nice and friendly to get the job done.
let me know
2007-05-28 05:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by kittycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you go back to his father with him married? At 10 years old they are at the age where they are easily influenced and that is what is happening here. Next time he starts about this just be honest with him, though he probably won't believe you. What his dad is doing is called control and no way should he be allowed to raise his son at this rate. If you go back you will live in misery.
2007-05-28 04:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many church homes tutor that he's 3 in a single to get faraway from the thought the trinity could pass against the 1st commandment that states God Is One. Jesus isn't the father. The holy spirit is the spirit of the father. Jesus submitted completly to the will of God thus grew to alter into one with the spirit of God(the holy spirit) He grew to alter into one with God yet grew to become into by no ability the author Father God. people who positioned as much as God and the Holy spirit can substitute into one with Jesus. Is it no longer written that Christ is got here across from interior? the dominion of God is interior you,and the physique is the temple of the residing God? to stroll with Jesus and to be a channel for divine love is to be born returned of the spirit. it relatively is being touched with the aid of the holy spirit and has no longer something to do with rituals and dogma. it relatively is a non secular baptism relatively than a actual baptism.
2016-12-12 04:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to grow a spine and tell your son to stay out of your business. only you can go back if you want to. you and your ex are divorced for a reason. he's your ex for a reason. this world doesn't revolve around your son and he needs to understand that. people divorce...it's live. he needs to get over it.
2007-05-28 04:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how kids can make us feel guilty, but the bottom line is..you are the adult and you have the facts...he is just ten years old, there is no way he can make an adult decision, you have to make the decision and some day when he grows up he might understand. Parents are giving way too much power to kids these days...hold your stand, but don't let it get you down or make you feel guilty or he will misinterpret you and think you ARE the guilty one. Best Wishes to You!!
2007-05-28 05:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son will be able to figure it all out when he is older. Try to not worry about the things you cannot change, and focus on your own happiness.
2007-05-28 04:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is called bigamy. Show proof to your son. He has to learn the truth sometime.
2007-05-28 04:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by p00756 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?? growed woman ?? who's the boss??
2007-05-28 08:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋