my partner of nearly a year called me saturday and said that according to HIM the relationship was not working. I had no idea this was coming and am at home all lonely and with no plans coz i told everyone that we were spending the weekend together so i didnt get invited anywhere.
no there is no other woman involved we are basically together all day and night. I feel mad at him, angry, sad that this happned could he not wait till the holiday weekend was over?
2007-05-28 07:35:14 · 14 answers · asked by reene2g 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Read a good book.
2007-05-28 09:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently this guy did not have the same feelings about you that you had for him. You say that there wasn't no other woman because you always was together day and night does this mean you all were together 24 hours a day 7 days a week? So honestly, you don't know whether another woman was in the picture. I say this because it seems mighty strange for him to call off the plans even the relationship with you all of a sudden. From a man's point a view, I am sure someone else is in the picture.
The holiday weekend comes and goes. If you want to get out of the house call up someone who is having a cook out and ask if you can come over because your plans have changed and you would like to attend the gathering.
2007-05-28 08:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by stergre1975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you think you'd handle it better if it was tuesday? C'mon...get serious.
It can't be that bad of a thing if the most important issue for you is the fact you are stuck doing nothing on an extra day off...
If he felt it wasn't working, and you feel blindsided by it, then you weren't paying too terribly much attention to the signs...which is disturbing since you spent so much time with him...it basically says you have a very self centered streak...and it may be something you need to work on for your next relationship.
2007-05-28 07:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 00:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's right. Your relationship has problems. You seem to care more for having plans for the holiday than you do for your bf. If I were him, I'd feel really neglected and nothing more to you than a warm body.
Being together day and night is a smothering scenario.
This is not a relationship; it is bad news. Move on.
2007-05-28 07:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by LindaLou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would that have mattered in the grand scheme of thing? You still would be broken up and probably more upset because you had "a great weekend" together before he pulled the rug from under you. Look at it as a liberating weekend and enjoy your day.
2007-05-28 08:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by indydst8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This brings back memories. I used to date a guy years ago that did this to me and I later found out he cancelled our holiday plans to be with another woman. Move on. I recommend that you do not call him and ask him anything because this was cold what he done. He is not reliable and you shouldn't be with someone that suddenly decides he doesn't want to be with you. That is called leading a person on and that's what he did to you.
2007-05-28 08:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by Shay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is great...you should be happy that you didn't spend another day/holiday with someone who doesn't want to be there...it's a process you have to go through to get over him...the sooner it starts, the better...
2007-05-28 07:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by Lioness 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow .. he broke up with you and your only worried about plans for a holiday weekend???? I would use the time to get over him and sometimes being around other couples could make you sadder.
2007-05-28 07:42:37 · answer #9 · answered by emnari 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe since you said you spend almost all day and night together, he felt smothered and needed some breathing room and needed to get away. talk to him and see if this is what he needed... just his time and his space.
2007-05-28 07:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋