it seems that a lot of women are only looking for a "sugar daddy" or the STUPID "ganaster" type males. Do women even care about manners and "old fashioned values"? This is not directed to all women, but just wanted to know if any still existed.
2007-05-28 22:04:52 · 12 answers · asked by drew 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes Drew there's a lot of us still exist, your just looking in a wrong place,....good luck love!! and thanks
2007-05-29 04:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with a girl wanting to find a Sugar Daddy, is there? A girl who is smart and intelligent wants to be taken care of by a man .... that's what a knight in shining armour is suppose to do.
And no, most of us like the "bad boy" type ... but we are by no means attracted to the "ganster types". We do however appreciate successful, wealthy and generous men. :-)
Then again, you should check out some of the Sugar Daddy dating websites -- for example, SeekingArrangement.com... and you will see that most of the girls on there are not superficial, and they do in fact care about manners and old fashion values... but they just prefer to date a successful man who has all of those qualities as oppose to just someone who only has those qualities ;-)
2007-05-29 06:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Me, but I'm married to an equally good guy! Sorry!
And many women do like those types of things, but tend to get asked out more often by the bad guys. (not all: some chicks are drama queens and like to date the wrong ones to perpetuate that)
In my experience, because I am shy, the bad guys always asked me out, until my (now) husband did.
I was supposed to be dating this guy, but he kept blowing me off, and Nolan (my husband) and I would talk at work sometimes. He pursued me, even though he is very shy himself (more so than me) and antisocial. He told me later that he just knew what he wanted: me.
He said one day "If you were my girl friend, I would never treat you like that." I admit I was a little skeptical at first, but he really is a great guy. Very considerate. And we are each other's best friends.
We've been together since Sept. 2003, and married since Sept. 2005. And we have a 2 year old son.
So, I say, if you like a chick, as a good guy: go for it, at least take a chance, because she may not know you like her. You will probably have to pursue her to get her to notice you: because, like I said, the bad guys tend to be much more aggressive and that's why they end up with good chicks.
Hope that helps you! Good luck!
2007-05-29 05:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by Frances 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you ain't gonna find them in bars or crazy parties. All depends on where you look and what do you really have to offer besides manners and old fashion values. If you go to a church, you stand a much better chance.
On the other hand, if you to go to the Green Earth party, you need to behave more militantly about hugging trees and taking less baths.
2007-05-29 06:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes good old fashioned women do still exist. I, for one, would much rather heave a man who knows how to treat me with respect and dignity. Some women just don't know their worth so they settle for what they think looks good on the outside but everything that looks good aint good for you.
2007-05-29 12:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by MeMe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course we do. I believe it is a phase women go through. THey need to get it out of their system before they are ready to settle down with a good catch. Having a shitty boyfriend in our past makes us appreciate you old fashioned boys with manners! I went through the gangster stage, and finally settled down with my best friend - really makes me appreciate the person that he is!! You don't want a girl who is looking for a hard *** anyway, because chances are she will treat you like **** and take advantage of you.
2007-05-29 05:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki Rae 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeh they exist, they are called Christians (real ones, not self proclaimed ones.)
the women you described hang out at these places: Clubs, Pubs, wherever the gangster sugar daddys are (so, clubs, the streets with there overpriced cars, wild parties etc).
looking for women in all the wrong places will bring along all the wrong women. maybe a change of scene is neccessary?
i know plenty of good women who care about the right things. me being one of them.
2007-05-29 05:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well around my city most girls are looking for guy's with lots of money, or lots of pills, lots of dope, lots of drugs, lots of nice things or someone like that. I am not like that at all. So my hubby is very lucky. lol But I agree most women in my area are like that.. sad but true.
2007-05-29 05:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by Dawn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are, you just need to look for the MATURE ones.
2007-05-29 06:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, but you have to take into account theyve already been "bad".
2007-05-29 05:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋