talk to him? He just calls up out of the blue like nothing... I told my current husband about it, and he seemed a bit pissed, and I cant tell if it was at me or just the situation...
2007-05-31 12:44:30 · 11 answers · asked by Rebekah G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He shouldn't get angry if it's an isolated call, but if the calls are unwanted, you should screen the call, block his number, or tell him not to call.
2007-05-31 13:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be mad at the situation, after all he knows your ex is only calling to hook back up. Guys know these things even if women don't want to realize it.
However he should not get mad at you, at least for the first call. After that one all bets are off. Depends on what you do about it, do you tell your ex never to call again or do you talk to him? Tell him you never want him to contact you in any way, block his number and hang up if he does call. If you can do that, no husband would get made at you. However if you are a typical woman and don't want to make the ex mad, you are to blame if he keeps calling.
If it was his ex calling, I doubt you would be a happy camper...keep that in mind.
Be very careful, marriages end over things like this.
2007-05-31 12:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 ex.....one I work with (been 4 years now) and the other one will stop by once a week, I still visit his family and him mine and we divorced 8 years ago.
Any man in my life who has something to say against that is out the door. I will not deal with an immature man.
Your present husband has no saying in what kind of relationship you have with your ex if it`s done in a respectful and civilized way.
2007-05-31 12:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you continued to talk to him, then yes. I'm assuming you do not have children to discuss. Would you like for your husband to sit around chatting with an ex-wife or girlfriend?
Do to others as you would have them do to you. Luke 6:31
When you are talking to that ex, you are giving time and attention to the ex that belongs to your husband - dangerous step one to putting yourself in compromising situations.
The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down. Proverbs 14:1
If he calls back, you do not have to pick up the phone. If you do say, "I am married and can't be talking to you. Please do not call me. I'm hanging up now. Bye."
A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. Proverbs 31:10-12
I pray this is helpful. May God bless you and your household.
2007-05-31 13:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your husband shouldn't be mad at you. You didn't tell your ex to call you. And perhaps you ex called for an important reason. Hopefully, you handled the call tactfully, and didn't encourage or lead him on.
Your husband should have enough faith, trust, and respect for you to know that you wouldn't do anything to hurt him.
2007-05-31 12:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to pick up the phone just because someone called. But anyway wouldn't you be pissed if the shoe was on the other foot
2007-05-31 12:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by the_monamayfair 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get caller ID, or screen your calls. If you don't want to talk to him don't, and you new husband will be relieved, when ties are cut too.
2007-05-31 12:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by hcw_07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's pissed at anyone, it should be your ex--husband. Get caller ID and don't talk to him.
2007-05-31 12:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by merrybodner 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is nothing wrong to stay friends with people you ve dated be4
jelousy is not good do something convincing to show him that you care just about him
2007-05-31 12:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, change your phone number.
2007-05-31 12:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋