Marriage & Divorce - 4 June 2007

I recently heard from a friend that my husband thought some girl he played poker with was "hot" and that he might have a pic of her, I asked him in a non accusing way and he said no and got very mad. I didn't understand why he got so mad and then stayed mad. So I checked his cell phone and there it was in his outbox of his txt messages...being sent to HIS email. I don't understand, the pic is of a girl playing poker...taken by a cell phone and looks like she doesn't know her pic was taken. I don't understand why he would be taking or sending a pic of a girl from poker to his email. I don't care if you think someone is hot, that is normal, but to take and save her pic, that seems bad for a married man to do....not to mention a little creepy since it doesn't look like she is aware of her pic being taken.
Now I don't THINK he is cheating, but I don't trust him 100% anymore because its not like she is an unattainable woman. What should I do? He still has no idea that I have seen the pic

2007-06-04 23:48:52 · 23 answers · asked by swtlilblonde31 5

i am woried that if my husband comes to know about my physical relations with my byfriend on the first night.

2007-06-04 23:47:44 · 13 answers · asked by nidhisoni_22 1

we always fight, argue in so many yhings these days, no sex within 2weeks..sometime once a month....he complained bout me, i complained bout him, ...what can i do in order to survive these relationship, i want to keep it, but dont know how...pls send advice pls...

2007-06-04 23:16:35 · 5 answers · asked by Cristita C 1

I did all that and listened and talked about what she wanted to do together and I agreed to do it.

Now things aren't the way we thought they would be. I can not find a job where we moved to and have tried and keep trying nothing.
While I am not working and she is, I do everything around the house, everything, take care of 2 kids and walking them to school everyday, make them breakfast, give baths, getting dressed, all of it. Keeping them quite when she is sleeping.
I get mad when I wash and fold her clothes put them on the bed for her to put away and she complains when I ask her to.
I get mad because she will stay up late drinking beer and not doing anything else, she says she can not go to sleep and beer helps her to.
I said if you can not sleep then why not pick up a dust rag and wipe something down once in while or fold some clothes or something, she said that is being an old lady.
My money from selling everything is about gone and she says I work so why should I do any

2007-06-04 22:45:04 · 10 answers · asked by life is good and bad 2

My husband was a field worker & spent most of my time with my sister who was helping me not only as a sister but also as a servant. we fight whenever he comes for a vacation. this experience makes me worried whenever he plans to come home. i expect him half hearted. i love him to come & spend some time with us but we end up with fight. this makes me sick of stress and felt the pain morethan 3 times. it was my sister who was helping me to survive even our families don't know about us. He is fond of sex. whatever i may feel he needs it. if i say no for a day he will not give me a space. now i felt that as if sex is work than love. this makes me sick whenever i think of his needs. by the time we fight he insulted me badly & beaten me. he also told me that i have wasted his time. i was shocked to hear all that. I think that not only beating even insulting your love is not necessary. so i told him i need a divorce but he still claims that he needs me & wants my sister out.

2007-06-04 22:09:00 · 3 answers · asked by elsabeth a 1

I have been married less than a year. My husband started treating me like a maid, and all he does is burp fart and boss me around. Obviously this does not turn ladies on, and I let him know it. He complains that I'm not "affectionate" any more so I have to explain he needs to act like a gentleman, but this just makes him pissed off. I could care less but I am so sick of him complaing about not getting any when it's his own damn fault. Seriously, is there hope?

2007-06-04 22:07:31 · 15 answers · asked by jaime m 2

2007-06-04 21:48:55 · 9 answers · asked by Jack 6

My ex placed a temp restraing order on me, and on the papers the judge signed says no order on custody what does that mean? Is it just that no matter the outcome he cant get full custody of my children ? Is their any way to get this dismissed? Will it effect a child custody case coming up?

2007-06-04 21:48:19 · 5 answers · asked by ~*STARR*~ ~ 1

my wife and i have been together for seven years we have three children one together. we have fought really bad since january around the first of march i found out threw her ansers on here that she had been cheating on me since january with along distant guy that live at least 5 hours away ive been really miserable not getting to see my kids anymore or not as much she was the love of my life. i just wanted to know what would be the chances of her coming back to me i was just kinda hoping that this could be some sort of a mid life thing because we have been under alot of stress over kids jobs money and every day life. it just seems that we were so good together. she was realy stressed out like myself

2007-06-04 21:24:34 · 16 answers · asked by feller 1

The reason I am asking cause some folks leap into dating after a divorce so am pondering If I am to cautious here cause I left in 1999 and we were finally divorced on August 17,2000. I like being alone maybe I am really strange and my past partner is right that "NO man will ever be good enough for me."
thanks for your time and answers.

2007-06-04 21:17:44 · 9 answers · asked by ღ♥ღLaurieღ♥ღ 4

i feel like i'm not that interested to have sex with my husband anymore...and he complains about it ...i love him...but i dont see the sparks in our marriage anymore...i was so into him when we were still dating....my world evolves around him...but now i feel like im getting tired of him...we have 1 kid...i dont know what to do...please give me some good advice so i can return to my old self again...thanx

2007-06-04 20:42:40 · 12 answers · asked by flowerpower 1

He's been constantly trying to have sex with me since we got married. I'm eighteen and he's twenty-nine and before we got married I was a virgin. Now he wants sex every single day. Is it normal? What should I do?

2007-06-04 20:33:23 · 31 answers · asked by Monoi 2

When my father was ill, I had to give him IVs. One night I discovered that my parents still held hands and talked! For there they were, hands clasped talking quietly. It was obvious love. I was so moved by the beautiful sight of this tender moment. I could really feel their love. It was awesome! My parents were married 61 years when Dad died.

2007-06-04 20:28:18 · 17 answers · asked by Eudora 4

2007-06-04 20:15:12 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just want to see if all marriages go through the same struggles and problems mine does.

2007-06-04 20:00:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so my husband decided to end out marriage last month, and has been utterly vile to me since, mental, verbal and then a few nights ago physical abuse. I threw him out that night and he went and stayed in a hotel. Mentally and emotionally I have made a big step forward to us ending in that I have accepted it is over. However there is obviously alot to sort out, children, finances, house etc. So I have made some steps such as opening my own bank account, booking an apt to see a solicitor, splitting our debt etc. However he is doing nothing. He wants us to be over, but to live in the same house, make no moves to end it and verbally abuses me because I am being proactive. Anyway my intention was for him to stay away for good, but he booked himself into a very expensive hotel rather than stay with his mum or friends and we cant afford it. So I have let him move back in but have a feeling he wont try to find anywhere else. Have i done the right thing? I dont want to move out.

2007-06-04 19:59:43 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex girlfriend and i have a 4 month old together but no custody has been yielded yet but when she goes to the army reserves boot camp for 9 weeks ill have my son does will this and the fact that shes joined a part of the army help me when we do go to a custody hearing?

2007-06-04 19:55:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Matt and I have been dating/have known eachother for a month on the 11th. The 27th will be our official bf/gf anniversary. It's exactly the same anniversary as my ex-fiance and I. Matt asked me to be his girlfriend on what would have been Nathan's and my 1-year anniversary. We were supposed to get married next Saturday.

I really want to tell Matt so that he doesn't feel like I'm keeping anything from him. It's gonna be a hard day for me and I want Matt to be there for me. I also want to be able to confide in him, but I don't know how to say it. I'm unsure of how he'll react. I think of Nathan a lot and cry about him, but I really want it to work out with Matt. I keep praying that God will make us fall in love and Nathan will disappear from my mind, that what we had won't matter anymore. What do I say? How do I bring it up or where do I put it in? How much detail do I give? How will he react? How long should I wait?

2007-06-04 19:38:07 · 8 answers · asked by joshuarenae 2

I have gained 20 pounds, and I haven't been doing anything different!

2007-06-04 19:37:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been separated for half a year now but I continue to think back things that he did and the lies that he made. One particular reply that he made continues to pain and anger me every time I think about it. When I confronted him with his infidelity with a married woman, I asked him what was good or specifial about this girl. His reply was, "she is a good girl." I got so angry. My immediate reponse was "if it was your wife, me, who was unfaithful to you, would you still consider me a good girl? IF she is a 'good' girl, would she have carried on this affair with you even though she is married?"

2007-06-04 19:33:22 · 4 answers · asked by Azure 1

Married now 18 years.
We were separated 10 years ago and about to file for divorce. DH had cheated and I was done.
DH came back when he saw I was okay with life and moving on saying he was back so like it or lump it and leave. I had no where and no family to go & no job (2 little kids) so I stayed.

Now I am just not sure what to feel or think...part of me resents the way things happened. I am over him cheating.

The kids are almost out of the house and I am not sure if I will stay when they are gone.

DH is a good father, provider and a nice guy but...I just don't know.

I have stayed somewhat in contact with a male friend I worked with way back when we were separated. We only chat via email and the occasional phone call. We are only friends, I would not leave for him.

Is there a future with this marriage when the kids are gone?

2007-06-04 19:30:21 · 8 answers · asked by Wondering Woman 1

Yesterday I was fired for drinking at work. Stupid, eh? It wasn't a great job and there was a history of bullying and lack of training which I got blamed for. I was allowed to resign rather than being dismissed and I am told that any reference I ask for will not mention my misdemeanour. So on the face of it, it need never come to light that I was fired.
Apart from from feeling ashamed and embarrassed, I couldn't face telling my partner the truth so I told him I walked out. He has been wonderfully supportive as he's been telling me to do it for 3 years.
So on top of my shame, I feel absolutely awful about lying to him, and I've got to carry on doing it now until the dust settles and it fades into insignificance. It will have to extend to family and friends too.( They have all told me to walk out also. )
But basically, I'm getting sympathy and support I don't deserve and I'm a liar too.
I can't explain how bad I feel. Any words of comfort for me please? I feel better for sharing

2007-06-04 19:28:03 · 6 answers · asked by lou b 6

ok im 18 and my bf is 19 . todday he took me to a resteraunt and proposed to me . being the dummy i am i chicken out and go home . i think about it now and say god i wish i didint do that because i really want to marry him but im nervous because im so young and there are so many people out there i dont think im ready / i dont know how to break it to him that im not ready without breaking his heart

2007-06-04 19:04:39 · 22 answers · asked by CheyCheyy(: 1

I have 50% now and since her mom lives so far away I want full custody when she goes to kindergarden. I am buying a house so that she has her own room and in a nice neighbor hood. I am financially stable, unlike her mom. I am emotionally stable, unlike her mom. Most of my daughter family lives in my city.
Her mother is also crazy.

2007-06-04 19:01:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

tell your partner that you were going to go out and look for sex if it had been one month without sex between the two of you? If so, why would you tell your partner?

2007-06-04 19:00:39 · 10 answers · asked by soozemusic 6

Like/love to do in bed with your significant other? Or what excites you sexually throughtout the day? Are mommys still considered sexy to you? Let me know! I am curious!

2007-06-04 19:00:01 · 3 answers · asked by QTforlife 2

2007-06-04 18:51:55 · 16 answers · asked by Tina C 2

Hello this is really been getting to me.
Right now I put tons and tons of effort in to keeping a slim figure. But I hate being on constant alert all the time,. Sometimes I just want to buy a pack of choco chip cookies and sit in front of the computer and gorge.
But I know i'm at the prime age of looks! so I want to keep them a bit longer.
Anway What age do you think I can just forget about having a good hot body. I was thinking when i've had my first child? Does everyone think this is an okay age to relax. Or should i wait till im an old grandma? l

2007-06-04 18:48:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

he cant come back in my life .i cant live without him i accept my mistakes but he cant accept his mistakes?who was wrong may misunderstanding ,doubts,his 5 sisters and mother have ruined my home my marriage life,now i am 24 years old every thing is finished between us.

2007-06-04 18:41:08 · 7 answers · asked by life of rose 1

I found out recently that I might have a daughter out there and would like to find out the rates for Idaho on child support so I can know how much to set up payments for. I hope to do this with out having to go to court or anything. I'm not the debeat type, just want to do what is right with out being an jerk.
My ex left me while she was pregnant saying the baby wasn't mine, now she's saying it is.

2007-06-04 18:37:57 · 4 answers · asked by shdwkat2099 3