What are some problems you face in your marriage?

Question

I just want to see if all marriages go through the same struggles and problems mine does.

Answer 1

i dont know ur problems but as far as myself is concern i have faced a series of problems from all of my family which resulted a 3 year social baycott.
but nothing changed our minds and now we can say tat we are a happy couple from last 12 years

Answer 2

Fearing your spouse has been or will be unfaithful to you, worry that they will fall out of love with you, grow bored, seek another to light their fire.. There are way too many worries in all marriages! The list could go on.. BUT these are all things we must come to grips with.. Inevitably these and many other problems are and will always be a part of all marriages... Analyze each problem briefly, don't dwell on it as dwelling only hurts us worse and breaks down our self esteem and confidence.. Live each moment with your spouse being positive and loving, and if they are meant to be yours truly then they will return the same to you.. If it is a problem you can work out alone, do so.. don't spread the stress out to your spouse.. If you need their help to solve a problem, do so in a kind and positive manner, if you start feeling upset.. let it rest for awhile and hug them! Continue on the discussion at a later time when you both are not already having a stressful day.. Any problem in a marriage can be solved if you work on it together and even more can be solved it you take the task on alone... If it is something you can't work out together, seek a professional or mutual friend... Marriage is a beautiful thing, and even more so when we can spend it in love and happiness together... Good luck

Answer 3

I was ok until I realized my husband was addicted to porn. I feel that is the reason he does not want me in bed and never is physical with me. I think it is either guilt or disappointment because I don't look like those girls. I am older than he but i still look real good and I am in good health. But I am afraid he wants a younger woman or women now. He is hiding things on his computer and denying it yet he says he doesn't want a divorce. I know for a fact he has an internet connection with a woman's name on his desktop- may be part of windowslive. He says he doesn't know how it got there. I don't believe that. I feel like a piece of unwanted furniture. I have always valued my marriage but am starting to feel it is hopeless. I believe in marriage but am almost at my limit. I am tired of a loveless life. I hope other men don't treat their wives like this because it changes everything & a woman cannot trust a man who does these things. I have other posts here that will explain more. I am no prude so I don't blame myself but I don't know how to help someone who doesn't want help. When I go on the internet people always know I am married but I saw something he filled out where he marked single. Honesty & sincerety is so important in a marriage. It is a lot of work but both have to do the work.

Answer 4

I was married for 8 years, and separated off n' on for 3 of those 8 years. We are now divorcing. We had trust issues, issues with who does more around the house or who does more of the parenting, him or me? Finances, budgeting. Then I went through bouts of wondering "am I still in love?" Looking back on my marriage, I would have never married at the "ripe old age" of 22. I would have saved it for somewhere in my 30's. I don't regret my marriage necessarily, anything that's made you smile isn't something to regret. I just know I would have done things a bit differently. Divorce isn't always the answer either, but in my case it was. For better or for worse is a pretty strong vow, I'll say that. : )

Answer 5

1. Financial aspects, better say money
2. Lack of fidelity, honesty and sincerity
3. False promises before marriage, like catching the star
4. Unmatched social status, backgrounds, ethics, religion and culture
5. Lack of common sense in people (marriage in most of the cases is a compromise)
6. Low riding , -:)

Answer 6

Communication, or rather, lack of it. My husband is always busy with work, while I, with housework and kids. We are always too tired to talk or do anything. And the tendency to take one another for granted. We also tiff over the kids' education when the kids first started schooling. Luckily, financially, we are much better off now. So, one less issue to fight about.

Answer 7

Right now it is just him cleaning up after himself and we are going through a tough spot with money, but other then that right now it is good. At first we would argue over stupid things and we would blow them out of proportion because we want to be right. He went outside of our marriage once, but it's been good for awhile now.

Answer 8

I would guess without knowing they're the same. Number one, money, two, the kids, three sex drive and four the grass is starting to look greener on the other side. Am I right?

Answer 9

Fair division of labor and responsibilities
Different parenting styles
He is bewildered when I get huffy about lack of follow-through on promises he made freely
Different spending styles

Answer 10

I'm not married but statistically one of the biggest causes of marital problems that make them head towards divorce is money (or the lack of it) and cheating spouses.