tell your partner that you were going to go out and look for sex if it had been one month without sex between the two of you? If so, why would you tell your partner?
2007-06-04 19:00:39 · 10 answers · asked by soozemusic 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well......sexless days do make you horny as hell (i don't use the word frustrated)! when that happens i'll try to woo back my woman. there are many ways, after all when u are in relationship you know what clicks with her.......right?so the question isn'y how you tell her.the question should be how do u have sex with her.
you don't walk up to her & say -have sex with me or i'll have it with someone else or i'm going out to **** some one & as u didn't do it with me. do you in a relationship? No I don't.
2007-06-04 19:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a desperation statement. He/she would say if they were truly going to do it. Lack of sex in a relationship is a sign of a problem though. Is it a self esteem issue? If so then whoever it is really should work with the partner to get through it. Its a real relationship killer for some.
Good luck,
2007-06-05 02:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by boscatman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is like a warning....
i want to have sex... and i tell my wife repeatedly for a month and she continues to decline..
i tell her that i am going to go find someone to have sex with...
that means that i am having a problem with her not satisfying my sexual needs in the marriage..(which for many due to religious and moral beliefs is one of the main reasons for marrying in the first place)
so she needs to address her problem with me or i am willing to go the next step and make sure that we both know the problem ...
the bible even states that spouses have an obligation to not withhold sex as a means to manipulation... so if we are not having sex either I know why and we try to fix it or I don't know why and don't care and fix it myself
if a woman refuses to have sex with her husband for a month and does not tell him specifically why to the point that he is ready to tell her that he is going out to look for sex... SHE has created a problem...
however if it were me... the statement would be rhetorical to gauge her reaction... if i found no reaction... i would tell her i was filing for a separation... it removes any legal responsibility regarding sexual behavior during a marriage crisis... inotherwords... you are not legally guilty of adultery if you are separated...
hope this helps
2007-06-05 02:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want your marrage to end . yes . rember your vows when married for better or worse. have him see a doctor he might have a problem men dont like telling there wifes . and as far as sex outside of your marrage has things that will come back on you when least expected as well ever hear of.std.s they are very real now days i would tell you to think hard on this matter . on commiting adultry. . in my opion?
2007-06-05 02:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! I would go with Sublime's answer...
But I am not married or into any kinda relation. But it's better to sort out the problem and fix it instead of letting it grow...
2007-06-05 02:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by Naveen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i would ask her what her reasons were for not wanting sex... why would you go out and cheat just for a one nighter?
i mean, yes, a month is a long time to go without, but theres obviously a reason for it.
2007-06-05 02:12:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
what kind of guy would risk destroying his marriage just because he hadn't had sex in one month? i'm sorry, but he's not worth marrying if that's the kind of person he is.
2007-06-05 02:06:39 · answer #7 · answered by Whipping 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if it's been over two years. Is that a marriage?
2007-06-05 02:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by WILLIAM W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have enough clearance or hold high enough paygrade to know the truth or the plan.
2007-06-05 04:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way ! cheating never solves anything !
your idea is a immature one, because your mad, you cannot try to make the other person mad.
2007-06-05 02:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by Ken W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋