I just got married and my husband always wants to have sex?

Question

He's been constantly trying to have sex with me since we got married. I'm eighteen and he's twenty-nine and before we got married I was a virgin. Now he wants sex every single day. Is it normal? What should I do?

Answer 1

Sounds normal for newlyweds.
It'll change.

Answer 2

Me and my boyfriend would have sex or at least some form of sex with eachother every day if we could (we're 31). I think honestly, right now it's your age and the fact that you were a virgin. From my own experience and from what I've been told by other women my age, they didn't really start even enjoying sex until they were somewhere in their mid to late twenties. I was with my boyfriend Friday-Sunday and we had sex 5 times during that time. It's all we want to do when were together. And once we move in together...Woooohooo! I can't wait! You're very lucky to share a bed every night with someone who loves you, adores you and who finds you attractive and who always wants you. At least he isn't looking for it somewhere else. But if this is becoming somewhat of a hinderance you should probably talk to him about it and tell him what's on your mind before it REALLY becomes a problem. Good luck : ) And remember he is a MAN! Men have a very high sex drive. The air can brush past their crotch just right and BAM! They get a hard on. I remember I spoke to a doctor one time and she told me men need sex at least every 3 days. AT LEAST. She was an old fart practicing this kind of medicine for years, so I tend to believe that.

Answer 3

Well first off, you don't mention how long that you've been married. Lets assume that its just a few months. In this case, under normal circumstances, you can count on him wanting sex a little less each month until there is a happy medium. If you have been married for several years though, I would say that this man not only deeply loves his wife, but has an over hyper sex drive to match. Simply explain it to him the way that you have to us and let it be to him to make the first set of adjustments. By no means tell this man to look elsewhere for his sexual fulfilments. Even in jest as this most definately will lead to trouble in time whether he takes your advice or not. Telling him this will automatically make him feel as though you are growing tired of him and therefore aren't as sexually atracted to him any longer. I could say that you married him for better or worse so simply bite the bullet. But if he is needing as much sex as you say, I would say that either there are problems that need adressed with him by a qualified physician or he is trying awful hard to keep his wife happy. Not knowing how long that you have been married, it would be hard for me to say to enjoy it as most women are the ones who crave more also. I would simply set him down and explain things to him and see if he would be able to simmer it down a notch or two as you aren't able to keep up due to your work load. If this doesn't work, I would suggest a doctor. I wish you luck in this matter and hope litterally everything goes well.

Answer 4

Yes it is perfectly normal, you are newlyweds, and he did Waite to marry you before he had sex with you, he may have a high sex drive, but he needs to slow down,since you are a virgin, I was watching the Oprah show and Dr oz said you should have sex over 250 times a year, and there are only 365 day in a year, tell hubby to slow down and give you a chance to breath, tell him you plan on being their for him for a long time, it not going to run away.Most women are not in to sex as much as most men.

Answer 5

This is perfectly normal, but if it upsets you, you need to talk with him about it. When my husband and I first got married, it was sometimes 2 or 3 times a day! 25 years and 3 kids later, and not so much. Enjoy being with him! By the way my husband is 13 years older than me!

Answer 6

Every single day.. that's just normal for newlyweds. Especially for a 29 year old man.. that's just about their prime (as far as sex). Just try and go for it while it lasts.. you must be very sexy to him being that you are so much younger, and were a virgin. But if all this lasts longer than you're comfortable with (and you gave it your best go), you definitely have to talk to him, he can't make you do anything that you don't want to. Marriage is a compromise. Good Luck!

Answer 7

Haha, yes it's normal. I'm concerned though, why don't you want to have sex all the time? My god, I wasn't married when I had sex for the first time and all I wanted to do was have sex after that haha, when my husband and I started dating, I'd lock him in my room and we'd do nothing except eat Chinese food and have sex! Our record was 9 times in one day. Man, I miss those days.

What I mean is that he'll probably stop wanting to have sex everyday so enjoy it while it lasts. And you know, just because he wants to have sex doesn't mean that you need to have sex with him. Just say that you're not in the mood. Have some self respect eh?

Answer 8

yes its normal some at the beginning do it 2, 3, more then 4 times a day some days. Obviously you were to young to get married.

Answer 9

You lucky woman!!!
Hey, it is perfectly normal for him to want to have sex every day. He is after all only 29 and married to a young 18 years old. You should tell him how you feel, though else you would not enjoy it as much as he does. I'm sure he'd understand....

Answer 10

It is very normal when you first start a sexual relationship, married or not, to be wanting sex all the time. It burns itself out in the end. I was married 36 years and towards the end it was twice a year, weakly

Answer 11

Guess what--it's very normal for your husband to want to have sex with his bride--everyday. You and he are newlyweds, and since he abstained until the wedding, he's making up for lost time. Unless you really don't want to, you should have sex with your husband. Sex and intimacy are such a beautiful part of marriage, enjoy it.