Marriage & Divorce - 8 June 2007

We have been married for 14 years. He says he loves me so much and I believe him. we have 2 kids and we work hard. both have good jobs. Something annoys me and that is, he turns his head for every girl passing him. Even in the parties he keeps looking at girls. what does it mean. does it mean he is unloyal or will be or he is lying that he loves me.

2007-06-08 22:15:28 · 22 answers · asked by lost-in-love 2

all the trust...then i thought that is what we should have in freidnship?i tired of this and do you i should trust no one anymore?is this normal when people break our trust?what do i gain from this lesson?shoul di not friend that person?ignore?isnt that bad?

2007-06-08 21:31:17 · 5 answers · asked by truth set free 1

2007-06-08 21:07:19 · 17 answers · asked by TOOL68 1

She is Jatt(From Malika Sherawat community) and I'm Brahman(From Atal Bihari Vajpayee community).
Wat will I do?

2007-06-08 20:44:00 · 20 answers · asked by sexy_guy 1

today was my stepsons 10th birthday and she put a picture of him in the local paper and it read love mom,bubbs,which is her boyfriend and dad which is my husband and family my husband wasnt to happy about it???

2007-06-08 19:45:08 · 13 answers · asked by jewels 2

I need to know where to go look for child support owers!?!?

2007-06-08 19:45:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious.

2007-06-08 19:40:33 · 47 answers · asked by JC 1

he makes everything into such a competition and I end up so stressed about it, that I NEVER fun ever because I am so worried about how the outcome will be.... I am sick of it.. Don't know what to do???? Will I ever have any fun too....

2007-06-08 19:21:08 · 6 answers · asked by almostready 2

One week ago my husband went camping with his friend(male) whom I dont really like. My husband called me from the mountains to talk to me, and his friend was yelling and cussing him out the whole time we were on the phone, telling him to get the *&%$ off the phone with me. so he did and said hed call back later. The next time I heard from him he told me he was comming to get his stuff and I needed to find my own way to get mine and our 2 kids stuff out of the house. He couldnt take it anymore, he was done. two days later he says he made a big mistake and wants us to come back.

2007-06-08 19:10:36 · 16 answers · asked by J H 1

i found out my husband enrolled in a sex website to meet other women in the area for "just sex visits". i had a problem with him cheating in the past. im 4 months pregnant and i want to leave. we were married in SC and now live on base in FL. it will be 2 years sept. he claims i will only get $250 a month in child support if i leave. i dont know what im entitled to or how to go about this. he is an e-5 in the AF. does anyone know what i can do to make this as easy as possible on myself. i want to get out ASAP. about a month ago he was searching online "how to enduce a miscarriage". im trying to get out of a sticky situation, any information would be very helpful. thank you :)

2007-06-08 19:00:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-08 19:00:30 · 8 answers · asked by lishon77 1

My children's mother is an GFE. Has anyone ever experienced one?

2007-06-08 18:55:17 · 17 answers · asked by kali 1

My soon to be ex-wife asked me to leave the house about 2 weeks ago. I thought things were over but she is now calling my friends to find out about any news that she can. She even went thruogh my cell phone to get phone numbers of people that I work with to find out info. She has a phone bill and she also used that to contact some friends. She tells people that she wants to be with me but she does cray stuff behind my back. She even told the daycare, where my 2 year old daughter attends that not to let me pick her up. She talks nice to me and all but these things she does really makes me wounder about her. What could she be up to and what does she want to accomplish?

2007-06-08 18:52:19 · 14 answers · asked by martin s 1

this may sound so stupid but my husband belches all the time and it's setting a bad example to my daughter, she's 4 and she's going to start thinking it's okay. but every time i confront him about it he laughs it off. i want him to at least say excuse me. it's almost as if he deliberatley makes it loud and obnoxious and it's a constant thing. what's the deal with men?

2007-06-08 18:33:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

sorry to say this but , I have a secret, and I want to share with you,but don't judge me.,,I am married (unhappily) for 111/2 years and well I have been seeing someone special for 7 years, and well he has eveything that my husband lacks, and well do you think I should just tell my husband about this??? just to let you know my husband has a very bad temper, and well lets just say I won't go down without a fight,,,just answer my question truthfully,,,

2007-06-08 18:17:56 · 24 answers · asked by E.M. 4

Im 25 and my husband is 32. Im with him for 5 years. We are now living together for 5mths. All these 5yrs, Im the one who need to start everything. He never show interest. He take good care of me like an angel. But Im 25, I need it but hate to start it by myself all the time. Ive a nice body and most of the guys find me attractive. Whats wrong with him?

2007-06-08 18:15:49 · 29 answers · asked by shygal 2

So lonely? For real, have you ever been so alone?

2007-06-08 18:01:09 · 14 answers · asked by jacah5 3

they have 3 children and they really want there mom and dad togethere i know that he really love her but she moved on with her life he said that he love me to i just need someone help dont know what to do i love him and his kids will they grow out of this or should i move on

2007-06-08 17:45:22 · 11 answers · asked by browneyeak39 1

2007-06-08 17:38:40 · 17 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

2007-06-08 17:20:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

at least you get it regularly, openly, from any store, without guilt, and whenever you want.
:)
do you agree?

2007-06-08 17:02:54 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend's husband abuses her. Physically the most I have seen/heard is him pushing her and grabbing her arm. Emotionally though, it is rough. He yells and screams at her. He doesn't let her spend time with me without calling every 20 minutes. He expects her to attend to his every little need with no acknowledgement of what she does. He told her that she cannot go back to school "for the sake of the familyI" and he also won't let her work (which isn't really a problem at the moment b/c she is about to have her baby within the next few weeks. When I am around her, he ignores her and gives her mean looks just b/c he doesn't like me. I talked to her about how I feel and she seemed to understand and feel the same way, but she said that she couldn't leave b/c she couldn't make it on her own. The next day, she said everything was great between them and that he wasn't abusive. I am afraid of how he may become in the future to her and the baby... What can I do??

2007-06-08 16:58:53 · 30 answers · asked by killersharktale 2

so a couple of the guys loaded pallets on the p/up to bring them to the fire. They were down in the BACK of my dads pasture.My husbands foot got caught in one the pallets and he fell and twisted his knee.He went to wk until he could not stand it anymore and i finally convinced him to go to the Dr. They ultimately did and MRI and he has a torn miniscus and severe strained ligaments.We are a close family or atleast I thought we were. I called my dad and told him we may have to file a claim on his homeowners ins and he freaked out on me.He has owned his place for 30 yrs and has had MAYBE 1-2 claims that I know of. He said some really hurtful things to me and acted like my husband meant to hurt his knee out there. My husband is a supervisor @ his work and has NEVER missed a day of wk hardly ever.But we live paycheck to paycheck so I thought my dad would WANT to help out. I honestly dont know if I can get over this.We have health ins but it wnt pay for my husb time off wk 4-6 wks plse help

2007-06-08 16:27:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, Ok....my husband TRIES to be know it all. (like most men)..We have a one year old son. I am a stay home mom, so in essence i have created a schedule for feeding, napping, etc. I have been sticking to it...dinner at 5:30-6, plays, snack, bedtime around 8...so far so good. BUT tonight, my husband had this IDEA that he should take our son out for a walk...well, like most babies, movement puts them to sleep, esepecially when they havent slept since 2 this afternoon. so, of course, after dinner, at 6:30, he took him for a walk and he TOOK A NAP for an HOUR...so, of cousre, when he came home, he didnt want to go to sleep until after 9...AND of cousre, our son ONLY wants ME to put him to bed....He also does it while i am feeding him..OH you should try, this, that....DO i go to HIS job and start "trying to make things easier for him???"
anyone else have these annoyances?? thanks for listening to me vent!!

2007-06-08 16:15:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband just left to return to Iraq. He was home on his leave for two weeks after only 2 1/2 months there. Now he has about another 12 months to go before he gets to come home. I don't think he will have another leave in that time. I miss him so much already, and I am afraid for his safety. We have been married for only about a year and a half, and most of that time we spent apart due to Basic Training, AIT, etc. This is his first deployment. I'm trying to be strong, but don't quite know how to make time pass quicker. I know this question has been asked many times already by different people, but does anyone have any suggetions on how to cope, and how to make this easier for him as well? Anybody in a similar situation?
Please, serious answers only. This is hard enough without people being jerks about it.
Thank you

2007-06-08 16:14:11 · 20 answers · asked by Jessica 3

I've been with my husband for 6 years total. We've been married a year and a half. We do not have children, nor want any. Frankly, from the minute we got engaged (May of 2004), our sex life went in the toilet... it's been a struggle for 3 years to really have an active sex life.

Not to bore you with details but it's a mix of financial issues, relationship issues, family(in law) issues --- that have all brought this relationship to a standstill -- maybe in every way. We've had discussions on the topic, promises for things to change and they never change..

When my husband DOES want to have sex, it's only if he's drunk or have been drinking... I'm at the point now where I no longer give in to that -- and it's been 4 months since we've had sex. I checked his PDA and have found he's been surfing the web and looking at porn... When I do initiate sex - sober sex - i'm turned down, he says he's tired.

where do I go from here? therapy?

2007-06-08 16:05:05 · 22 answers · asked by big-ear01 1

I live in VA. My husband and I have been talking about divorce and separating when he comes back from deployment. I would like to move out before he comes home because we fight a lot. I want to avoid fighting in front of the kids when he gets home and when we do argue it gets really bad and i am afraid that it will be worse when he gets home. We talked about over the phone and he seems fine but I don't know what he will tell the lawyers later. I know it considered abandonment but what does that really mean and how does that affect me and what are the consequences if i do move out? I really cant be here when he comes home cause i am afraid of his temper. Do i have to wait till he comes home and kicks us out?

2007-06-08 16:01:03 · 12 answers · asked by sandy 1

He has Never paid a dime to my kids.Yet he has had 2 more since Mine.

2007-06-08 15:24:35 · 17 answers · asked by ©hisblackpearl™ 2

***Only for those who don't mind the survey***

My husband (eight years) complains that we don't have relations often enough. He feels like we're the only couple in the world who doesn't have time for this (daily). So my survey is how olften do you and your partner have relations?

I. What is your age group?

a. 18 - 24 years
b. 25 - 35 years
c. 36 - 45 years
e. 46 - 55 years
f. 56 - older

II. How often?
a. daily.
b. more than once daily
c weekly
d. more than once a week
e. every other week
f. monthly
g. who knows at this point

Please be honest when answering. Feel free to comment.

As for us, we are in the B group and E often.

2007-06-08 15:17:51 · 24 answers · asked by Coqui 3

I have a shopping problem and i have RESCENTLY come to that conclusion because I've spent my fiance's down payment for our house, my taxes, our rainy day money, the money he sent to purchase a new car and i've emptied out MY account... Since he has been away on assignment I need some type of comfort besides my family so i found myself at bloomingdales or on Melrose too often and in four months I have managed to spend... well i am not going to even go there, I cry thinking about it... he might not understand this when i tell him. WHAT AM I GOING TO DO?!

2007-06-08 14:54:15 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous