i lov a girl named Mannu. Should I marry her but she is from another caste?

Question

She is Jatt(From Malika Sherawat community) and I'm Brahman(From Atal Bihari Vajpayee community).
Wat will I do?

Answer 1

GOOD! Go ahead with this marriage. Don't worry Jats are very good people one of my best friend happens to be Jat, they are extremely nice & loving nature guys so you'll have a good life companion. As far inter-caste marriage is concerned most of the marriages taking place are only such & even parents agree to such marriage so it should not be much problem as you both are Hindu by religion & covered under the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 for the purpose of marriage & I hope you both fulfilled the necessary condition of age & marital status too, as the condition of not being of unsound mind & not related to each other by degree of prohibition doesn't exist in your case. So go ahead get married according to the Hindu form of marriage & don't forget to get this marriage registered too under section 8 of the said Act, so you'll have a valid marriage certificate with you that you can use in future for so many purpose one is when you apply for visa for any country that is must for you to have. Hope you understand what ever I told you here.

Answer 2

Despite the government's rather weak attempt at banning the caste system, I learned and saw recently it is still alive and well. I am not Hindu, but racism is racism despite the different words used to describe it.

If you had a child, would you want him/her to marry without any restrictions placed upon them? If so, then you should marry your Mannu. But if not, you do not deserve her.

You will be faced with some family challenges (esp since you are a Brahman) and even more from society. But if your friends and family truly love you and are concerned with your happiness, don't you think they would eventually accept her. If not, who is really missing out?

If you honestly love her with all your heart and soul turn a blind eye to that caste system and marry her. Don't worry about what may happen..... you go make it happen. I wish you a hundred years of happiness!

Answer 3

Don't you just love self-righteous Christians? Anyways, I'm not a Hindu so I can't really answer you from a religious perspective, but I do know that Mahatma Gandhi shunned the caste system and the Indian government has banned it completely. People are equal. However, I also understand the social implications of mingling with (let alone marrying) someone from a lower caste. There will be hardships involved if you decide to marry, I'm sure you've considered that. The question you should ask yourself is, do you love her enough to embrace your decision? I hope the answer is yes.

Answer 4

NO!!
The caste system is just another way of selective breeding. You are a Brahman which means your probably an Aryan, do you even know the breeding that has gone into your caste from thousands of years.

If you marry this girl you will shun your ancestors and family.

Just forget about her. It's easy love is not real anyway.

True love only exists within a family or you have spent a lifetime with a girl and been through a lot of **** whit her.

Answer 5

Let me ask you a question to you- are you in India? from your question, it seems you are.... This is from my personal experience,and lets say I have one... If you have got married in church n have been baptized, then you become a christian. You have to be baptized n get a certificate from the authority...This is for non Indian Christians for their knowledge - In India, a christian still has a cast, and in marriage of two christian cast is still an issue even though the religion doesn't support cast system. Sorry but that is a fact. As far as reservation goes, it will totally depend on the state rules, if your husband gets the reservation then so do you. I hope this helps you. God bless

Answer 6

Hinduism is not a religion. It is a culture, custom, tradition, rite and ritual. It divided humanity in 4 categories (varnas) and thousands of castes therein. Not included in these 4 are the Untouchables, worst and dirtiest than animals. A Hindu always belongs to his caste. Castes are quite absolutely unchangeable. A Hindu attains perfection (moksha) by attending the job of his caste, he born in by nature. If he adopts any other job, he is a sinner. Only Brahmins are licenced to read, study, self educate, recite sacred words and verses, attend temples, be priests, etc. If a Shudra (4th category-varna) listens the vedas and sacred verses then boiling lead is to be poured into his ears, if looks at them then red hot rods to be inserted into his eyes, if recites them then his tongue is to be cut, as taught and guided by Upanishadas.

The Indian Central and State governments' all rules, laws, acts, notifications, orders, directions, clarifications, explanations and the Supreme Court's & High Courts' several judgements always confirmed that Hindus' castes can never be changed. If possible, one from higher caste would have changed to some lower caste to avail of the government benefits and facilities given to lower caste people

Answer 7

It depends on what's important to u. No one can control who they fall in love with; but ur priorities are ur own. If ur willing to follow ur heart and marry a woman from a differnt caste, go for it. But if ur caste is more important for u, let her go. But remember, if u do get arranged, or try to fall for a girl in ur own caste, it's still starting over, so u won't know for sure for a while, if she can make u happy, and if she's everything ur looking for, and if u love her. But with this girl, if u love her, maybe she's all that u want and need, and this caste thing is the only major problem. So, u've just gotta figure out what the bigger sacrifice is, and if ur willing to make it.

Answer 8

In true love there cannot be a doubt what to do or not to do. Buddy this isn't a market that you'll choose someone bcoz she is a brahmin, or jat whatever.

If you are in true love you'll see nothing else then your love. Don't marry that girl with whom you can live, marry the one without whom you cannot live.

Answer 9

Get parents of both families involved first. Don't expect any computerised answer from them . Keep the matter lingering on and time will cure. Don't make heist if you both are interested in marring and sex has secondary role in love.

Answer 10

If Mannu, u, mannu's family and ur family all agree, u shud marry her. But remember dont go against ur family.