Marriage & Divorce - 8 June 2007

both sides feel free to answer!
Did you work things out?

2007-06-08 14:51:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

and he promises to change and he doesnt . is it time to leave.

2007-06-08 14:28:28 · 14 answers · asked by Esperanza 3

READ TO ANSWER:I don't know what to do.I ve been with him for 2yrs.His mom & sisters don't think i fit into their high society lifestyle.He's their only Son.6 months ago at his grandmom'sB/Day his mom introduced him to a white girl.Since then she is at every function we go to & never says a word to me.Her face lights up when she sees my man.Once before the tention she asked him to dance.I was standing near his mom & heard her say"they would make the cutest white babies".WHY? knowing i was next to her?2 months later she started showing up at his house just to say"HI" to him.She became a threat to me & i talked to him about it.He said,he would avoid her but his mom kept on bringing her so i moved out of his house.I told him i would only moved back if he married me.2 weeks later he proposed to me.So i moved back in but I feel like it's a SHUT UP ring.I found out that she said"she will make sure the wedding never happens".
I'm Indian(from india)28 and his 30.this girl is so subborn.

2007-06-08 14:26:04 · 46 answers · asked by Jen 1

be the right thing to do???

2007-06-08 13:51:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm dating a man in his early 50's who has never been married. We've been together a little over a year. It's been hard sometimes because he is used to his own space, his own bed, etc.. and adjusting to having me there has been difficult for him at times. He knows he is like this, and for the most part he does try to make me feel comfortable.. but is there any thing I can do to make him feel at ease without making him feel like I'm invading his space? I'm not a pushy person, I don't invade his space, but as his girlfriend, I want to feel comfortable at his place. He's been hurt before, years ago.. and I think part of it is him letting me in his house and his heart...

2007-06-08 13:50:49 · 11 answers · asked by Dee 2

what do i do... because everyone I love is rarely simultaneously ecstatic and therefore i'm never really happy :[

2007-06-08 13:48:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is in jail and is looking at serving 15 months in there.In the past he has cheated on me,left me pregnant and had his ex threaten to kill our son.do u guys think its time for payback...Like they say payback is a mutherfucka!!!

2007-06-08 13:40:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-08 13:30:24 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley. 3

I am 26 and I've been married for almost 4 years. My husband is a recovering addict with almost 1 year of sobriety. We have seperate bedrooms, never eat dinner together, and rarely spend time together. Our sex life is almost gone...I need intimacy and closeness...he says we just need a good f*#%. He knows I need much more, and is trying, but it all feels like too little too late. I am SO unhappy and this is nothing like my ideal marriage. I want someone to spend time with, cuddle with, sleep with, and share common interests with. We have none of these things. He says he loves me and can't imagine not being married to me...we are in counselling. We are both responsible for the way things are now, but I am struggling to put the effort in to make it better after years of being the only one trying while he was using drugs. I am looking for experience, advice, opinions etc...do I commit myself to fixing this, or will I always be unhappy and unsatisfied? Can he ever really meet my needs?

2007-06-08 13:28:09 · 33 answers · asked by sofrustrated 1

First of all, I absolutely adore my wife, wouldn't trade her for anything. Over the last few years she's been hanging out with women much older than her, like old enough to be her mother. She claims that she has started menopause (she's only 44) falls asleep in front of the tv every night by 10 has trouble getting up in the morning and is always tired. She's content with sitting in her chair doing puzzles for hours and never wants to do anything fun that requires physical activity (no she's not fat)
We used to have sex all the time and would go for hours (really) now she's just too tired. I bring her gifts, flowers, compliment her. Just the other day we were watching a movie and I stated how great she would look in a dress one of the actresses had on. Just a low cut evening gown, not anything trashy. She say's I would never wear something like that.

What do I do, I want the fire back.

2007-06-08 13:26:44 · 11 answers · asked by Tom S 5

heres the deal, i got married this march, things were nt exactly perfect my bf seriosuly injurerd his back and had been taking serious painkillers for the last 3 years and has gotten me addicted along the way. i am in the process of getting of of them but its not easy, we both need each other for support. but do u think we are just too reliant on each other? i feel like we ar enot indepedent from each other but we sort of bring the other down. i mean he does a lot of good things for me and i do the same but we argue a lot lately, i dont feel very happy anymore and i met aother guy at work who remind me of how it felt to be happy, not sayig i want to be with this guy, what do i do?

2007-06-08 13:16:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

can a 3-way work, between 2 that are in love and still let the other explore without ill regards or jealousness,

2007-06-08 13:15:33 · 8 answers · asked by gary s 1

I was wondering, from a married couple's perspective...

What is the most important thing you can do in your marriage to keep a strong relationship?

What is the most important thing for keeping your relationship alive after so much time together?

Also, what is a relationship killer in marriage, other than obvious things such as cheating?
Thanks♥

2007-06-08 13:13:37 · 18 answers · asked by sunshinegirl802 5

Money?. housekeeping"? who cooks ?????In laws?

2007-06-08 13:11:26 · 17 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

I need three answers

2007-06-08 13:05:22 · 36 answers · asked by missylynn2005_1829 1

Can I have more ppl answer me pls with my previous question, really would like advice especially males??

2007-06-08 13:05:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-08 13:01:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

because she is strong, but I now for a fact that those who rebel and feisty can get hit to be controlled, because the man cant take thier strenght and independence?

What do you alll think?

2007-06-08 13:01:30 · 12 answers · asked by oops ok! 3

hi, ok heres the deal.. i met this guy at work about 2 months ago, we strated out as friends and took smoke breaks and lunch together. i have abf he knows and we are not getting along and heknows that i would break uo with my bf basically for him i told him i wish my bf was like him. so i hadnt had sex in a long time with my bf of 5 years so i told this guy i wanted to have sex with him just for fun and he agreed. we did it a few times and then he went on vacation. before he went to vacatio he alway said all thses sweet thingsa to me like im beautiful and he wants me to come over to his hot tub and that he doesnt want to leave me when he went on vacation. he bought me a bracelet on vacation and called me every day. when he came back we had sex but then he strated like ditchning me for lunch and we made plans for me to come over before work but i had to sneak bc i was still with my bf then he ditched me. he knowds thing r complicated with my bf but he knows i am going to dump him

2007-06-08 12:57:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-08 12:50:34 · 12 answers · asked by Audrey J 1

i don't want this person to leave me, i'm sorry for hurting him and i do really love him. its cause i want to be already with him. and he gets scared of me, when i make or say wrong things. and i won't find anyone like him. he's been good to me and i'm ready to commit.

2007-06-08 12:50:17 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda M 1

I got a big problem my wife loves to collect coconuts she has spent our entire life savings on them sold both cars and put her father in a nursing home and sold his home. my house is filled to the rim with coconuts there every were. we can not even have guests over I am spent please help before I am out in the street sleeping in a box.

2007-06-08 12:50:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can someone who has been abusive change? do anger management classes work? now when i say abousive i dont mean beating the crap out of me, im talking losing his temper 3 times to be exact. once twisting my wrist out of anger, once throwing me accrossed a room and the 3rd was him choking me for long enough for me to be scared, then proceeding to leave after it happens... can a person REALLY change and not do it anymore? This is all over a 2 year period.

2007-06-08 12:48:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

(asides from any s*xual favors lol)

like if it was not any anniversary or any occasion, but you just wanted to give your other have a lovely treat? (just out of genuine love for them)

2007-06-08 12:46:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been together for a lil over 5yrs. and have done this back and forth games. We now have a lil one and we have straightened out a whole lot!! We are happy with our lil family and communicate a lot more than we once did.

People always ask us when we should get married.

Question is....
Why get married if we are just fine like we are now?

Does a relationship really change after marriage either for
better or for worst?

Why fix it if it "aint" broke?

2007-06-08 12:37:27 · 13 answers · asked by 90304 4

I care very much for my husband of 23 years but am questioning my feelings for him. We split up 6 years ago for around 2 years but got back together and hoped it would work. I have since found out that while we were apart he had an 18 month relationship with someone else but, he didnt tell me, i found out myself. I thought it would be fine and we could work things out but, 4 years on, i still feel terribly betrayed. He has covered up so much information that i dont feel i can trust him anymore. Also, our sex life is virtually non-existant and when i ask him why, he says its not important to him and not a problem. I have told him i feel its vital to have intimacy in a relationship - its very important to me - but he said i am making a big issue out of it. I just feel that any love i did feel is just draining away. I know i'm not unattractive - i am a barmaid in a very busy club and get lots of attention! - but the one person i want it from dismisses me. Please help save my marriage.

2007-06-08 12:24:43 · 23 answers · asked by ijustwantinnerpeace 2

I'm 54. been married for 35 years to a man 14 years older than me. I don't think I love him and sadly, don't think I ever really did. He idolizes me. I have a co-worker that I think I've fallen in love with, but he has made it clear that nothing will ever happen. He is 11 years younger than me. He was sending out signals, but I mis-read those signals. I'm devestated. Feeling very old, very ugly, very alone.
I know I need to take it one day at a time, but I am sad that I may have lost a friend. How else can I cope?

2007-06-08 12:22:03 · 6 answers · asked by shutupdeb 1

2007-06-08 12:15:27 · 10 answers · asked by zOe 1

If a child is over the age of 18 and is in college, does the parent that had to pay child support still have to pay for the tuition if the parent doesn't need to pay child support anymore? Is it that parents responsibility?

2007-06-08 12:00:24 · 9 answers · asked by agirlsintuition 2

i understand this happens when they feel hurt or not listened to. Some are worse than others. Some men are like this to but i've noticed it more in women. they turn off their feelings when they get angry or hurt and then it takes time to cool off. Do good feelings ever return after they get over it or do they hold onto it forever? For instance if you just leave them alone and don't argue with them at all, will they come back around? It's a mystery. I don't understand it sometimes.

2007-06-08 11:10:34 · 11 answers · asked by survivor 1