i don't want this person to leave me, i'm sorry for hurting him and i do really love him. its cause i want to be already with him. and he gets scared of me, when i make or say wrong things. and i won't find anyone like him. he's been good to me and i'm ready to commit.
2007-06-08 12:50:17 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like he isnt ready for this and the more you push for it the farther way he will run from you. Slowy down and back off a little bit. You have your entire life to spend with the person you love. He may just not be ready for that yet and that is understanable. You can not make him move any faster than he wants to. In fact you will just push him away. So slow down and enjoy what you have. If you cant wait and he isnt ready then you need to move on.
2007-06-08 12:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never ever change another person's actions or emotions, all you can do is to change your own. From what you have said, however, you have already let him down, and guys tend to put a great deal of value on the way a person behaves, much more than the way they talk. Right now it could very well be that he is seeing you as that ultimate demon combination, of untrustworthy and obsessed, both at the same time. Guys will run from that like the plague.
Give yourself time, go slow, be constant and true, and don't flinch from what you want ... but don't be clingy and obsessive, that speaks immaturity on your part.
2007-06-08 19:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by John B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not ready to commit. Your ready to commit for the next 15 years then you will need your space again or your mood or love will change. You have the willpower to remain loyal for a short period of time and won't be able to hold your strong feelings if your love accepts you back. If you treat women like garbage they adore you, if you treat them with respect and dignity they will walk all over you. You are clearly the bi-product of being treated in an ill-fashioned manner. Its okay for all women are such as you.
2007-06-08 19:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make or force anyone to love you. If you are a good person to him and he still has feelings for you, he may change his mind; but you can't expect someone you've wronged to love you just because you now realize you "love" them.
Be yourself and if your love is true and he loves you, you may get him back. Otherwise, understand that you blew your shot - learn from your mistakes and try not to mess with the next person's emotions.
2007-06-08 19:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by 1+1=2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you scare him there is nothing you can do. Leave him be. You will just make it worse. Unfortunatly you cant make anyone love you, if we could i would be married to Colin Farrell right now.
2007-06-08 19:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by Indiana Jonas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone love you.
I hope you learned from your mistakes for your next relationship.
2007-06-08 19:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make someone want you or love you they have to make that decision. What you can do is always be your best to him.
2007-06-08 20:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try to hypnotize him? You hurt him? What did you do? Do you deserve his love? If he did to you what you did to him, would you love him? Think about it.
2007-06-08 20:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by Ronin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that something you can't make him do is love you ...
2007-06-08 19:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋