what do i do... because everyone I love is rarely simultaneously ecstatic and therefore i'm never really happy :[
2007-06-08 13:48:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Happiness is intrinsic (from within). Focus on you for awhile. You seem to be afraid of being happiness - like some people are afraid of success.
2007-06-08 13:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are labeled as what is called Co-Dependent there is a book called Co dependent no more by Melanie Beattie GET IT walk no I mean RUN to Barnes and Nobel and get it it works wonders for me.
I am currently in therapy this is a horrible thing. You can seek help for this if you would like but please go get the book.
Best of Luck
2007-06-08 14:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to recognize that what you are saying isn't something that a normal person would do. The best lesson a person can learn is getting stabbed in the back by someone who claims to love you or be your friend... You'll learn very quickly that not everyone is your friend or likes you,,, I know it seems nice to want to feel that way, but its just not so, The fact of life is that You can't please eveyone and you need to learn to be happy for yourself
2007-06-08 13:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't possibly make everyone in your life happy. Why don't you concentrate on yourself. As you said, "therefore, I am never really happy." Start with YOU ! Good luck.
2007-06-08 14:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by Joe S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Resign yourself to a life of unhappiness and keep quiet so you will not make anyone else unhappy or get help by talking to a therapist.
2007-06-08 14:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by cptuser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to less co-dependent. Happiness comes from within you and is not anything someone can give you.
2007-06-08 13:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm really touched but you need serious help. Who made you God? Get some therapy and move on.
2007-06-08 13:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you let other peoples emotions control you? You are only responsible for your own happiness.
They are responsible for their happiness.
2007-06-08 13:53:03 · answer #8 · answered by Iron Rider 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have issues to deal with, honey. And the sooner you address them, the better !
You are only responsible for YOUR happiness or unhappiness....You cannot always act in order to make others happy or to please them.....Get therapy or counseling, please.
2007-06-08 14:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋