Marriage & Divorce - 8 June 2007

Tell me you truly exist.

I expect conflict and struggles. But I would like to hear from men and women that have marriages they are genuinely happy with. Thanks.

2007-06-08 11:09:17 · 15 answers · asked by Lane 3

I am my husbands third wife and he has two kids with his first wife and two with his second, I love him but I still don't understand why he keeps leaving the wives and with kids? Is is being selfish or what? He did grow up without a mother, his mother left them when he was eight years old, could that be the reason?

2007-06-08 11:03:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering how hard the process is to change my last name back to my maiden name...do i need an attorney or something? I live in Michigan. Thanks

2007-06-08 10:44:54 · 22 answers · asked by Jessica 3

ok been divorced for 5 yrs with a 7 yr old son.My exwife allways invites me to any party/fuction she is having for our son and invites me to go with her to any school functions.Now my ex and current wife hate each other(long story but ex is mostly to blame, jealous)Becuase of this my wife does not like me doing anything with my exwife.We(wife and i) have our oun parties for my son and i go with her to school fuctions(which pisses off my ex)We all get along for my sons sake but my wife feels we should do our oun thing with my son and she(ex) do her oun thing with him.But i have my son to think about how important is it that he sees me and his mom together at functions examples his b-day/graduations ect.or is it ok that his mom and i never do anything together for him?

2007-06-08 10:11:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents had arranged marriage and my dad cheats on her. I don't want to marry a man who I don't know and love when I marry him because he could end up cheating on me. Please help? What should I tell my parents? I want to marry someone that loves me, respects me, cares about me, kind to me, etc.

2007-06-08 09:44:36 · 19 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2

2007-06-08 09:39:12 · 27 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3

I'm not planning on doing this but I know somebody who is.

2007-06-08 09:38:10 · 34 answers · asked by Cookie Girl 3

We've been together 5 years.
We have a healthy sex life, and are happy in our marriage.
We enjoy trying new things, but havent branched out in this area before
We've talked about our boundaries and comfort areas in regard to this subject. It would be strictly myself and another woman, while he watches, hands off. We both agree that we find that idea pleasureable, and that we would respect eachothers wishes if one of us suddenly found ourselves uncomfortable for some reason.
My husband has expressed no interest in being involved with another woman, and says he would be totally happy watching.
It is something I brought up with him, and not something he is coercing me into doing.
Neither my husband nor myself have ever slept with anyone but eachother, so we have no baggage in that area.

Has anyone tried this in their marriage, been well-prepared, and still had a negative experience? I'm interested in personal EXPERIENCES, not OPINIONS or judgements. Thanks.

2007-06-08 09:35:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im sick to death of husbands and wifes asking questions and only telling one side of the story. Me and my wife have been having problems and I have seen some of the questions she has posted. She leaves out the details that she has done and is still doing. People like that are cowards and are only searching for someone else to stand by their side. These people need to grow up and face the world and tell the truth. I hope that people read this and ask questions based upon what they both are doing.

2007-06-08 09:33:32 · 22 answers · asked by Tom 1

these chicks are pretty hot and might try to steal my wife away,that's why i'm a little hesitant!! NOT GAY!!

2007-06-08 09:29:41 · 18 answers · asked by janus_09 1

They have been divorced for 3 years, she asks about him sometime, but never talks bad about him. My dad, however, calls her VERY bad names, the worst, to me and my brother. She did cheat on him when they were married, so that is a good reason to be mad, but she is still my mom and I don't like hearing it. What can I say to him?

2007-06-08 09:26:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting a divorce and feel scared and then i feel happy and then i feel lonely and all these emotions. I know i have to do it but my emotions are driving me nutty. Will it pass? Will i feel ''normal'' again? My mind knows things but my emotions are rulling me at the moment. Any advice, and comfort?

2007-06-08 09:21:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-08 09:03:09 · 41 answers · asked by SS 1

2007-06-08 08:52:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was at my neighbors house yesterday and her sister was there cursing up a storm, I don't think she has a very big vocab, but I was wondering....Men, do you find woman who curse a lot less attractive? Ladies, do you find a man who curses a lot less attractive? I ask because this woman was pretty but after listening to her for about five minutes, I couldn't wait to get away!

2007-06-08 08:30:56 · 17 answers · asked by juggalizzle 3

I Asked:

I just started dating this girl. She told me she is a very private person, and it takes a while to open up. She told me to try, and if anything I ask takes her to an uncomfortable place she would let me know that she did not want to talk about it.

The Answer I Got:

Give her some time to learn to trust you. Some people have emotional baggage that they may be having trouble getting rid of, and they'll talk about it when they are ready. Don't force the issue.

My Question:

What are some good conversation starters so I won't cross the line or make her feel uncomfortable?

2007-06-08 08:30:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

he said he will sign only if I give him custody of my lil girl, but NO WAY THAT'S HAPPENING! If he doesn't agree is it going to take longer?

2007-06-08 08:24:35 · 8 answers · asked by houston-girl 1

HE GOES IN MY E-MAIL,ETC. I THINK HE`S CHEATING ON ME & I WANT TO FIND OUT FOR SURE.

2007-06-08 08:17:33 · 25 answers · asked by doris t 1

2007-06-08 08:07:27 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

When we got married seven years ago, we bought a two-family house. We live in half,and rent the other half. It was the only way we could afford to own a home.We have one child.
Anyway, our current tenants are a man,wife and two kids.They have been there for two years. The couple doesn't get along,and the man has moved out for the second time, this time he has rented his own apartment. It is unlikely they can afford both places, as ours is a large 3 bedroom. They have always lived beyond their means,(expensive electronics, designer stuff). The husband is giving the wife child support, but it is going to be tough for her to afford our place. My husband wants to lower her rent by $100 a month for six months to help her get by. We have a car payment and credit card payment debt, and I scrimp to get by. We don't go on vacations, and live frugally. I feel it is encouraging her to stay in a place she can't afford, and we take the hit. He says he will work overtime to help out. Help!

2007-06-08 07:14:44 · 36 answers · asked by Geronimo5 3

Do people have affairs because they are failures in their career etc? They may think they are looking for sex, but actually aren't.

What do you think?

2007-06-08 07:11:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have gotten addicted to this series on hbo called big love. It is about a man who has three wives and seven kids. All of the wives are diffrent from one another, what do you think about plural marriage?

2007-06-08 07:08:42 · 23 answers · asked by misswannano 2

It is like that even on a trip who keeps my clothes. I sort of get very annoyed at times. What is the right approach for handling such issues without making anyone feel bad.

2007-06-08 06:48:31 · 12 answers · asked by Aerosoft 1

2007-06-08 06:32:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-08 05:49:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been together for 15 years. Less than 5 of those we have been happy together. And its getting worse recently.

2007-06-08 05:39:08 · 56 answers · asked by mustang3261 2

You're married and living pay check to pay check, bills are behind and the family need to eat. You have a friend who is filthy rich and he/she offers to give you a significant amount of money but you have to do what he/she wishes sexually.. Would you do it... How far would you go and If you would how would you justify you cheating?

This question is just one of those questions. It does not have anything to do with my life. What would you do?

2007-06-08 05:35:14 · 12 answers · asked by stacy_branch 2

the woman i loved is a married one she love me am divided
between love and good sense

2007-06-08 05:35:07 · 10 answers · asked by jdf 2

does it give a position/status over people not in one?

same for sororities do sorority girls have a status over non-sorority girls?

2007-06-08 05:34:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have a seven year old child and he is too sorry to pay child support all I got in the divorce was a 1994 Pontiac Bonnival he is hiding somewhere. He is claiming to be disabled but cant get any social security benifits because he has only worked 5 months of his entire life and he's 51 years old.So I cant get child support and I need my car to work It was awarded to me in our divorce but I cant find it. The police will go with me to get it but i have to locate it first. I have checked all his relatives already.

2007-06-08 04:41:21 · 19 answers · asked by SR 76 2