Sick and Tired of the Cowards?

Question

Im sick to death of husbands and wifes asking questions and only telling one side of the story. Me and my wife have been having problems and I have seen some of the questions she has posted. She leaves out the details that she has done and is still doing. People like that are cowards and are only searching for someone else to stand by their side. These people need to grow up and face the world and tell the truth. I hope that people read this and ask questions based upon what they both are doing.

Answer 1

there is always two sides to one story and of course the other isn't going to tell the other side because they want to be right.I know what you mean I am divorced and happily married now but my husband tells his side and makes everyone think i am a terrible person but they dont even know what happened behind closed doors so I feel your pain.

Answer 2

You should answer one of your wifes questions,and wight down what you said.Sick and Tired of the Cowards?
Im sick to death of husbands and wifes asking questions and only telling one side of the story. Me and my wife have been having problems and I have seen some of the questions she has posted. She leaves out the details that she has done and is still doing. People like that are cowards and are only searching for someone else to stand by their side. These people need to grow up and face the world and tell the truth. I hope that people read this and ask questions based upon what they both are doing.

Answer 3

yes and I know all to well what you are referring to. A friend of mine his marriage ended because of his wife getting on the internet talking to people about their relationship and only telling one side of the story these people give her advice knowing nothing about the person or their relationship.and tell her she needs to leave him and all sorts of stuff and then she does.

And now he's confused because he thought everything was OK. people like that are cowards but they are selfish too they only thik of themselves and how they look to other people. they are also one more thing they are irresponsible because they are not taking responisiblity for their actions what they did to cause things to go wrong.

People if you are having relationship problems either A talk things over with one another you know COMMUNICATE.
or B go to a counsler somewhere where both of you are present and talking about your problems. Don't come to the internet because all you get are people who don't know anything about you or your sitaution giving you advice on what you need to do. Doing this is unfair to you and your partner because the problem doesn't get solved it only gets avoided or bigger.

Answer 4

If you're here to receive fair and just treatment, from either other posters or the board operators, you have come to the wrong place.

The upside is anyone with a brain knows many of the viewpoints here are presented to make the poster appear in the best light possible.

Answer 5

I think that if you and your wife are having that many problems, you should be seeing a counselor, not posting questions in a forum like this one where all you get are opinions, and many of those come from children who really don't know much of anything about how a real relationship works, much less how one works successfully.

Answer 6

Yes, often people leave many details out. That's why the answers are based entirely on what has been asked in the one specific question.

Answer 7

Ah, you have hit on something here, but is anyone listening?

A couple things however, first, one of the key signs of maturity is when a person can see not only their own point-of-view, but the other person's as well.

Second, have you also noticed that most of the questions in here could be answered by a simple: "Talk to them" ???

Answer 8

You tell em, Fred. Paris Hilton is going back to jail. She was last seen crying in the back of the patrol car. Details at 6:00.

Answer 9

I completely agree! I'm a marriage counselor and I see this every day. All too often couples will come in and bicker and try to get me to side with them.

Sad. You make a good point though. Good luck with your wife.

Answer 10

I know there are always two-sides to every story. I sometimes look at the poster's previous questions. They can be very revealing and one-sided.