Marriage & Divorce - 9 June 2007

My ex-partner of five years and father of my child have been split for 18 months. We moved into new relationships very quickly after ending it, both admitting they were rebound relationships to help us get over eachother, problem is it never worked. A few weeks ago we had a good catch up after months of little contact and had a few more good catch ups after that (if you know what I mean), we both admitted we were still in love with each other. I ended my rebound relationship and he was about to end his and we were going to try again! Till one morning his partner said to him that she hopes his dream does not come true as he had been talking in his sleep saying he loved me and not her, later that day she told him she was pregnant! I don't know if it is true or whether she had an idea we were going to try again and is doing this out of desperation. Should we still try again or what? Please help I am at a loss of what to do, I know I love him but can we get over this?

2007-06-09 21:07:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had her when I thought I would die. She's a darling. She loved her high school class mate but I married her off to a rich cousin. She never forgave me. Her husband is very tiring man. He will not accept his deficiency. She's trying to get away from him but he's holding her tight. I never thought this would happen. I love her so much and she wont let me see my grand children! serves me right. So there u go!

2007-06-09 20:00:54 · 8 answers · asked by Robin 1

I split with someone I was with over a year and a half ago. I found someone else, had a child since then, and THOUGHT I had moved on. I still dream about my ex and sometimes catching myself think of that person. When we were together, I really thought I was in love and now that it's been over a year, I really believe that. How long has it taken you to get over an ex? I don't talk to or call that person but so much in my life reminds me of them.

2007-06-09 19:04:08 · 5 answers · asked by JC 1

2007-06-09 18:18:42 · 11 answers · asked by tolitltim 1

My partner has 2 kids..16 and 11..I have been with her for 8 yrs. I teach, she works retail, so the hours are opposite..I always get stuck taking care of the kids..she told me that it was my responsibility to take care of them, I stated it was my responsibility to help. Well, tonight she informed me that she was taking her employees out to dinner on tuesday, at 9pm. I asked if it was going to be a late night, she stated she didn't know. I told her that I wished she would have asked if I minded keeping the 11 yr old who has ADHD, since I am with everyday, ALL day. She told me she shouldn't have too, that I am not her parent. That it was getting my permission for her to go. I do all the cooking, cleaning, yard work, taking the kids to EVERY appointment. I am tired and I can't get her to talk without taking it personal. She states that I think she is awful. I don't I just think she is selfish. I have given for 8 full yrs and would like a thank you rather than me assuming. Am I wrong?

2007-06-09 18:13:02 · 23 answers · asked by luvnmyboxer3 1

2007-06-09 16:13:38 · 6 answers · asked by ezgoin_newyorker 2

This last year my husband has done some very hurtful things to me . No cheating but other stuff . I don't know if I am just hurt and it will take time to heal or if I am falling out of love with him . I feel I hate him more hten I love him and I don't want to spend as much time with him as I used to . When we are talking on the phone and he says I love you i try to avoid saying it if I can get out of it . Am I just really mad and this will pass or am I falling out of love with him ? He is leaving for a week for schooling for his job and I figured I guess that will help me sort out my feelings but anyone else can help me ?

2007-06-09 15:38:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

A kiss makes the heart young again and wipes out the years...

2007-06-09 15:00:10 · 21 answers · asked by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7

And leave me alone?

2007-06-09 14:26:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-09 14:19:58 · 19 answers · asked by ThanksJustWondering 2

About two years ago, when I was 4 months pregnant I found out my husband was cheating with my best friend of 13 years. We seperated but we were still hanging out and being intimate. He decided to move across country and I followed of course because I thought we could work things out and I wanted father for my daughter, it's now 2 years later and I have a second daughter and my husband is still being selfish, from what I know he's not cheating but he is only thinking of himself in that w/ a newborn he sleeps more than me, he doesn't take the initiative to help out with housework or even take care of me when I am sick.

He's also never apologized for what he did, at the time he said he never slept with her only kissed her and so that doesn't constitute as cheating!!! HELLO! I need some advice because I feel so stupid for trying to stick this out even though he treats me like **** one day then acts like everything is cool the next!

Should I go back home or keep trying?

2007-06-09 13:56:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-09 13:49:27 · 23 answers · asked by Pike 1

me and my husband got sparated 2 yrs back.i am living with my child in pakistan and my parents support us.my husband in usa gets child tax credits even though he is not supporting him.is it legal? he did a marriage fraud and now harrass me that if i ever tried to come to usa he will treat me very badly.what should i do ?? he did same with his ex wife and now getting ready for a new marriage even though he didnt divorce me.how could i stop him from destroying someone else life??

2007-06-09 12:42:06 · 13 answers · asked by pinky 1

I'm not sure what to do. My ex-husband threatened to kill me if I go to the courts and start legal action again to get my kids he put them in a foster home yesturday. I can't afford an atterney. Is there an atterney out there who can do this pro-bonno? I'm on ssi there for don't get alot of money. There's gotta be someone out there who can help me if they knew the whole storie.

2007-06-09 12:15:38 · 12 answers · asked by rikkilynnlove 1

I am sick and tired of waking up every morning and feeling so sorry for myself.She left me and divorced me.I was a good husband,worked my *** off 12 hours a day six days a week.To be able to provide a nice life for us.I feel used and abused.She has everything i worked for.Im living in a Sh.t hole studio.And for all i know shes got another guy in my bed.Life just isn't fair.How do i get my strength and power back.I feel like she ripped the rug out from under me emotionally.

2007-06-09 12:04:49 · 20 answers · asked by Rodger M 1

I am a 32yr old woman very happily married, I have two very beautiful children, four yrs and eight yrs old. Here is the deal, my husband is an excellent lover. He makes me feel wonderful, he open doors pulls out my chair helps me out of the chair and very pasionate in bed.OMG he is my night in shinning armor........but I don't want sex. I find my husband very attractive I just don't want sex. I loath at the fact when the time comes when hubby is wanting sex. Not that I hate having sex with him, just sex in general. I went to dr and he said my limbido is normal. So what could be causing the attiude change towards sex. I mean I had always had a pretty good drive but it is gone now. I love to cuddle and hold my husband I love to rub on him caress him but sex I HATE it. What could be causing this change towards sex? Is this normal?

2007-06-09 11:38:05 · 25 answers · asked by stacy j 4

2007-06-09 11:30:01 · 7 answers · asked by rarejewels23 1

I mean like a 1/2 hour, *Full Force* fit over something she will later admit is not important.

***THIS IS NOT A PMS ISSUE, THESE EPISODES ARE 3-4 MONTHS APART AND DO NOT SYNC WITH PERIODS***

They are extreme enough that if I had a tranquilizer gun, I would drop her. Yet when she's done she says "Oops sorry" and goes on as if nothing has happened and wonders why I'm freaked out.

Is this a *Chick thing*? is it a mental illness?
I was just wondering if anyone else has experienced anything like this?

With the exception of these rage fits , she seems to be fairly normal.

2007-06-09 11:19:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-09 10:57:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

your spouce???????????

Why cant you just hug your child ?

2007-06-09 10:55:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

our children on thier cheeks sometimes.It makes me feel uncomfortable because my Dad never kissed us just hugged all of us .

My questions are

1.Is it common for Fathers to kiss thier daughters on the cheeks

2.What do you feel about kissing kids at all?


3.Did your Dad kiss you on the cheek?


4.What is your overall opinion on this question?

2007-06-09 10:52:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd especially like to hear from you married ladies. I have a wonderful wife, and I want to find a creative, thoughtful way to say I love you and I appreciate all you do for me and the kids. The problem is my job takes me away from home a lot (for example, I'll be away from home 2 months out of 12 this year). I'm going to miss our anniversary again this year. The separations have gotten fewer and farther between, and the situation will continue to improve as I move up in my career. But for now, there are still separations. I also don't have a lot of money to spend right now. So I can't afford jewelry or cruises or the like. Any ideas?

2007-06-09 10:45:10 · 7 answers · asked by historybuff33 3

I have been married for 10 years and have been a stay at home mom the entire marriage. I have 3 young sons 8yrs and younger. I want a divorce, my husband demands that if I dont loose 30 pounds (i'm not that over weight, my weight is 150 and i'm 5'7") and have sex with him 4 times a week in various public places that he will make my life miserable. My question is this, how much Allimony can i recieve so i can get a divorce and stay in my home while i go to school so I can provide for my boys. I already estimated I would get about $2200 in child support, With his Gross income being anywhere between $70,000 and $92,000 a year, what can i get for allimony in the state of arizona?

2007-06-09 10:39:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-09 10:36:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-09 10:35:15 · 8 answers · asked by akaber t 1

everything and your husband just doesn't seem to give a crap if hes there or not and he says its more easy than fighting . so what do you do when you try everything.

2007-06-09 10:26:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been seperated for 20 months and divorced for less then one month. He cheated on me after 15 years of marriage and now is with my friend who is 10 years younger then me, Problem is I still love him. We have 3 children together and he has not once came back to see them. How do we all get over him?

2007-06-09 10:15:52 · 12 answers · asked by abbie1973 1

I got married when I was 18 and pragnat. We have 2 children aged 17 and 15. And that`s sad but realise we are together cose of them only. We don`t go out together, don`t have same friends, hobbies. He drinks alcohol a lot and I can`t just stand it. Once I called the police when he was so drunk (was drinking for three days, didn`t eat much),he pushed me against wall few times and said he was going to kill me.. He`s jealous and possessive, I can`t even invite my friends home-that always coses problems.Sometimes I think it brings him pleasure shouting me on any occasion, few times a day..He just knows I don`t work now and couldn`t live at the same standart as we live now if I devorce him..Of course I`m looking for job but...not easy. I`m on a course at the moment. And feel stressed all the time.When the time of his coming back from work arrives I only think what is going to happen, shouting and alcohol again?And then he wants me to be hot girl in bed? God, I just can`t!! What shall I do?

2007-06-09 10:02:55 · 24 answers · asked by poin 1

Please answer this. I'm planning on leaving my husband & need quick advice. I've been with my husband for 2 1/2 yrs. We have been married 11 mos. We are both miserable. I would love to make my marriage work. He is my world. I react to the way he treats me, which in turn we both end up miserable. I don't trust him with reason. We have sex maybe once a week. He is heavy into porn. He jacks to that the minute I leave the house. Then doesn't want it from me. He always puts me down. I am an attractive woman. Good looking Men ask me out all the time. He always tells me I'm fat and to lose weight. I am by no means fat. I have a big butt & legs, but I am in proportion. I found numbers in his wallet of 3 x women in his past. He said they were only friends & to deal with it. These are women he had sex with. He was dating then before me.To me that's cheating. I love sex and am going nuts. I've tried talking to him. He makes me feel like I'm nothing. He abuses me in everyway

2007-06-09 09:56:30 · 28 answers · asked by Amelia 2

My wife is a bit conservative, but always willing to have a sexy evening. I want something really hot though. Any suggestions?

2007-06-09 09:37:38 · 9 answers · asked by grphxdood 1