Marriage & Divorce - 9 June 2007

2007-06-09 09:35:34 · 19 answers · asked by downwrinkle49 1

me and my ex were together for 5 years before she cheated on me yeah i was ready to ask her to marry me. but he cheated and i was curious about why the hell do i want her back in many ways my confidence was shot to hell becasue she left me for a guy who came to my house to fight me, in other words a loser immature kid who has a kid, and me im just finished college and i was faithful for 5 years. Its been about 3 weeks and part of me still wants her back, and i told er id give her a second chance i know the trem once a cheater always a cheater.
I also she once told me to move on, and ive been to,d that if i do this will really get under her skin, so im just a cnfused mess becasue i dont want her to be happy id suck it 10 years she was married to the guy after all that she has done.Ive been told yeah she will come back they always do when they see what they have lost, and day by day im getting stronger but it just i love her but i really want her to see what she lost.

2007-06-09 09:31:47 · 26 answers · asked by dodgers10 3

I posted a question 3 weeks ago(U ve to read it to understand this now) i got great advice here.This is what happened after.2 days later we met for dinner just the 2 of us & things were great.so we ve been kind of seeing eachother.This tuesday was supposed to be our 1st intimate night.While we were midst of our foreplay at his house,there was a knock.He got up & said"don't move keep that position".Then i heard"what are you doing here?why didn't you were coming?" a woman's voice replied"surprise baby" Intermediately I jump off the bed,got my clothes on & sat up.He said to her"you ve to go to a hotel".They started fighting.I was ready to go home i knew this was trouble,so i got out & she looked at me & said"is that why i need a hotel room"& he said"yes".she said"do you know we are getting married". i looked at him & he said it out loud"NO we are not".She was crying & ended up leaving.I left few mins after her.he sent me flowers the next day& said he's not with her.what should i do now?

2007-06-09 09:31:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I will be celebrating our first wedding anniversary apart because he is in Iraq right now. He and I are still going to be getting each other gifts and want to make the day special. I have no idea what I am going to get him. I need something that I can fit in a box to send to him. I send him packages about every other week and every month I send him a page I make for his scrapbook. So something besides a scrapbook and just a care-package. Any ideas would be a huge help. Thanks!

2007-06-09 09:27:22 · 10 answers · asked by Super Wifey 3

Does the chapel submit the license to the county to make it legal or is that the responsibility of the newlyweds?

2007-06-09 09:25:08 · 5 answers · asked by OKI80 1

2007-06-09 09:20:10 · 8 answers · asked by Richard C 1

and know she wants to leave him she live in Beaumont Texas and wants to know if thier is any foundation around here where she can get help

2007-06-09 09:20:02 · 2 answers · asked by Claudia S 1

2007-06-09 08:42:38 · 29 answers · asked by SJ H 3

we are of age n same religion.but parents arent agreeing.is it possible to marry in uae without them knowing??

2007-06-09 08:32:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

where can i find neetu s

2007-06-09 07:42:25 · 18 answers · asked by liger 2

I know the first year is paper, but are there traditions for each and every year? If so, where can I find out what they are?

2007-06-09 07:07:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I friends i m 27 year old indian boy... 1 and year ago i got maried with british girl ...mar.was held in india..2 months ago i reached n england...now i find that i cant live with her.... i want divorce from her... but she dont want bcause its her 2nd marrige... i tried alot to keep this relation bt nw i cant counten. this relation....plz some 1 guide me what should i do.... even i dont want to live here in londan....

2007-06-09 06:27:02 · 13 answers · asked by Preet C 1

he has trouble satisfying me without getting aroused, but then he is in his late 40 so I think he can't keep up with me. Any suggestions? I really want the hugs touches and kisses, not just a shower or vibrator. so saaaad.

2007-06-09 05:43:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

when I was working I used to get so many compliments on how nice I look today, or curious co-workers wanted to know about me, offers to go out for coffee. I always maintained conservative attitude, of course. But now at home what my husband tells me is just not enough, I think I miss the attention I used to get.

2007-06-09 05:03:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-09 04:25:41 · 11 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

2007-06-09 04:24:19 · 5 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

1) The states are collecting child support for the women and children, but the men have to pay for legal representation if there's a dispute about vistitation rights.

2) There are no provisions with most states for paternity fraud. Men are being misled into thinking their supporting children who aren't theirs biologically.

3) Any issues regarding custody men have to pay for legal representation whereas women get legal support for free in a lot of instances.

4) Men are going to prison for their irresponsible behavior whereas women have the options of abortion and adoption.

5) Men aren't recognized as fathers by the federal government because they can only file single status even if they are single parents paying child support.

6) The continued inequitable division of property in divorce.

7) Alimony that men are paying is ludicrous.

Men are basically being required to pay for failed relationships whereas women are financially benefitting a lot of times.

2007-06-09 03:01:40 · 20 answers · asked by roughruggedraw 2

Please help! I came to USA from Mexico in '99 and marry an American. After 2 years marriagge to him, something happen to me. I got bored. I had run up the bills to 15,000 dollars. He always had to work to pay bills. I started to see someone elsse secretly, and wrecked the car while seeing my new man, and my hussband get very mad at me. My husband were mad for 2 month, but he forgave me. Everything was OK but I get bored again and go back to my lover. I got mad at my husband and lie to police that he beat me and that I want a restraint order to teach him a lesson. I had child with my lover. When the restrain order lift on my husband, he never come for me. Now my lover left with another woman. My husband has new woman. I see him singing to her karyokie in restaraunt. Now he they is asking me for divorce and if he get it, I am maybe deported. My husband do good he have money everything even home but lawyer say I get nothing for adultery. I change. I learn english... How to win him back?

2007-06-09 02:58:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

A while ago her sister, her sister's husband, and her father came round when she was in shower. She came out in dressing gown, and in front of them "adjusted" her gown. You know where you move one part over the other. Anyways, she didn't expose much, but still, it can't be natural to do that in front of people! She said she didn't realise she did it and I don't think anyone saw, but a) how do you know realise you just exposed yourself to people, and b) why didn't she set herself properly in the bathroom, like most normal people would?? I'd be convinced she did it deliberately if it wasnt for the fact her sister and dad were there also.

Anyways, there has been a few other times when she has walked naked in front of windows and when I tell her that people might be able to see she says "Oh I didn't realise" but how do you not realise that you are naked if other people could see you?? She says she's self-conscious about her body, and yet she doesnt notice she's parading it to the world!

2007-06-09 02:58:25 · 27 answers · asked by John Elias 5

2007-06-09 02:49:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I woke up this morning, and my husband wanted eggs. There were dishes in the sink from dessert last night, and I flipped and threw all the dishes out in the yard. Is this normal?

2007-06-09 02:49:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you go to a church? am sorry am stupid you don't .... but how? my brother is getting married and yesterday i was thinking and ... i was like .. how do christians get married? yaa in a church .. how do atheists get married? i asked my mama but she said she doesn't know... and if you REALLY don't believe in god then why do you get married?

2007-06-09 02:46:59 · 13 answers · asked by Donets'k 5

My friend is in the middle of a divorce and she and her husband are on the title of the car. Her son graduated lastnight so while we were there he messed with the car so it wouldnt start. Later we go to check on it and its gone we check her house and sure enough there it was in the drive with a car parked behind it. If her name is on the title cant she get the car back? He cant just take it can he? Please help me I love my friend very much. Thank You. =)

2007-06-09 02:45:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

The couple is issueless and the husband has a fixed income.They live in India.

2007-06-09 02:44:46 · 5 answers · asked by Norman M 3

Married two years,divorced for three months.Both of us are 43,known each other since we were kids.No chlderen together.Simple divorce without a good reason.I wanted counseling she didn't.I miss our freindship,talking to her on a daily basis.She says its strange and uncomfortable to be friends with someone you were married to.Is she a shallow person ? I can't understand how much she has changed.Is it just easier for her this way,maybe shes hurting in her own way,i don't know she wasn't ever really open with me when it came to her thoughts,very private and secretive.Always giving me just enough info to leave me asking for more.

2007-06-09 02:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by Rodger M 1

My husband & i have had previous trouble, but things have been going ok until recently. He has stopped showing affection any affection towards me. We haven't had sex in 3 wks(normal is 4-5's a wk). He's come home @4am & lied about where was. He was rushed to the hospital 1 night when he was @work because of scrotal pain, when I got to hospital the doctor seemed very uncomfortable with me there. His diagnosis was epidimitis. Then I found that he's been frequenting porn web sites, almost as soon as I leave for work in the morning. Some are normal porn sites, but most are transexual porn, women w/penises. This is 3rd time in 3 yrs I have found this. He wont explain it or even speak w/me about the porn. I dont even know how to handle it myself. What does that mean? I asked him if we are ok, if we are falling apart. He says no. he tells me he loves me, but only gives me pecks for kisses. We still sleep in bed together& the lack of physical intimacy is killing me!

2007-06-09 02:42:26 · 21 answers · asked by kah35 4

"And a man's need for sex is what is often misunderstood." writes Sarah Hampson in Sex, or he's your ex."So, they feel that I am perpetuating a stereotype - that all men need constant sex and that women have to accommodate this enormous sexual drive. That was not my intent. I know there are women who live in sexless marriages, too. But I wanted to take the male point of view in order to explain what I think is so often misunderstood. Men express themselves through sex. And while I am not advocating that women fulfill the physical needs of their male partners all the time, whether they feel like it or not, I do think that it is helpful to know what sex means to them.Communication is the only way to build a meaningful relationship, so if I have to start it for them, then fine. " http://www.theglobeandmail.com

2007-06-09 02:40:26 · 3 answers · asked by bruce b 3

(this has been on my chest for the past few months... *deep breath*) its called a 'mid-life crisis'... my wife gave me one strange look... "darling.. what's wrong... mid life crisis?"....SAY WHAT??
iam the only guy here?? oh and i need a mistress asap!

2007-06-09 02:39:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was married to my ex for 9 years. we fell apart june 26 2006. we went to court so he can get some time to see his 3 kids. well he's time to see his kids are every other friday night at 6pm - sunday 6pm. well for a few times he dont come and get them because he has to work sometime on the weekends and some time his mom dad sister or some one else is sick in the house and he cant come and get them. but he wants joint custody. he dont even get them the weekends when its his time most of the time. what should i do give him the joint custody? please help me out here.

2007-06-09 02:22:28 · 12 answers · asked by lil mama 1

all couples -no matter how much they love each other - disagree and get into arguments and fights. what is considered normal? when is it considered too much? once every two weeks? once every three or four days? what do you think? and based on how many arguments or fights you have , when would you decide to end it?

im intersted to know what you all think

2007-06-09 02:13:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous