I need to be intimate everyday but it's too much for my husband, what should I do?

Question

he has trouble satisfying me without getting aroused, but then he is in his late 40 so I think he can't keep up with me. Any suggestions? I really want the hugs touches and kisses, not just a shower or vibrator. so saaaad.

Answer 1

Tell your husband what you need from him. Though you don't mention exact ages, I take it there is a big age discrepancy between you. It's rare that two people's sexual drive will always be exactly the same, so compromise and a willingness to satisfy each other are necessary.Be patient with each other, loving, and caring. A marriage isn't only about sex.

Answer 2

In your forties and you have to have it everyday. This is a little much and, I know that for a fact.
Newly weds usually twice to three times a week. As you get older, once a week sometimes twice a week should be sufficient.

I would take the suggestion and see a doctor, both of you, he will make some tests for your hormones first maybe have you see a marriage consular.

I can understand the hugs and touches. My wife told me "I'm not like that" years ago, it did something to our marriage. I felt like I was stamped on. Then she had an affair, I let her come back, years ago but, it's not the same. We've idled through marriage and now we're getting old. I really don't care, one way or the other but, I wish I would have left 35 years ago and started over.

This is where the hugs and kisses left us, dead and empty.

Talk, communicate, seek guidance.

Answer 3

A guy in his late 40s should still be able to have sex on a daily basis. You two need to have an honest conversation and possibly see his doctor.

Answer 4

Can't you get him to pleasure you in an alternative way if his part isn't able to do it? Get him to hold the vibrator or something??

Answer 5

He needs vi agar

Answer 6

The only solution I see, is to learn to control it....like the rest of us have learned to do, when our mate was not affectionate.

Answer 7

Buy a toy!!