when I was working I used to get so many compliments on how nice I look today, or curious co-workers wanted to know about me, offers to go out for coffee. I always maintained conservative attitude, of course. But now at home what my husband tells me is just not enough, I think I miss the attention I used to get.
2007-06-09 05:03:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is this attention your looking for going to lead to other misdeeds, I think so, sooner or later. Is this what your looking for?
This is stinking thinking you know, your headed for trouble. You sound like your a little spoiled and your not getting what you want at home so??
I would forget it before you head for trouble.
2007-06-09 06:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While innocent compliments don't mean you're being unfaithful, the emotional attachment you may have and crave from the people could be considered an emotional affair, and this could ultimately lead to cheating.
You're insecure, and need to work on your self-esteem. After a while, your work compliments won't be enough either, and you'll be wanting more and more, and getting more and more involved with a co-worker. Not good.
Instead, work on your relationship with your husband. Get closer to him, tell him your wants and needs.
2007-06-09 14:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's normal. You used to work and then now have to be at home. We all need some bit of attention and not just from our spouses. I won't deny that i enjoy that kind of attention. Why dont you try joining a gym or a dance class. Something that doesnt take too much of your time but atleast you get to meet people (the opposite sex as well).
2007-06-09 12:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever I am uneasy about my motives regarding a decision (like, in your case, to go to work to get the attention you perceive you do not get at home), usually I am doing something for the worng reason...And I have found that something which is not "right" to begin cannot produce positive results...It's only logical.....
2007-06-09 12:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going to work to seek attention from others is not healthy. Your self-esteem is seriously lacking. Get into some counseling either alone or with your husband to get back on track.
2007-06-09 12:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just setting yourself up for trouble. Maybe you should try dressing at home what you would dress like at work and see what happens
2007-06-09 12:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you think
2007-06-09 12:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by nightryder28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋