Marriage & Divorce - 13 June 2007

Pre requisites for wedding.....

2007-06-13 23:41:46 · 16 answers · asked by breezystar123 1

however he is still married to his ex who has moved out. but shes not over him she wants to get back together and when i asked him if he still loves her he said i love her but no im not in love with her. i asked him if he wanted me to leave this led to him crying and asking me not too.
However she calls him all the time asking to help her buy a car or bring the cat round etc it such a difficult situation.
One day shes angry and shakes my hand and sais no hard feelings well done and another day shes crying to him.

I love him more than anything in the world and would give up everything to be with him and i expected things to be difficult but i just want some advice as to how to cope with this. Ive tried talking to him saying how hes there everytime she clicks his fingers but he just gets upset. its hard to put all these feelings into this! please help?

2007-06-13 23:28:28 · 9 answers · asked by mog 1

2007-06-13 22:51:37 · 12 answers · asked by mbogho m 1

in addition to my previous Question .i have decided to leave him, even my parents also agree with my decision but ask me to wait.my husband and i applied to migrate to the west. according to my parents, i should wait so i can go that country were my sister also resides. mum says after the divorce atleast you and your sister will be together. plus you will have a better opportunity to move on with out the eventual societys mud slinging. i live in the gulf at the moment and i know the society here is very closed and look at a divorced woman very unkindly. i know i will face the same problem if i return to my native land. i have been living in the gulf since i was born. i cant find the strenght to return to my homeland and start afresh. my parents are old and worry about the time wen they would have passed on. that is why they want me to put up with my husband till the time i reach america. they say atleast you have a fighting chance over ther to start your life afresh

2007-06-13 22:49:32 · 3 answers · asked by chaos_infinity1982 3

she sais she doesnt but she is lying

2007-06-13 22:18:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

was given the opportunity to cheat, do you think he would?

Also,

have you ever tested him?

2007-06-13 22:07:39 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ gina ♥ 4

wife discovers her husband is cheating for over a year with a co-worker. they have 3 kids; she's at home; he has 2 home based businesses - 1 of which or both of which is heavily dependant on her handling for him. Give options but keep it short.

2007-06-13 22:01:39 · 5 answers · asked by Brown'n 5

My husband and I are constantly fighting and getting back together. During our last "break" I applied for a position that would take me 2 1/2 hours away from where we live now. I would know no one and be starting fresh. We made up kind of yesturday and I got a call today to say I have an interview. Should I go?? I am so confused. I dont want to miss out on a great opportunity BUT I dont want to break my husbands heart either. What if we have another fight in a month????? Do you know what I mean?????? What should I do. He doesnt even know I applied for this job.

2007-06-13 21:32:31 · 19 answers · asked by karena k 4

Last night me and my bf decided its over.Alot has happened and its time to call it a day.Any advice on life after a long relationship?

2007-06-13 20:02:40 · 26 answers · asked by princesspooi 2

2007-06-13 20:02:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

just pick up and go. I really thought that only happened in movies. I wonder what happen, sure there were fights and some disagreement but never to the point where i thought he would just pick up and go. I can't stop thinking why he left with no explaination. At this point if i knew it was because of some one else at least i would have an answer. but the answer i am looking for why he left his daughter, he has not seen her or even call her, no letter, no email, no text. some many things. He completly abandoned us. please help me understand

2007-06-13 19:58:43 · 22 answers · asked by karen c 2

my fiance's parents said they are against us marrying due to my two sons (8 and 9) are from my past marriage. Even though we share a daughter (2 1/2 yr old) together. And we have been together for 5 yrs.

2007-06-13 19:41:43 · 23 answers · asked by ? 1

My husband and i have been married for 20 months. we were dating 2 years before we tied the knot. our sex life was great back then as we only see each other once a week. but eversince we got married, he doesn't feel aroused at all, at any time. we only have sex once every 2 months, if im very lucky. i used to be shy in asking him but nowadays i just ask him for sex and the answer is always no. we have been arguing a lot about this. his answer is a plain 'i dont know', it just doesnt wanna come up (erection). i tried everything but it just doesnt work. im 30 and he's 26. he is a vaery faithful husband. its just he had a serious problem in intimacy. the last time we really had a good kiss was ages ago. i'm terribly affected by this. thanks

2007-06-13 19:41:23 · 26 answers · asked by lisa 1

2007-06-13 19:23:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I some time looses my temper really fast on my husband and then after wards I feel very guilty. I really wanted to change myself but I am not sure where to start from. My husband and I are very happily married but because of his mom I get really angry. His mom (my mother in law) annoys me a lot. I wanted to ignore her but some times I can't. Any suggestions on how I can control my anger and also deal with my husband regarding his mom and also how should I deal with my mother in law.

2007-06-13 19:14:19 · 14 answers · asked by c 2

2007-06-13 19:10:24 · 9 answers · asked by heretoday 1

okay I need some advice. I am an engaged female, my fiance is a virgin, I am not. Even though the experience levels are different we have both agreed to wait until marriage. So this question is to Married women/men who waited until marriage to have sex.

I have never been with a male who is still a virgin. I feel lucky to have him and he me, but at the same time I feel that there might be some awkwardness because of the different level experience.

Is this normal, and is it anything like how males are with female virgins, do I need to be gentle?
Any advice greatly appreciated.

2007-06-13 19:03:10 · 15 answers · asked by zrose86 2

Why on earth would this YA person ask a question: "How do I get him to leave his wife FOR me" and she received, like 60 answers and counting, that she had no morals, was dumb, stupid and the like. I agreed with the others, and perhaps they ALL RECEIVED A MESSAGE on one of their unrelated questions that she was upset with our answers.

WHY PUT YOUR BUSINESS IN THE STREET IF YOU DO NOT WANT 'HONEST ANSWERS' ON YA? CAN ANYBODY TELL ME THAT? SHE HAD THE ''AUDACITY'' TO SUGGEST THAT I NEEDED COUNSELING.....GIRL, I AM PUTTING YOU ON BLAST!!!!!!!

FriendsF, don't take it personal, unless you know that being a 3rd wheel, and trying to 'steal a man from his family' is WRONG!

2007-06-13 18:59:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Currently live in New York, So I want to do something special and extremely romantic. Serious answers only please. Thanks

2007-06-13 18:54:45 · 10 answers · asked by Eli 3

If any husband make a litigation against his wife that his wife participated in sex before her marriage and successfully prove so, what will happen to that lady? If that lady confesses that the statement is right, will marriage be broken? I have got married according to Hindu marriage act.

2007-06-13 18:42:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, i have a bit of a dilemna. I recently got married and am moving overseas soon and my husband is in iraq. I dont often go out on weekends because i talk to my husband on the phone. And when i do go out I only go out for an hour or so. Anyway my best friend is single, and doesnt seem to understand my situation. SHe sent me an email saying :

"i only see you now every two or three weeks and its only ever for like an hour or so. i get annoyed that he wont let you spend some time with me - and then he blackmails you with saying stuff that he knows will upset you so you don't go out.
...we were like joined at the hip at one stage and i know our situations have both changed and i accept that i just feel like there is no point us even seeing each other now cause your always checking your watch and i know deep down you don't want to be there anyway."

My husband DOES let me go out. I dont go out cos i want to be there for him as much as possible. She doesnt understand. What should i do??

2007-06-13 18:34:57 · 19 answers · asked by Click 4

If any husband make a litigation against his wife that his wife participated in sex before her marriage and successfully prove so, what will happen to that lady? If that lady confesses that the statement is right, will marriage be broken?

2007-06-13 18:30:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

drop in the near future?
It's gettin to be a huge risk for both partners..
what do u think

2007-06-13 18:27:09 · 7 answers · asked by christianatths07 1

A woman's answer to one of my questions:

"The keys to every woman:

Be there for her when she's feeling crappy and show compassion; be the man.

Tell her she's attractive, hug her, and kiss her.

Tell her she's brilliant and can do anything she wants in the world.

Tell her (and show her) that she is worth the world to you!

Big generalizations, but that's about it! "

So women want all this...but do they do the same for their men..............(chirps)

2007-06-13 18:17:24 · 17 answers · asked by Guy 1

ok here we go, no family to run back to one baby and one on the way if i can carry one with all this stress and not much food or sleep. i am liveing with my fiance, i cook i clean and i work (at night) and take care of the baby in the day. my fiance works in the day and SOMETIMES does the dishes if he feels like it, he watches the baby at night (baby sleeps all night now and only one nap in the day) so he doesnt do anything at home, and does not apreciate anything i do. he complains of being so tired all the time and he doesnt do anything except work, its easy to take care of a SLEEPING baby.i am so frustrated and stressed i need some appreciation and when i tell him that he blows me off like i have attitude for no reason. so what to i do???

2007-06-13 18:17:18 · 9 answers · asked by curvy_chick000 4

I've been with my now fiance for 11 years in total. I found out that he's been talking to another girl, and when i questioned him about it he would just brush it off or say "we're just friends" but he hasn't mentioned her at all to me. so if they were just friends, why would he hide that from me. Should i be suspicious? Does anyone else think something is going on?

2007-06-13 18:16:47 · 24 answers · asked by masam19864 2

Why do women have tons of lovers in their sexual history.

And also, why are they the first to cry divorce when a guy get some on the side?

2007-06-13 18:12:31 · 9 answers · asked by Guy 1

Married once for 12 years and two other relationships that didn't work out. Now I am afraid to move on or to trust again. Where can you find an honest man now a days?

2007-06-13 18:11:54 · 12 answers · asked by grenis906 1

Please be honest and please only serious answers.

2007-06-13 18:02:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend are very much in love been together 2 years.. We both were married for almost a decade before we met and now I feel so much in love with this man.. however we both have kids from our previous marriages and, I have been a little frustrated with the situation.. I guess I want to live with him already and have our first child together. But when I bring the m word he says he knows I want that and then says we have to worry about our children we already have and that he knows I cant wait much longer. I guess I just want him to ask the big question soon.. we have an excellent relationship we love each other deeply we never argue and talk a lot about many things I can honestly say we are the best of friends, but sometimes he says he worries and is even scared, because of his ex how she would change with him once she finds out that he would marry again and try to take more money ... Do you think I should be optimistic about him asking me the big Q?

2007-06-13 17:55:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous